On the eve of graduation season, in order to decide the destination after graduation early, everyone is looking for a job internship through various channels, constantly hitting a wall and continuing. Only Xiaowen takes her time and still dresses up beautifully every day to date.

I once asked Xiaowen if she was not in a hurry to find a job. Xiaowen replied: "It is not important to find a job, but it is important to find a husband. My greatest happiness is to marry a good husband. "

As Xiaowen wished, Xiaowen casually found a company to work after graduation, but fell in love seriously. Six months later, she resigned and got married and became a full-time housewife. After marriage, Xiaowen is also smooth sailing, shopping every day.

One year after graduation, everyone was tortured by going in and out of society, and the topic of chat was also some feelings of work. Xiaowen, who has no job, slowly faded out of our sight, only occasionally seeing her buy another bag in a circle of friends and where to travel.

02.

One day three years later, when I was chatting with my friends in a cafe, I met Xiaowen again. We are all excited to see our old classmates. Just then, our friend received a temporary task from the company, leaving Xiaowen and me to catch up.

"How are you?" We talk at the same time.

Later, I learned that Xiaowen found out that her husband was cheating and divorced six months ago. Small cloud patterns see I don't know how to comfort, smiled and said:

"I used to think that finding a good husband would make me happy all my life, and I have always been centered on him after marriage. I'm afraid this happiness will suddenly disappear. It took me a long time to realize that I was wrong. Actually, I can be happy myself. Why do I have to beg others pitifully? "

After marriage, Xiaowen re-consolidated his professional knowledge, study and research. Now that I work in a good company, I am naturally more attractive.

Happiness is never obtained from others. Only the happiness you give yourself will last.

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My little Z has always been my role model. Z has been dating her current husband for 8 years, and many people around her are envious along the way.

Z has been living an exquisite life, whether in love or after marriage. I worked hard, recharged myself in my spare time, and my position was promoted step by step. Now I have managed a big team. Do what you want to do, whether it's fitness, flower arrangement, painting, you will learn whatever you want. Usually, I also pay more attention to maintenance and dressing up, and I am full of vitality every day.

Z has a charming temperament and can't help being attracted to her. I think this temperament is that she lives well enough to be happy without being attached to anyone.

I often hear Z's husband vomit, "My wife is too good, and I often have a sense of crisis. I can only be twice as good to her."

I'm good enough. I don't need to find happiness from anyone at all. You are here, my happiness is doubled; I'm happy without you.

04.

Many people think that marriage is happiness when they are in love. But happiness has many meanings, and everyone's understanding is different. The happiness you want, maybe the other person can't give you.

After falling in love or getting married, it is foolish to give happiness to each other and hope that they can love themselves in their own way. What kind of happiness you want, what kind of efforts you have to make, and the happiness you get through your own efforts is really reliable. ?