I inquired about the type of his ex-girlfriend, and then guessed what he might like, so I learned to smoke and drink. I started dyeing my hair, getting my ears pierced, skipping classes, getting tattoos and dressing like a little sister. I knit him scarves, fold stars and buy him clothes and jewelry.
He has no money to spend. I gave him all the lucky money I had saved, but he still gave me a wide berth. This ambiguous attitude is driving me crazy. Until now, I find that I don't like myself more and more ... what should I do?
I can feel the girl's helplessness. Her heart is full of anxiety and self-denial. However, if you love a person, it's not what kind of girl he likes, so you can be what he likes.
I am too humble to get a sincere love. If you don't put yourself in an equal position, how can he see you so far?
Compared with men, women are always too emotional, putting feelings first and taking love as life. Women put too much life on love, love too deeply into the bone marrow, love too deeply, but reality often slaps her.
So women cry, why do they pay everything without regrets, but they can't get a perfect ending?
Zhang Xiaoxian said: "How beautiful love is, how hurtful it is, how intense it is, and how lonely it is. In love, a wise man and a fool may be the same person. "
Women often value love too much, love too much, work too much, girlfriend too much, and life too much. And when women value love "seriously", this kind of weight will make men breathless and eventually break up.
A person often loves too much, and what he finally gets is not eternal love, but only short and painful love.
Women should know that love is not a necessary process in life. Women should not expect too much from love, and regard love as a "necessity" but a "luxury".
Ku's divorce case, which once caused an uproar, dragged on several times. After the initial pity, netizens turned to ridicule and disdain, just because Ku Xianglin's sister-in-law Haicheng generally complained bitterly, but she never let go.
There used to be a saying like this: "Love is like pulling a rubber band, and those who refuse to let go in the end are often hurt the most."
We sympathize with Ku's injury, and we understand that she still wants to keep her love, but why can't she finally let go, let go of others and let go of herself?
Obviously, in our opinion, Ku Haicheng is such a talented woman. She is not only an actress, but also a director and screenwriter. She writes her own lyrics and music, writes novels, holds art exhibitions and holds piano concerts.
It's a pity that such an independent and wonderful woman has become the laughing stock of everyone after dinner, just because she values love too much and regards it as a necessity in life.
Jing Tian first appeared in an activity after publicly breaking up with ZhangJike. Jing Tian, who has always been smiling and conscientious, met a sharp question from the host and looked a little embarrassed, but still got full marks.
Jing Tian said that there will be ups and downs in life, prosperity and adversity, and we should face life experiences with gratitude. As for the ideal relationship in the heart, Jing Tian responded: "The ideal relationship should be to find a better and more complete self."
We don't know what happened between them, but emotionally, Jing Tian should be regarded as a woman in a good mood. She may have cried secretly, but then she can quickly put herself in her place, get her life back on track, still eat, drink and care nothing.
Adi's sister-in-law relationship with Ji Ba years ended, but it was also the beginning of her self-confidence and independence. Yi Shu once said that getting rid of a bad relationship is a woman's success. To some extent, Adi is really successful.
Without love, you can live a beautiful self. Adi likes shooting, fitness, playing basketball and traveling around the world. Not all women who break up should be labeled as "miserable".
Classmate Lingling, rich and beautiful. She likes a poor boy who thinks highly of himself and marries hard. However, a few years after marriage, after both daughters went to school, their feelings were still lukewarm.
After an operation, the other party turned a blind eye. Lingling was completely disappointed with the "male god" and was as low as dust, but she could not get a word of concern. Inadvertently seeing the sentence "Men and love make women grow old", Lingling looked at herself in the mirror and finally woke up.
Lingling no longer revolves around her husband alone, and no longer regards love as the sustenance of her life. She began to learn makeup and skin care, yoga and fitness to lose weight. She began to spend money to buy beautiful clothes for herself, and began to sign up for the Latin dance that she always wanted to learn, enriching herself and learning to please herself.
Ironically, when Lingling was preparing for a divorce, her husband, in turn, didn't want a divorce. He chased Lingling all day and asked her what she did. She would be considerate when Lingling was busy with housework. Although those sweet words came a little late, on the other hand, Lingling herself was very happy and saved her dying marriage.
Zhang Xiaoxian said, "Love him and live a good life. It is never humble to keep a person, but to live independently and strive to be a woman that anyone wants to fall in love with. "
For women, love should be regarded as a luxury. You can live without the best.
People living in the world, in any relationship, should be yourself first, and then please others.
Love yourself more than anything else.