I don't want to work. Work is really annoying. It would be great to be a freelancer or to lie at home and do nothing. This is called enjoying life. "
Someone told me again.
In fact, it is understandable to have these ideas.
The pressure in modern society is so great that one who is careless and one who is lazy may be pushed to the bottom. You can work hard for the freedom and wealth of life, but you are afraid that you will die without regret.
No, people in the new media industry have heard the news that young men stayed up late to die these two days, and they all looked scared.
In this materialistic era, making money is actually a way of life.
No matter in what industry or position, it is not easy to do anything, which leads many people to lose their "independent" behavior in order to complete their life ideals and freedom. How happy can you be when the matter is controlled?
Everyone is living harder and harder. Is it because the public says that there is too much publicity about free life, which leads other people to pin their life ideals in the wrong direction? So many people have always said that self-discipline can be free, so what determines self-discipline?
I began to discuss this issue. Baidu's explanation of "freedom" and "independence" is:
? "Freedom": an act that can be carried out according to one's own will without external obstacles.
? "Independence" means standing alone or doing something on your own without attachment or subordination.
In this sense, "freedom" is only a superficial behavior, and "independence" is the fundamental factor that determines how much a person can achieve.
If self-discipline can make people free, then "independence" is the core of self-discipline
Your so-called "freedom" may mostly come from more exquisite imitation and reproduction.
Back to the present life, the efforts made now are often not because of spontaneous "I want to be …" or "I need …" but because of the dry survival truth: "I don't want to be eliminated by society".
Therefore, blindly follow other people's ways of keeping healthy and making money, and occasionally girls will rely on the lifestyle of loving beans or stars. Through nearly 85% exquisite imitation, they successfully applied other people's lifestyles to themselves. As a result, ten people have the same view on something, and when they see this result, they will be excited and proud to be in tune with each other.
Your "freedom" makes you lose your imagination and creativity.
This is a false freedom, a false ideal of life.
A while ago, when Tik Tok, an online celebrity, became popular, her small fans after 00 said in unison, "I want to be an online celebrity like Wan Wen's sister, and I don't want to study. Reading is useless. " There are still so many young girls who choose plastic surgery to become online celebrities, transforming themselves into idols and replicas of others' faces.
I don't know whether being someone else is because I really like it, or because I feel inferior to my own shortcomings, or because I am too obsessed with my appearance.
In modern society, if you don't study or do serious things, you won't starve to death.
But to be honest, what if the platform for holding online celebrities collapses? What if the policy does not let go of these meaningless platforms? Finally, without platform support, lifestyle has become a big problem:
No knowledge, no education and no good company;
I want to mix the music world but I don't even know the vocal skills of singing;
I want to mix in the entertainment industry, but I don't even understand the basic qualities of a simple actor. ...
In the end, you can't do what others can do. If you can't accept the gravity from heaven to hell, there is only one way out.
Fighting for freedom in all senses is also a goal, and there is nothing wrong with the efforts made for it, just don't forget to find the value and significance of this matter itself. Don't let your addicted thoughts, personalities and emotions become independent.
A person who habitually becomes a copy of others cannot create new things and interesting lives.
1946, Hu Shi said in a speech at Peking University: "You should strive for independence, not freedom."
He explained that independence is not blind obedience, deception, dependence on the portal and dependence on others. This is the spirit of independence.
From beginning to end, I thought I had gained a lot through hard work, but because I went too far, I forgot what I wanted to do and what I wanted to accomplish.
You said it was too difficult to mix society. The root cause is that you love to compare with others too much. Not everyone is suitable to squeeze into the pyramid tip, especially those who are not independent!
For people who are really alive, wealth and material are the by-products of "independence".
The truly successful entrepreneurs and capitalists are all people from Do not forget your initiative mind. Entrepreneurs, politicians and capitalists with both fame and fortune, many people's initial purpose is not to make money, but because they have something they want to do well. They can be "independent" and creative, so they can succeed.
Ma Hua Teng made Tencent, the original intention was just because he liked development and products;
Ma Ling became Mi Meng because she liked literature and writing very much, but she became famous as soon as she wrote it.
Eiko Yamashita pursues a clean and simple life and becomes a well-known sundry manager in Japan through a spontaneous "divorced" lifestyle.
The movie "The Shawshank Redemption" said: "If the heart is a cage, it is everywhere. Freedom is not outside, but inside. "
Suppose you were trapped in a prison, but the warden gave you the right to move freely in it. Would you still want to escape from a prison surrounded by thick walls? Do you want to continue this institutionalized life that seems to be free but actually abducts people?
Only self-discipline can lead to freedom, and independence can lead to self-discipline.
"Independence" means being able to create, think and explore new things. Independent people will do some things according to their likes and dislikes, instead of studying how to carry other people's things opportunistically, let alone changing ways to make themselves a perfect replica of nature.
In the new media industry on the Internet, countless startups are facing bankruptcy every day. Companies that have been established for three to five years still can't develop, because many entrepreneurs always want to make quick money by opportunism instead of making a truly stable product or technology.
Entrepreneurs don't need to work in the prison forged by their old employers to make money. This is freedom.
But in your own startup, what to create and how to make money is a big problem, which is an independent process.
Many companies can't do it, so they have been in the entrepreneurial stage and have been unable to break the cocoon into a butterfly independently.
Online comments advise you to take good care of yourself and tell you that if you don't earn millions a month after you are 30, you will lose your life. Which industry makes more money ... The pressure and contrast are so profound that those young people who graduate for three years with an annual salary of several million will have a successful career, and at the age of 27, you will start to panic.
If you can't be independent, you have to be a swinger between "freedom" and "independence".
Inadvertently, you chose "freedom" and began to live according to other people's way. Since then, you have gone with the flow, not knowing what you have gained and what kind of self-thinking you have enjoyed. I can't get out of the cage of society. ......
You always forget that there is still a long way to go in life. You are dragged forward by others before you grow up independently, and you learn to feel a better life in the pain of being pulled.
Finally, you forget the meaning of freedom and choose your own orderly life.