Xu Li's capable and steady image and dignified hosting style won the audience's love. After bidding farewell to CCTV's big screen, she began to share her retirement life through the online platform, which attracted many fans' onlookers.
Xu Li, who has light in her eyes and love in her heart, is the first female anchor of CCTV International Channel. With the unique domineering and tenacity of Hunan people, she worked hard from a teenager in Jishou, Hunan Province, and eventually became the most popular host of CCTV International Channel.
After going through the hardships of divorce and taking the children north alone, Xu Li finally found two people who deeply loved Zhang Tianwei and met each other after a brief encounter, and they had a sincere and touching emotional journey.
Now, the couple have retired and can live the life they want, but what little-known bitterness and regret does Xu Li have behind happiness?
196 1 On August 2, Xu Li was born in a military family in Jishou City, Hunan Province. Since childhood, Xu Li has been good at singing and dancing. Her mother often says to her, "In her mother's eyes, although you are the weakest, you are the best and strongest of our three children."
When Xu Li was 6 years old, her father moved to a public institution in Changsha, and later the whole family moved to Changsha, the provincial capital. As early as when she was a student, Xu Li showed her talent in language and voice.
In high school, she often took part in city recitation competitions and won prizes. 1977, Xu Li, who was less than 16 years old, took the college entrance examination in a daze, but failed to get into Beijing Broadcasting Institute as she wished.
1978, Xu Li took the college entrance examination for the second time, but she still regretted losing the election with a gap of 0.5 points. After failing the college entrance examination for two years in a row, Xu Li, who is only 17 years old, is very depressed. She is disappointed and at a loss about her future.
However, Xu Li soon ushered in a turnaround. After seeing the tape of her second interview in Beijing Broadcasting Institute, Changsha Broadcasting Bureau thought she was a good prospect and sent her an examination notice. As a result, among nearly a thousand people who took part in the test, Xu Li stood out.
1978, Xu Li was successfully admitted to Changsha People's Broadcasting Station and began her 43-year career as a broadcast host.
Compared with several northern colleagues who were admitted to Changsha People's Broadcasting Station at the same time, Xu Li felt the gap in Mandarin. In order to make progress in her major, Xu Li gets up at 6 o'clock every morning and goes to Taiwan Province to practice her voice one hour earlier. This insistence is five years.
In order to find the standard and reference for her study, she often recorded the newspaper program excerpts broadcast at 6 am in china national radio, and compared them with the practice.
"In order to practice opening my mouth, my teeth are still open after talking to others. I was once scolded by my mother as a girl." Xu Li recalled that the professional training was almost obsessive at that time.
Because of Xu Li's strict demands on herself and long-term efforts and hard training, 1985, Xu Li won the broadcast innovation award in one fell swoop when she participated in the national broadcast host program competition, and was transferred to Changsha TV Station in the same year. Since then, he has changed from a radio anchor to a TV anchor.
After working and living in Changsha for many years, Xu Li got married and gave birth to a son with her husband. She has a house and a home, and her life is on track.
However, for Beijing Broadcasting Institute and the capital Beijing, Xu Li has always had her own pursuit. Three meals a day and a stable life of 3. 1 minute did not make her forget her dream. Xu Li's husband is a demobilized soldier. He pursues stability and doesn't like to toss. Xu Li has a strong personality and is full of enthusiasm for life.
After a long time, the couple will inevitably disagree. Coupled with Xu Li's secondment to CCTV for many years, the two have been separated from each other, and their feelings have faded. 1In late April, 992, Xu Li divorced her husband. After the divorce, her son Pete (nickname) lived with her.
A few months later, Xu Li took his son "uprooted from Hunan". As a single mother of a 5-year-old boy, she resolutely went north to pursue her life dream.
Xu Li has worked in Changsha Radio Station for 8 years and Changsha TV Station for 6 years, and has accumulated rich experience in hosting various topics.
1 99210 June1day, CCTV Chinese International Channel was launched, and Xu Li made her official appearance as the first anchor of the first program "China News".
Compared with the stability and comfort in Changsha, Xu Li's life in Beijing is very hard. Because there is no housing, Xu and his son can only live in the dormitory of the unit.
At 6 o'clock every morning, mother and son have a quick breakfast outside and send their son to kindergarten. Kindergartens usually finish school around 0: 30. 165438+. Xu Li quickly went to pick up her son by bike, then bought some snacks he liked on the way, and then locked him in the dormitory, so that she could go back to Taiwan Province with peace of mind to finish her day's work. This lifestyle has lasted for a long time.
At two or three o'clock in the afternoon, after school in kindergarten, Xu Li hurried back to the dormitory with his son. In order not to make him lonely, she put some toys beside him, locked him in the dormitory and hurried to work in Taiwan Province.
For Xu Li, whose pace is not steady, it is her top priority to do her job wholeheartedly. China News, which she presided over, took the mission of letting the world know about China and broadcast it to the whole world through satellite. This is Xu Li's dream opportunity. She must go all out to host the program.
On the opening day of 10/day, Li Xu sat on the anchor platform and said to the global audience, "Hello, audience friends! Welcome to the news program of China CCTV. " That was the beginning of China's external transmission of television via satellite, and the sense of sacredness was self-evident.
Soon, Xu Li's foreign style, international style and concise hosting style won wide welcome from audiences at home and abroad, and she also became the host representing the image of China.
Regarding the evaluation given to her by everyone, Xu Li said: "Earnestness and hard work are the core tone of my life: from the first day of my career. It never occurred to me that there is a second way to go in the workplace besides hard work and hard work. Being serious means taking things seriously, completing what you are engaged in according to professional requirements, and exploring professional rules from it, so as to achieve better and better quality than others. Efforts are to climb high and see far, and strive to surpass yourself now. My biggest reminder to myself is that people can't stop growing at any time and at any stage. Only by continuous efforts can they continue to grow and achieve self-transcendence in growth. "
At work, relying on her own efforts and talents, Xu Li seems to have a bright future. However, in life, she came home from work one day, and only her son over 5 years old was locked at home. Because I was too bored and wronged, I cut the curtains and sheets with scissors, even my own hair was cut untidy.
At this point, Xu Li is full of debt to his son. As a host, she is proud of herself, but as a mother, she feels deep remorse for her incompetence.
The son's apology didn't change Xu Li. On the basis of taking care of her son as much as possible, she put more energy into her work. Her efforts and contributions were recognized, and she won the National Government Award and the China Program Host Gold Award. Almost all the major news reports of cctv-4 are hosted by her, and she has become a well-deserved host of CCTV International Channel-Hua Dan.
With her own brute strength and unremitting efforts, Xu Li is getting better and better in her career, but in life, Xu Li is still a single mother with no sense of belonging and security. Living in the north for nearly four years has made my introverted son more eager to be cared for and cared for.
There is also Xu Li who has worked hard with her children all the way, isn't there? No matter how strong Xu Li is, she is still a woman with children.
Friends around Xu Li are very concerned about Xu Li's life. Many people introduce Xu Li to partners, many of whom are powerful, but Xu Li's criteria for choosing a spouse are clear: she doesn't care about money and status, has a suitable personality and can be good to herself and her son.
A friend of Xu Li wants to introduce Xu Li to one of his friends. He thinks Xu Li is suitable for him. However, he is worried about introducing them directly. Because of their similar personalities, they will refuse each other without in-depth understanding.
It happened that for a while, Xu Li was in poor health because of fatigue. This friend of Xu Li thought the opportunity had come. He recommended Xu Li to a Chinese medicine clinic for treatment. After the recommendation, he created an opportunity for his friend and Xu Li to meet at the clinic.
Because of his personality, Zhang Tianwei also experienced a marriage that lasted nearly 10 years. After the divorce, he lived with his parents, because his son was in his thirties and had no family, which became the heart disease of the two old people.
The encounter in the Chinese Medicine Museum made Zhang Tianwei see the other side of Xu Li beyond the screen, and he fell in love with Xu Li, who was eloquent and capable. However, Xu Li's first impression of Zhang Tianwei was not deep. She just thinks that Zhang Tianwei is tall and bearded, like a "grizzly bear".
After returning home, Zhang Tianwei, who never watches TV, started to grab the remote control. Every night, he finds time to watch China News hosted by Xu Li. His unusual behavior also aroused his parents' curiosity. One day, his mother commented on Xu Li, the host, while she was watching TV. She said: "This hostess looks steady and generous, and she is very domineering."
However, Zhang Tianwei's parents never imagined that his son's love object at this time was actually Xu Li, a steady and domineering female anchor in the TV series.
Xu Li, a 3-year-old from Zhang Tianwei, was assigned to jump the queue in the suburbs of Beijing after graduating from high school. Later, he returned to work in Beijing Construction Company. 1979 was admitted to a university in Beijing, majoring in electrical engineering. After graduation, I entered the staff school of Beijing Electric Power Construction Company and became a teacher.
Zhang Tianwei made full preparations for this interview. Xu Li was deeply impressed by his excellent speech, inner temperament and unique views and opinions on issues.
By modifying the interview draft, Zhang Tianwei won more opportunities to meet Xu Li. In the long run, Zhang Tianwei's image in Xu Li's mind has changed from a "grizzly bear" when he first met to a hipster driving a red jeep.
After several meetings, Zhang Tianwei planned to invite Xu Li to dinner, but Xu Li had to leave in a hurry because she was going back to the dormitory to cook for her son.
Zhang Tianwei and his ex-wife have no children. At this time he began to like 40-year-old children. He knew that it was not easy for Xu Li to get together, and he had to pass Xu Li's son first.
On one occasion, Zhang Tianwei asked Xu Li for coffee and said to her seriously, "My working hours are relatively free. Do you want to spend more time with Pete in the future?" ? When children are young, they are always locked in the dormitory, which will have an impact on their psychology. "
Through a period of communication, Xu Li has a new understanding of this man. He is calm and restrained, and his mind is delicate. He is really good to himself. Since Zhang Tianwei was willing to contact her children, she readily agreed.
Since then, Zhang Tianwei has made his schedule full. He concentrates on his work in the morning and tries to spare more time with Pete in the afternoon. He takes Pete to run, swim and play ball. Young Pete seldom felt the warmth and care of his father. In his heart, Uncle Zhang Tianwei brought him a fatherly warmth.
Soon, Pete will be inseparable from Tianwei. In front of Xu Li, he always said "uncle is long, uncle is short". Xu Li looked at the lively and happy son and sincerely thanked Zhang Tianwei.
1One day in March, 995, Peter suddenly said to Xu Li, "Mom, I like being with Uncle Zhang."
Hearing this sentence from his son, Xu Li's heart turned upside down. After her divorce to Beijing, her son accompanied her to suffer too much and experienced too many sufferings and bitterness that children of the same age should not have experienced.
Through long-term contact, Xu Li felt that Zhang Tianwei was a man of tolerance and responsibility. The most important thing is that he likes Pete and can tolerate his son. With this, he is a person worthy of being entrusted for life.
Xu Li was gratified by his son Pete's love for Zhang Tianwei. She sincerely thanks the man who is willing to provide warmth and support for her and her son.
At the time of seeing Zhang Tianwei off, Xu Li spoke his mind boldly. "Pete likes you very much and wants to live with you. What do you think? "
Hear Xu Li, Zhang Tianwei was overjoyed. After all this time, he just didn't get a chance to express his thoughts.
However, when Zhang Tianwei told her parents about her relationship with Xu Li, her mother expressed her concern. She said: "Xu Li is overbearing and strong. Have you considered it? "
Zhang Tianwei told his parents how he felt about getting along with Xu Li to reassure them. The two old people also turned their troubles into happiness. To tell the truth, they are also proud of having such an excellent daughter-in-law.
Xu Li thought Zhang Tianwei lived with her parents and took her children. She thinks she still needs a house.
1At the end of 1995, Xu Li bought her first house in Beijing with her savings down payment. Since then, she and Pete finally have their own home in Beijing.
1996, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei got married, and Zhang Tianwei moved into the house that Xu Li bought. Since then, Xu Li and her son not only have a home, a house, but also love and a family.
Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei have a sweet and happy marriage. With the harbor of home and the meticulous care and care of Zhang Tianwei, Xu Li's life and career are more calm. Xu Li said that she should thank her excellent husband for his calmness.
"I am very lucky to be with him. * * * He has been a great help to my life and thoughts. At home, he calls me' little cute' or' little thing'. He likes to use logic to warn me:' Don't be so fierce when you shout, there is something wrong with your logic, find your logic and come back to talk to me'. "
In addition to mutual tolerance and understanding, son Pete has also become the greatest stability in Xu Li's marriage. He finally has a family, and young Pete cherishes the love of his parents and the harmonious and loving atmosphere of his family.
On one occasion, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei quarreled over trifles. Peter, the son, is worried in his heart. After Zhang Tianwei and Xu Li went to work, Pete quietly dug out his mother's marriage certificate from the drawer of his parents' bedroom. Tear it up.
He left a small note in the drawer: "My classmate said that you can't divorce without a marriage certificate. We can't fight anymore. We should be together forever! " "
After writing the note, he deliberately made some fragments to attract his parents' attention. Xu Li came back from work to see the note, and he was speechless for a long time.
In Zhang Tianwei's complete marriage certificate, she also saw a note that read: "Dad, you must love your mother, don't quarrel with her, we will be together forever! .
After seeing these two pieces of paper, Xu Li couldn't help himself for a long time, as if this moment was suddenly stopped. Facing her sensible son, Xu Li's tears kept flowing, and the air was so quiet that she could hear the sound of tears falling to the ground.
After Zhang Tianwei returned home, Xu Li showed him two pieces of paper and a broken marriage certificate. When Zhang Tianwei saw it, he was also very shocked. He comforted Xu Li and said, "Children are really sensible. We will definitely listen to the children in the future and will not quarrel. "
After some heart-to-heart communication, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei made up. Since then, Xu Li's character has become soft and she has learned to be circuitous. She will discuss things with Zhang Tianwei at home.
After years of running-in, Xu Li and Zhang Tianwei have become the people who know each other best. They usually have different ideas. Even if they buy things at home, they will buy the same 5 Jin of rice and 2 ounces of green tea respectively. Even the varieties of tea are the same.
Zhang Tianwei always likes to hold Xu Li with one hand when driving. As long as he has a look, Xu Li will get the message and stretch out his hand.
Because Zhang Tianwei lives in Xu Li's house, his colleagues call him the door-to-door son-in-law. He once proposed to live in his own house, but Xu Li disagreed. Until 2009, Xu Licai moved to a house in Zhang Tianwei with his son.
After 20 10, Xu Li has become the most famous and popular female anchor of CCTV International Channel, and her position in the international channel has been established. Son Pete has grown up and entered an ideal university. Since then, Xu Li's life has become more leisurely.
At this point, she began to pursue life outside the anchor work. Xu Li has a good voice and likes singing. She was once amazed by songs such as Qinghai-Tibet Plateau, Pilgrim's Road and Story of a Small Town.
Besides singing, Xu Li likes writing. She has published three books, Women are an Attitude, Elegance is a Choice and Ya Kou, to share her professional experience, views on marriage and love, and life experiences with readers and fans. In the book, she expressed her rich life experience and the resulting life sentiment with rich texture and expressive words.
Sweet love, successful career and harmonious family all give Xu Li extraordinary self-confidence. She considers herself a successful professional woman. As she wrote in the book, women are an attitude, a fascinating life for successful professional women, and a power to set an example.
August 25th, 20021year is the day when Xu Li bid farewell to CCTV screen. Xu Li is psychologically prepared for retirement. He and his lover Zhang Tianwei have planned what to do after retirement. But when I am about to leave the stage of working for 29 years, I will still be reluctant to part. In the face of retirement, Xu Li told herself: "Life is like this, and farewell is farewell."
At the end of last night's live broadcast, Xu Li waved to the camera, officially marking the end of Xu Li's career. What awaits her is more free time and a broader world.
After retirement, Xu Li gave more time to her family. On her video account, she shared her happy life with her in-laws in her nineties with netizens.
In her signature, Xu Li wrote, "There is light in the eyes, clear and refreshing. Often reading, often exercising, often dating with flowers and plants, often dating from afar. " After retirement, Xu Li described herself as "endless retirement". Maybe for her, her new life has just begun.
Xu Li's life is inspirational and happy. However, besides happiness, Xu Li also has her own bitterness and regret.
After retirement, Xu Li recalled the bitter past of her son "Pete" in an interview. Her words are full of what she owes her children as a mother. In order to fight for her career, the hard experience of her son when he was young became her most bitter memory.
In addition, Xu Li also felt a little sorry for her husband Zhang Tianwei. Xu Li regretted not giving birth to her husband. She said, "It's a pity that men don't have children of their own." She said that although Zhang Tianwei never mentioned it, she thought it was a pity for her husband.
Life is not perfect. Relying on her own talent and hard work, Xu Li bravely climbed the peak in her career, gained happiness in her family and thought deeply on the road of life. Her life is enough to be an example to countless people.
For such an excellent anchor who strives for perfection professionally and is inspirational in life, I wish her eternal youth and positive energy forever.
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