Middle-aged young sisters, married girls, housewives and little princesses are emerging one after another, and the puberty of modern women has reached the standard of self-definition.
Liu Xiaoqing once said that women in China give up themselves too early.
We watched Trump's 70-year-old ex-wife, ivana trump, wearing a low-cut dress with suspenders and dragging her little boyfriend to walk the dog. Can you say that she is not a winner in life? Sister Wendi Deng is wearing a bikini and leading a handsome male model for a walk on the beach. Can you say that she is a divorced woman?
Absolutely beautiful at 20, absolutely beautiful at 30 and absolutely beautiful at 40. Women of every age have their own beauty.
Sometimes, at the age of 20, she is not very sophisticated and mature, but she is loved by thousands. She can be cute and coquettish, but it's a little scary for a 30-year-old woman to continue selling cute and coquettish. A 30-year-old woman is intelligent and affectionate, and she is really an age that combines beauty and wisdom.
Girl, managing your 30-year-old will keep you absolutely beautiful when you are 45. Here are three suggestions.
The first thing: career is the foundation and economy is the strength.
Sister Lin Chi-ling has made many statements this year. Every time I see my 44-year-old sister appear beautifully in front of the camera, I feel a sense of respect.
Although many people say that her face is stiff, affected and old, I have to say that compared with her 44-year-old, her status as a woman is still good, and many women are not as good as her 34-year-old.
Lin Chi-ling's previous modeling work was still tinkering around the edges, and he didn't become a benchmark figure in the modeling field. Until 2004, he hosted the Taiwan Province Film 4 1 Golden Horse Award. In the process of awarding prizes, he showed a 30-year-old woman at her best, smiling and smiling. The 30-year-old woman's unique baby voice and her long legs of 4 1 inch are not absolutely beautiful.
Since then, Lin Chi-ling has started the model of "the first beauty in Taiwan Province Province", and her career in hosting, movies, variety shows, modeling and other aspects has been rising.
Until some time ago, she and Jerry Yan still had a compound affair, but the spectators were wondering, if Lin Chi-ling became a middle-aged aunt, would Jerry Yan still have a compound affair with her?
It is precisely because of Lin Chi-ling's fame on the Internet that his career is still strong and his economic strength is more emboldened. Such a woman is not depressed in middle age, so she can be so light.
Therefore, the first suggestion to a 30-year-old girl is that career is the foundation and economy is the strength, so she must not be fettered by age.
Don't feel that you are 30 years old anyway and have no motivation and ability to develop. Just muddle along. This is very undesirable. 30 is definitely the best age for your career to reach new heights. Don't give up your career ambition and career planning.
If there is no love at the age of 30, it is better to have a career as a spiritual pillar than to feel sorry for yourself all day and struggle with love; If you have love at the age of 30, let your career become a wonderful highlight and icing on the cake.
The second thing: health is the key, and face value is capital.
There is a saying that when I was young, I never suffered, but when I reach middle age, I will suffer doubly.
Indeed, how many girls play games and watch dramas all night when they are in their teens and twenties, and sometimes go to the midnight food store to eat kebabs or instant noodles, not to mention let them exercise and keep fit.
By the age of 30, my metabolism is not so fast, and I have more and more meat, not to mention I can't wear tights. Even ordinary clothes, you can see the traces of underwear after wearing them, and the swimming ring on your stomach greatly reduces the aesthetics.
If the skin care is not in place, spots will grow at the age of 30, which is another human nightmare for a 30-year-old woman.
So girls, if you haven't taken good care of your figure in the first 30 years, throw away those junk foods from now on and buy a multifunctional rice cooker, which can cook porridge, soup and rice, serve multiple purposes, nourish your stomach and beautify your face.
If you haven't exercised before, walk as much as possible from now on. Don't take the elevator if you can climb the stairs. Working in an office, I also cherish every opportunity to run errands. Walk more and exercise more. It would be better if you could go to the gym and find a personal trainer.
Don't think that a 30-year-old woman can only regard herself as a middle-aged and elderly aunt. With the present living conditions and scientific and technological means, 30 years old is the age when women bloom.
A 30-year-old woman should pay attention to health, eat nutritious and safe food, and pay attention to the maintenance of her face value and figure.
Anyway, we have to admit the difference between Jia Ling and Lin Chi-ling. Although Jia Ling doesn't need to rely on looks and figure to make a living, she really relies on professional strength and talent. But who really doesn't want to look good at 44 like Lin Chi-ling?
Therefore, the second piece of advice for 30-year-old girls is that they must pay attention to their health, which is capital. On the premise of ensuring good health, her face value and figure also need good maintenance.
Although I am 30 years old, my skin is still tender, convex and backward. Compared with my 20-year-old sister, I won't feel inferior, and I will have the unique confidence and amorous feelings of a 30-year-old woman, which is definitely a beautiful landscape.
The third thing: love is icing on the cake, and marriage is a matter of course.
I saw an issue of "If You Are the One" some time ago. A 24-year-old Chinese-German mixed-race boy chose a girl he secretly loves. The girl who has a secret crush is a 365,438+0-year-old girl. The girl who finally had a crush on me didn't agree to hold hands. The reason is "I am 365,438+0 years old this year, 7 years older than you. I am really anxious to get married, we are not suitable. "
Later, Morphy and Huang Lei said, how can you get married without falling in love? No matter whether the other person is 24 or 34, you can't get married hand in hand as soon as you meet.
Although the words are straightforward, they are true. Now many girls are 30 years old, and the focus of life is to find a man to marry. The biggest time investment outside of work every week is blind date, knowing all kinds of boys and getting in touch with all kinds of boys.
Actually, girl, can we do it? Don't regard love and marriage as the ultimate goal of life. We can take them as a part of life, and look for them when they are better.
With the marriage at the age of 3 1, I am also trying to improve my knowledge and ability, and at the same time recognize boys of my own level.
20 years old, nothing, only contact with boys who have nothing. Most of these boys have no life planning and development direction, and live in a muddle.
At the age of 25, I can only make a living by working, and all the boys I meet are at the same level. Busy all day for survival, occasionally know a social elite. People will think that it is a charity for me to get in touch with girls at my level.
At the age of 30, everything is just right, the career is promising, the face value is good, the body is good, and love naturally comes. I didn't pick someone else, I picked someone else.
Therefore, the third suggestion for 30-year-old girls is that instead of playing the role of virtuous, gentle and virtuous, it is better to go all out. When you stand in the clouds, you are bound to meet a boy of the same level, who will appreciate and like you.
I once read a sentence that the best marital status is not that the woman is in charge and the man is away, but that I am excellent and you are excellent. We are equal and develop together. So girls, don't look down on yourself. Love can't stop you when you want to come. We should learn to cherish ourselves.
Girls, the course of life is only one hundred years. 30 years old, everything is just right. At this age, we have seen a little of the world and experienced some personnel. We will know when a decent smile is the biggest refusal, and we will also know that a decent smile from others is also the most secret refusal.
We know what kind of life we want, we also know how many years we can continue to work hard, and we know who and what are more suitable for us.
This is the etiquette of 30 years old. Only by laying a good foundation for 30 years old will we be more indifferent when we are 45 years old, so that we will not be exhausted and dragged down by the economy in middle age.
Work hard, girls, come on, girls, 30 is the best age, the best absolute beauty.