Children are under great pressure to learn, but in fact, parents are also very distressed. But in order to make children grow into talents, parents can only encourage their children to study hard. After the children go to primary school, the teachers in the school are also doing their own tricks for the students to read good books and get good grades. In order to keep abreast of children's learning, many parents often communicate with teachers. Of course, teachers are also happy to communicate with parents about their children's situation at school.
After 90, my mother asked the male class teacher, "What are you doing?" The teacher's reply made parents fry the pot.
Xiaodong is 8 years old and has just entered the third grade. Usually Xiaodong's academic performance belongs to the upstream level, and he usually studies very hard, so his parents will not worry too much. However, since Xiaodong entered the third grade, his grades began to fluctuate and his enthusiasm for learning was not so high. Moreover, Xiaodong's mother also found that Xiaodong's efficiency in doing his homework was not as fast as before, and he often 10,1at night. Xiaodong's mother is born after 90. She usually pays great attention to the combination of work and rest, so every time she sees her son a little tired from doing homework, she will let him have a rest and cut some fruit for him to eat.
One night, Xiaodong's mother accompanied him to do his homework. It's already 12. His mother told Xiaodong to sleep first and do his homework tomorrow. Xiaodong suddenly collapsed and cried, homework must be finished, or the teacher will be angry the next day and will be fined for copying textbooks. Looking at her son's appearance, the mother felt very distressed and felt that the teacher had assigned too much homework. Xiaodong's mother thinks it's because the head teacher is male and doesn't know how to be considerate of children. Thinking that her son was still doing his homework after playing like this, his mother was very anxious, so she picked up her mobile phone and asked the class teacher, "What are you doing?" . As a result, the class teacher's reply was: get ready for bed.
As a result, the class teacher's reply made the parents fry the pot. Some parents sent photos of their children still doing homework to the group and asked the class teacher why there was so much homework, which was very bad for their children's health. The parents caused a crazy discussion. The head teacher was asked by his parents and didn't know how to answer, so he had to tell them to communicate again tomorrow.
In fact, many children often do their homework late into the night, and the study pressure is very great. Many children cried to finish their homework. Although parents feel very distressed, considering that the teacher arranges so many homework for the good of the children, they can only accompany the children to finish their homework silently. In fact, this overload of learning pressure is not very beneficial to children's learning, but it will be counterproductive and make children feel tired of learning.
Overloaded study makes children lose interest in learning.
Many children get good grades at the beginning of school, but later their grades get worse and worse. Many parents can't find the reason. In fact, a big reason for the decline of children's academic performance is that the overload of learning pressure will make children unable to cope, and children will have the psychology of being tired of learning.
The pressure of study makes children impatient.
Many children can't stand the pressure of study, and their personality will start to become impatient. I believe many parents will find that every time their children come home from school, they not only look tired, but also have a bad temper and even anorexia. Because children can't cope with such strong learning pressure, it will make children feel frustrated and impatient over time.
Therefore, whether teachers or parents, when educating children to study hard, they should also know how to combine work and rest, otherwise children will be tired of learning.