1, ning mother's attitude towards daughter-in-law.
Because of family changes, Ning lived with his mother since childhood, and he deeply realized that it was not easy for her to bring herself up. So no matter what he does, he attaches great importance to his mother's feelings. In the gym, when the second brother asked Ning about her feelings for Ruan, he replied undeniably: "Feelings can be cultivated after marriage, and the most important thing is that his mother likes Ruan very much."
If Dong's words bind Ruan like a spell, then the mother's earnest expectation is the lingering "burden" of Ning, which also doomed the "love crystallization" of their hasty combination to be only a flash in the pan.
2. The efforts of Ning Zhiqian and Ruan Liuzheng are not equal.
Ruan Hening's love was unequal from the beginning. When they are in the sweet period, they don't feel this feeling, but as time goes by, Ruan will become more and more aware of this feeling. After the marriage, Ruan Liuzheng gave up on her own initiative. She sends her own cooking to Ningqianzhi every day, rain or shine. She tries to do housework at home, and she tries her best to create all kinds of surprises for Ning.
As a result, everything she did was inferior to Ning Qian Zhi's experiment. When her face was full of smiles, Ruan Liuzheng completely collapsed. For Ning, Ruan's love seems to come too easily. He won the girl's care, comfort and love with no effort.
3. Ruan Hening has a gap in his understanding of the works.
Ning and Ruan are one stage behind each other in education and work, and the unsynchronized work is also a reason for their marriage failure. After graduating from undergraduate course, Ruan gave up the opportunity to go abroad for further study and became Ning's full-time wife, living around her husband every day. All her emotional points change with Ning's mood and behavior.
Ning Qianzhi had just entered the hospital at that time, which was the most tiring moment in his doctor career. He is so busy with his work that he has no time to find and take care of Ruan's emotions during his daily rest. He always ignored his wife and was unable to change this state, which eventually led to their divorce.
Ning's understanding of home is incomplete.
Born in a single-parent family, Ning has a one-sided understanding of husband and wife life since childhood. He only saw his mother's independence, so he didn't know what a normal husband and wife life should be like. After his first marriage with Ruan, everything he did was to try to keep the surface normal. He doesn't understand that there will not only be sparks between husband and wife, but also emotional appeal, surprise and emotion.
Several years later, he finally sat down to talk with his father. He was silent when he learned the reason why his father divorced his mother. He knows that he thinks of marriage simply and despises his family, which is his taboo in marriage.
I heard that you like me.
I heard that "You Like Me" has a novel creative perspective and well-made content. The play got rid of the youthful love, focusing on the reunion of separated men and women, the process of two people being cured and finding a better self. Based on the mature concept of love, the setting of husband and wife is novel and interesting, which not only pays attention to marriage feelings, but also reflects the thinking of real life.
The growth route of the host Ruan is also very innovative. After a period of marriage, simple and reckless primary school girls have a more thorough understanding of love and self. She chose to say goodbye bravely, transformed herself into a better self in seven years, and successfully created an independent and attractive new female image. "I heard that you like me" not only created a vivid and three-dimensional image of urban groups, but also opened the discussion on the proposition of marriage and love.