According to the practice of the Qing dynasty, the prince was not raised by his mother, but by an official or other concubine with elegant moral character and noble birth, in order to prevent the harem from interfering in politics!
There are several reasons for the disagreement between Mei and Princess De: 1, because Tong Jiashi raised her from birth! Tong Jiashi is Kangxi's cousin, which means Tong Jiashi is the niece of Empress Kangxi! Therefore, Tong Jiashi, Kangxi's cousin, was born in a noble family and was deeply loved and respected. After hershey's death, she was the imperial concubine of the emperor. To put it bluntly, she is in charge of the harem! De Fei, who was born as a coated slave, entered the palace in a lower position than a female convent, so when Mei was born, she was not qualified to raise her own children at all! It happened that Tong Jiashi had no son, so the emperor asked Tong Jiashi to keep him for May! It was not until Tong Jiashi's death that she returned to her eleven-year-old princess in May! Therefore, the princess has only the grace of birth, the grace of cultivation and the grace of teaching, which is very thin! 2. Parents in the world are eccentric. This is common sense at all times and in all countries. Moreover, most mothers especially love to spoil their young children, which is their natural complex. Ginza (the sixth son of Kangxi, the second son of De Fei) was very painful when he was there. Ginza died, and she naturally hurt fourteen sons (Yinzhen, renamed Ginza in Yongzheng). I want to come to Yongzheng's heart and have been worried about this. The gap between mother and son is getting bigger and bigger. And at that time, Devo was already a princess among princesses and could raise his own children! However, she was not very good about the May 4th Movement. When I was eleven years old, I knew that my mother didn't have him in her heart during the May 4th Movement, so the "moody" character was developed! Because when I was a child, but I was not taken care of, the gap became deeper and deeper, which also made Mei miss Tong Jiashi more!
3. When Yin Zhen acceded to the throne, he named Roncodo (Tong Jiashi's younger brother) as his uncle, but ignored his first uncle. This does not mean that he announced to the world that "I only recognize Tong Jiashi as my only mother". Even the fourth brother chose to visit him from three to five in the morning, basically in order not to meet the princess, because they are lovers!
4. Let's talk about Deyi again. After all, "it takes two hands to make a sound." Frankly speaking, Princess De is a person I hate most, because her eccentricity, her "ruthlessness" and her eccentricity are, in my opinion, the most cruel and vicious weapons in the world. She deeply hurt her son, and this shadow has always been with Yin Zhen. De Fei was originally a maid-in-waiting and had a low status. It was because of the birth of Yin Zhen that he was named as Aide the following year (the 18th year of Kangxi) and was later promoted to "De Fei". Therefore, according to some scattered historical data, some scholars speculate that De Fei was originally a maid around Tong Jiashi, who was taken by Kangxi and gave birth to her eldest son, Yongzheng, while Tong Jiashi, resenting De Fei's betrayal, raised Yongzheng by his side and instilled some remarks against De Fei in Yin Zhen, thus imperceptibly alienating their mother and son, and taking away alienated Yin Zhen from De Fei. Naturally, the jealousy between women will also continue to their sons. At this point, princess de is undoubtedly completely lost (it is better to be a dead man! ), the resentment in her heart is palpable. Of course, there is still no clear written data to prove this assertion, and whether it is exact or not is uncertain, but it can be used as a reference to explain the reasons for the disagreement between Yongzheng and De Fei.
5. It is really rude to do things in Germany and Italy. When Kangxi died, De Fei wanted to be martyred (in fact, she wanted to give Yongzheng a duel) and refused to accept the emperor's salute to herself. As a result, the ceremony of Deng Ji was almost impossible, which made the opening ceremony of the first ceremony of Yongzheng Dynasty so disappointing and doomed the tragic tragedy of Yongzheng Dynasty. In addition, my mother once said that Yongzheng's accession to the throne was "beyond my dreams." What does this mean? ! It's not obvious to tell everyone that he-his first son (! ) inherit the unification, even my own mother never dreamed, in fact, I just refused to admit the legitimacy of Yongzheng's accession to the throne and challenged him. In such a sinister political environment, so many political opponents are eyeing her son. Obviously, she will be manipulated by others when she says this, which will obviously push Yongzheng to the wall, but she didn't even think about it, even afraid, so she said it and did it! ! ! Such a rude and extreme experience is so obvious, if I can't get on well with her, what's more, I am as strong and famous as Yongzheng? !
Before she died, Princess De flatly said ... This problem can be viewed from two aspects. De Fei doesn't like Mei, and Mei doesn't necessarily like De Fei.
She was sent to be raised by the imperial concubine when she was born in May 4th, and she had nothing to give up, which must be regarded as the basis of her future life. It is inevitable that May is not close to her biological mother. The fourth brother is also a mother's child and has a place in front of Kangxi. Until the imperial concubine died of illness.
It was inevitable for Princess De to give up the May 4th Movement, but the birth of one child after another replaced the May 4th Movement, especially the birth of the May 4th Movement, which was a great comfort to Princess De. When eleven-year-old Mei returns to De Fei, will De Fei prefer the second son who grew up with the imperial concubine or the younger son who was raised by herself? Many children in the family know that one is long and the other is small. In the middle, grandma doesn't hurt and uncle doesn't love.
The fourth brother who returned to China must be dissatisfied with his biological mother. Originally, she was the only son of the imperial concubine, but now she has to concentrate on taking care of fourteen. Of course, there is no way to take care of Mei Rugui. As for the comments of "moody" when I was a child, it is enough to see the love of the imperial concubine and Kangxi for May. It can make a prince show his moody side in front of his emperor.
In terms of status, the imperial concubine was born noble, and the imperial concubine was born with a coat. Princess Germany will inevitably not adapt to the May 4th Movement.
As for De Fei's choice of fourteen instead of four elder brothers, it may also be due to her own family considerations.
May 4th movement was raised by the imperial concubine, who was half a child. It can be seen from the attitude of the imperial concubine's family that although the imperial concubine died, they still supported the May 4th Movement. From this perspective, the imperial concubine has more talents and stronger strength.
If you are in the upper position on May 14th, it will definitely be beneficial to the princess's family. The superiority of the May 4th Movement depends on the maiden of the imperial concubine, so that the princess will be wronged. The imperial concubine robbed her son alive, and will continue to rob her son when she dies.
Because Princess De was just a maid-in-waiting with low grade when she gave birth to Mei, she could not raise her children by herself. In addition, there is a rule in the Qing Dynasty that a prince cannot be raised by his own mother. Mei grew up beside Princess Tong until she died at the age of eleven. He had already entered Yuqing Palace to learn knowledge and had little contact with Princess De. On the contrary, she is very close to Princess Don Jia Gui. She has no children and regards him as her own son. Kangxi was also right. In addition, the fourth brother is stubborn and moody, so he has a bad temper. Children who are not close to themselves must not be liked by their mothers. And fourteen is the youngest son of Princess De, and her temper and behavior are very pleasing, so Princess De likes fourteen.
In fact, De Fei accepted the title of Emperor Yongzheng in history, but she did not accept the national emblem. Besides, Yongzheng is an older adult after all, and he is still young at the age of fourteen. How much a mother loves her little son.
Fourteen was brought up by herself and was adopted by others in four hours. Fourteen is smaller than four; I read in the history books the other day that fourteen and eight are better in history.
Because in history, it seems that the May 4th Movement was raised by Princess Tong after she was born. At that time, Princess De's status was not high, and she could not raise her children by herself. Later, she gave birth to two children, May 6th (she died when she was about 5 years old) and May14th. She gave all her energy and love to the May 4th Movement, which followed her since childhood, so she didn't like it very much.