Men usually say: overtime.
At first, my wife told me affectionately: Remember to have dinner at work. However, if you work overtime, your wife will be suspicious. Men will immediately look aggrieved: I work so hard and work overtime, isn't it for you and your children to live better? Otherwise, I will stay at home with you every day, and you earn money to support me! When most wives hear this sentence from men, they will feel guilty and think that they have misunderstood their husbands. When the man saw his wife, he gave up the idea of doubting him. He honestly went home to accompany his wife several times, which made her happy and continued to work overtime outside.
These days, men with some skills like to socialize outside. For men, entertainment is decent and beautiful. It seems that there is no entertainment, which is not enough to prove a man's ability and career success. Most women like men with social skills. Most of such men can earn money and bring enough material security to her and her children's lives.
As a result, smart men will put on the cloak of entertainment and openly develop extramarital affairs outside. When his wife began to resent his constant entertainment outside every night, the man defended himself better than anyone else: you think I want to do this. Then, take my wife's brother as an example, he comes home from work every day, less than 1000 a month. He always finds a place to buy daily necessities, scrimps and saves, but still can't save enough money for his children to go to college. His wife calls him a beggar every day. Do you want me to be that person? If you like, I will stay at home after work from tomorrow, cooking, washing dishes and washing clothes for you.
As soon as my wife heard it, there was no electricity. Before hanging up, she had to tell the man gently: eat more vegetables and drink less. The man was so happy that he got his wife's heart with a little wisdom.
As the old saying goes, the bottom of my heart is selfless and generous. A man who has no secrets outside will face all the phone calls calmly at home, will not be absent-minded, and will not be bossy about his wife's inquiry.
It is normal for men to have a physiological refractory period, but it is only a few days. Excluding these days, if he is a normal man, if he is always absent-minded in bed, he is indifferent to all your hints. For example, before sex, you all had foreplay, but suddenly it was cancelled. He didn't respond to your affectionate body language and affectionate eyes at all. Even sex is routine, sloppy, completely coping, and without passion. At this time, you should be vigilant. Men's infidelity often begins with boredom with their wives' bodies.
The seven-year itch of marriage is mostly sexual itch. When sexual fatigue appears, it is also the beginning of marital fatigue. At this time, men will intentionally or unintentionally look for women who can bring them passion.
When a man is suspected by his wife when he is out late or often stays late, his buddies often stand up and clarify the facts for him: he was with us that day, sister-in-law, don't worry, my eldest brother is not that kind of person, I can testify. And vowed that even if the eldest brother wants to cheat, we guys will not spare him. If he marries such a virtuous sister-in-law, if he is not satisfied, dare to move his heart to another woman and see how we can repair him.