I really like watching the traffic lights at the entrance of Wanda, waiting for the countdown to start. I think I control this intersection. Under my precise control, I don't need to bask in the extra sun, so I come out with confidence every step of the way.
Everyone wants to control everything around him and let everything develop according to their own ideas, so that they can have a heartfelt sense of accomplishment, which is understandable in work and will make your work go smoothly. But if this desire spreads to life and is applied to family members, it will be a terrible disaster.
My family is a typical loving mother family in strict father. My father was the pillar of my family since I was a child. I started a small company called He Zong. My mother is a full-time wife and is responsible for the daily life of the whole family. Now, I have been working for two years, my brother has graduated, and I am looking for a job. Parents have gradually unloaded the burden of life and don't have to continue to run for life.
My father was at leisure and didn't know what to do every day, so he applied his previous desire for control in his career to his life. His criticism can be heard everywhere. "Cooking is not the right process, breakfast should be done first in the morning, and lunch should not be prepared in the morning", "Life should be organized, and things should be put back after use" and so on, from morning till night.
Finally, my mother broke out, and the symptoms that followed were insomnia, sweating and bad temper. I went to the hospital for examination and found it was hyperthyroidism. My father didn't think about it, because he thought my mother's life was because she didn't follow his rules, didn't sleep at his time, and didn't follow his eating habits. Because there is a typical example, my mother is ill and he is still fine, so everything is right.
Finally, my mother was admitted to the university for the aged and was not at home all day. She found a small piece of wasteland for her father to grow vegetables that the family ate every day, and finally solved the contradiction between them. But once they were at home at the same time, they quarreled.
In the popular idol drama, the overbearing president always makes thousands of girls fondle admiringly. Take Mr. He Da, a lawyer of Mo Law Firm as an example. He is single-minded, and his credit card was bought by buy buy. What he likes best is his strong kiss. Of course, this is the most ideal way to open the overbearing president. However, once he returns to life, a person with such a strong desire for control wants his life to follow his ideological trajectory, and he can't make mistakes. Mistakes are your problem. Once the overbearing president applies hegemony to every bit of life, do you still love it
Looking back carefully, in fact, not only the overbearing CEO, but even a weak woman often wants others to do what I think, so I think the ultimate solution is to be more considerate, understand and discuss with each other in life, so that there will be fewer quarrels.