As love guru Xi Juan once said, "Love is a game of conquest." With such a man, you will feel conquered and experience a different kind of love and happiness.
However, not all women can become the "Cinderella" of the overbearing president, and the women who can subdue them are definitely malicious characters.
They may not be peerless beauties, supermodels or "leading role rings", but they have a distinctive quality.
Observing countless women around me who can subdue successful men, I have summed up three characteristics and will tell you today.
1, kind and harmless
Please observe carefully, the biggest feature of Cinderella is kindness, not useless kindness, but kindness with slaves makes the bad guys move.
Especially happy girls around you are always considerate of others, and the greatest feeling with them is comfort.
And successful men are working hard outside and returning home is not what they want?
I have heard many men who want to divorce say that the biggest reason why they are increasingly reluctant to go home is that going home is another battlefield, with no feeling of harbor and only endless pressure.
So I want to tell all the girls that if you want to be a woman beside a successful man, you must learn to put yourself in the other's shoes.
"He's really busy recently. I'm going to practice yoga."
"He has a lot of entertainment, so I will understand more and not think too much."
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If you can understand such things more, then I think he will love you more. Of course, the premise and bottom line of these understandings is that this man is also worth doing.
For example, he will be busy, but he will not ignore your feelings, or he will accompany you to the movies and go shopping. For example, although he has a lot of entertainment, he will also report to you to reassure you.
If he can do this, then don't always ask him what other people's husbands are doing in poisoned chicken soup, give him some breathing space and give yourself some free time.
If two people want to be together, they should think more about each other. You don't want to compromise, there is no bottom line, but you really have to be kind.
Such a woman is lovely and worthy of love.
Step 2 be strong and self-reliant
Many times, men are more fragile than you think, just because of androgen, they are very reluctant to show this side, especially in front of the people they love.
And more often, in fact, women's resilience and endurance are often stronger than you think. They can bear more pressure and know how to relieve it.
Therefore, in order to be a woman around a successful man, I think the very important qualities are firmness and self-reliance.
You have the ability to make money, and you have the ability to make war decisions. If you stand next to a man, you can make him feel that he is worth millions. Imagine, who doesn't like such a woman?
To tell the truth, those women who think about how to ask for money from others every day, let alone overbearing the president, don't even bother to look at you.
Strong and independent. When you become less in need of a man, he really can't live without you.
3. Loyalty and warmth
We often see Cinderella in TV series as a standard with a man who is dead set on her. No matter what happens, this man is willing to protect her and make people cry.
However, we will see that no matter how hard and excellent this man is, Cinderella is always faithful to the overbearing president. In the end, the person who was kind to her was still kind to her, and even became her boyfriend's girlfriend, and love had a happy ending.
Although it is impossible for us to have such a perfect plot in life, your firmness is essential in a happy relationship.
Why many women are unhappy is because they don't know how to be satisfied and want everything. They want men to have money and careers, and they want men to take care of their families. They want them to be manly and bow to themselves. Such a man probably won't exist in TV series.
All the happy women I know know know exactly what they want. When they choose a man who is kind to them, they accept that he may not be able to fight for money. When they choose a man who is struggling for his career, they accept his busyness.
They never envy other people's things and don't want to leave because of greed. I think, every man wants to have such a woman, who can enjoy the splendor and wealth together, and can also experience the wind and rain together.
Dear girl, in the new year, although we may not meet an overbearing president who is unparalleled in the world, although we will not become the Cinderella that attracts much attention, we can still work harder to become the most beautiful Cinderella around our lover and our most beautiful queen.
Remember, if you are in full bloom, the breeze will come naturally. When you get better, the right person will appear. When you get better, a good life will follow you.