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Yoga pose, yoga master 09-23 10:29
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Parents become role models for children who love reading.
Parents are the first teachers of the children. If parents love reading, children will also love reading. Parents have the most direct influence on their children, so I hope our baby loves reading. As parents, we should also be a person who loves reading.
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Try to create a reading corner for children at home.
In Europe and America, every family attaches great importance to the creation of reading corner. Their design is very simple. Usually, a small reading space is divided by carpets or small bookshelves to provide a comfortable free space for sitting or lying down. A small shelf or basket where children can pick up and put books by themselves and put a few books suitable for reading, thus creating a reading corner.
It is such a family reading corner where children can read freely and enjoy reading!
Reading corner is an indispensable and important environmental support to cultivate children's reading habits!
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I often take my children to libraries and bookstores.
On weekends, many parents regularly take their children to the library and bookstore to sit and read books. The reading atmosphere in libraries and bookstores is very strong. When they see other children reading, they will be influenced and unconsciously edified and encouraged!
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Let children read books by themselves for a period of time every day.
For children under 4 years old, parent-child reading is the main reading method. Therefore, parents had better study with their children at a fixed time every day. For the growth of children, parents must insist on companionship. Under normal circumstances, about 30 minutes is enough, but be careful not to make children feel bored.
If children get into the habit, of course, they can read by themselves, but the time must be fixed.
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Before going to bed, there is always a wonderful parent-child reading time.
Scholars from Harvard University did a study: they invited parents with children under 2 years old to participate in parent-child reading activities before going to bed. A year later, scientists found that men, as readers of books, can help children more than careful women. In the process of reading, men are more likely to lead to divergent thinking and imaginative discussion, which is more helpful to the language development of children, especially girls.
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Let reading become a way of life for children.
Like to walk into bookstores, bookstores,
Feel free to browse;
Find a book of interest,
You can take a closer look.
In which place,
Can make reading
Become what you like to do;
No matter who you are with,
You can have a book whenever you want.
Enjoy reading and sharing;
And I will really like books and cherish them!
When reading becomes a way of life for children, reading interests and habits are formed.
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The world we see is limited, and the world in the book is infinite. How to cultivate children's reading habits must respect reading and have their own requirements for reading.
First explain why we should cultivate children's reading habits and communicate with them well. There should always be a reason for doing this. Why should we cultivate reading habits? What are the benefits and effects on children? Why else would I study?
Second, thinking determines habits, and environment also determines habits. Do you have any books at home? Is there a place suitable for reading? Is there a sense of ceremony in reading?
Third, the human environment, do parents study? Why do readers read books and what benefits do they get? Don't read. Why don't you read? If you don't study, why do you want your children to study? You ask your children to watch it, so please ask yourself not to have any reason.
Fourth, it is not just a simple sentence to choose a good book and cultivate children's reading habits. You may need to do more. Help the child choose a book that suits him, so as to cultivate his reading interest. You should also be involved. Otherwise, how to talk with children in the same language, how to discuss problems and the meaning of reading all need your guidance. I don't just want him to have a good reading habit and turn reading into something meaningful first!
My daughter is under six years old. I gave her many picture books. I watched it with her. She is very interested in literacy. Thanks to the praise and encouragement of her family, she can read picture books by herself now. I always tell her words she doesn't know. She has a sense of accomplishment and likes them more and more. Yesterday she was reading a pure text book, which was a book review about picture books. She said, "Mom, this book is great." I'm confused. If you have words you don't know, circle them with a pencil and I'll tell you when you come back. "Reading has become one thing for us. When children learn pinyin, I will give her a Xinhua dictionary, constantly challenging and improving, hoping that she will feel more fulfilled. I will encourage her to try to compose music when she can read. What's the use? Some places should be read together. I hope I can guide her to record her writing and read them in the future.
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Adzuki bean family 04-0 12 1:59
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Reading is an excellent way for children to acquire knowledge and enrich their cognitive and emotional experience, and it is also a core ability of children at present. It is very important to cultivate children's reading habits. How to cultivate? Direct mapping
One way: be a book lover in front of children.
The difficulty in cultivating children's reading interest and reading habits lies at home. If parents know what reading means to their children, they can really help them fall in love with reading. The starting point of children's reading habits is that parents pick up books and read them to their children. Instead of cultivating children's reading habits, it is better for parents to discover the beauty of reading and regain or establish reading habits.
Method 2: Create a sea of books at home.
Home is a warm nest for children, a bookshelf and a carpet. Children can choose their favorite books at will and sit on the soft carpet to relax reading. Remember to put the reading time in the time allocation of daily life. Fixed bedtime story time, or fixed * * * reading time, make children have the desire to read, and make reading consciously become a part of life.
Erasmus, an educator, said: "It is very important what kind of books children read and absorb at first. Unscrupulous talk about destroying the soul, and obscene books destroy the soul as much as this. " Children of every age have books that conform to their cognitive and physical and mental development laws. Make a list of books for children his age, take these books home and create a place of academic interest at home.
Method 3: Create a happy reading experience.
Let your child dabble in various themes and colorful classic children's books, sit beside him, read to him, and manage your intimate moments.
Discuss with him the plots or characters of interest in the book, practice his expression, understand their thoughts through chatting and enrich his vocabulary. You can also choose some children's books for role-playing, combining reading with thinking and reading with deduction.
Take children to participate in various reading experience activities such as book club, book club and story club. , and participate in the author's signature book sale, so that children and creators can communicate face to face and bring a surprise experience to children.
Of course, you can also make a special reading passbook for your children, record their books and reading, communicate with professional teachers in time, and give them affirmation, encouragement or small rewards in time. These happy and fulfilling reading experiences will make your children run freely on the road of reading.
"Speaking is instinct, reading is habit", and the cultivation of habit needs deliberate management. Nothing is more effective than keeping reading. If you can read 15 minutes every day, you will feel its effect after one year. Only by perseverance can children fall in love with reading and form a good habit of reading.
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Wan Ruoqing Yang Parenting Question and Answer Expert 02-1115: 26
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Questions about reading
In the book "Children who love reading don't go bad", 15 big questions about reading are mentioned, such as what if children doze off as soon as they read? As long as reading habits are cultivated, will homework be better? If you have the habit of reading, will your children be good at writing? Do you need someone to accompany you when you study? Do children have to write reviews? etc
Teacher Yi Hui also answered every question. According to Mr. Yi Hui's answer and my own understanding of reading, I also summarized some key points to make children around 3 years old fall in love with reading. As my daughter grows up, my understanding will deepen with time.
Reading should start with interest.
Let children read books that interest them, you can recommend them, but you can't apportion them with parental authority; Only in this way can she cultivate her taste in book selection;
Reading follows the laws of nature.
Reading is a gradual process. Read appropriate books at different ages. For example, when they are 0 years old, they should start from their mother's reading mode, and then move from big picture books to small picture books with pictures and texts.
Book a reading list in advance
In my own reading process, when I meet great books, I will add them to the list, and solemnly recommend them to my children when they are old enough to read this book, telling her how my mother feels about reading this book.
Reading becomes a natural attribute.
Let reading become a habit and internalize it as a natural attribute of children. With this habit, there is no need to force her to read books except to accompany her and cultivate her own vision of choosing books. The world now is too noisy and colorful. You can log in to the world by sliding your mobile phone. It is not easy to cultivate such a quiet habit, and it needs the constant companionship of parents. In the future, children will not only log in to the world on the wireless side, but also have the ability to examine the world and themselves attentively.
Reading should begin with companionship.
Children's reading should start with companionship. This kind of companionship is not to let the children read books. You are watching the mobile phone, but to watch it together. Only love and role models have the opportunity to let the "sliding generation" who don't like reading follow you.
Let's talk about this book together
Tell me about the books you read together. When you exchange ideas by reading books, you may find that your ideas are so different that you can have more collisions with your children. Similarly, we can also talk about a movie we watched together, an event we experienced together, and so on.
Set up a book fund
It is really a good idea to set up a book fund. I talked about fancy piggy banks, but I never thought of setting up such a fancy piggy bank. Choosing books and buying books with children is a process of mutual understanding, and the influence of mutual taste begins.
Learn to write by reading.
When children can write, they should start to cultivate their writing ability from sticky notes and draw the simplest mind map themselves. Children who can't write can play games telling stories to their mothers, and they can also tell their children that their mothers draw mind maps. Starting from reading, starting from writing.
Sort out the book list by yourself
Organize the list of books by yourself, respect your child's choice, support him to organize the list of books he has read, list the plans he wants to read, and then sit down and talk about books. Only when you read a lot can you recommend books to your children, or choose books for your children from others' recommendation lists, but this is far less than teaching fish to swim. If your children learn to choose their own books, and you have enough taste to give high-quality advice, you won't be in a mess in front of the dazzling array of books in the bookstore, and you can spend the money on buying books on the cutting edge.
Life is reading.
Integrating reading into life is a fascinating "happy" reading road. Although we love reading, we still stay in the stage of forming the habit of reading, and the author has already sublimated to the stage of "life is reading". Mr Yi Hui is a more advanced preacher. He shares reading and reads a lot.
Finally, I would like to share with you five "love routines" when my daughter and I were studying.
Routine 1: Family Reading Corner
1-2 square meters is enough. Shelves, photo frames, soft carpets and soft pillows are the corners where she can study quietly. She can stay indoors on weekends and spread all over the world. A small space, a place you can imagine. At the same time, children can also manage their own books, such as putting the finished books back to their original places and arranging different books in series. Can cultivate children's sense of responsibility and self-care ability.
Routine 2: Go to the bookstore regularly.
I go to the library or bookstore with my children every week or regularly. Sometimes I soak in the big sofa in the bookstore coffee shop, sometimes I sit on the bench prepared by the bookstore, and sometimes I just sit on the floor. She looked at her and I looked at mine. After reading one, she will put it back and choose another one she likes. I got a sentence from a friend today: French poet rene char said, "The more you know, the more painful you are. The more you know, the more torn you are, but he has clarity equal to pain and tenacity balanced with despair."
Routine 3: Tell a story before going to bed.
Light a warm lamp, a book, I'll tell, and she'll listen. Punching in is very popular now, such as reading, getting up early and exercising. You can also prepare a bedtime story for your child, one story a day, and one year later it will be more than 365 stories.
It is worth mentioning that telling stories with dad before going to bed is more attractive.
Routine 4: Go to class in advance.
If children have already enrolled in some classes, they can go ahead of time, where there are generally good Chinese and English picture books to read. Reading a few stories with children in advance makes it easier to arouse their enthusiasm for attending classes.
Routine 5: Reading on the Road
There is a picture book in my schoolbag and some Chinese books in my mobile phone. Recently, a cartoon English word card was added. On the way to and from school and when we go out to rest, we will listen to songs, read books or tell stories. The key point is to see how energetic and interested children are, and don't force them.
As children grow up, there will be more and more understanding of how to make children fall in love with reading, how to read better and how to output better. I grew up with her. I only hope that in the first few years of growing up together, I can take a few more steps with her and cooperate with the teacher to illuminate her way forward.
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Obstetrician and Gynecologist Wang Yuling Medical Popular Science Writer Health Question and Answer Expert 02-0723:37
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How to cultivate children's reading habits?
Although I am not an educator, I once trained a son of Xueba, so I also have some experiences to share with you.
The development of reading habits has a great influence on children's life. My experience is:
1. Parents should first have the habit of reading. Children are deaf, and parents do whatever they like. Children play with mobile phones every day, and watch TV every day, and children watch TV.
There should be some books at home. In addition to buying picture books for children, there should also be books for adults to read, so that children can regard books as wealth, reading as glory and reading parents' books as desire.
3. Buy enough picture books for children, suitable for picture books of different ages. Let children have their own books.
4. Set up a small study room or reading corner for children, have their own reading table, place children's picture books separately, and create a good reading environment.
5. Parent-child reading. The child is too young to read. Parents need to turn the pictures in the book into stories. Vivid language makes children love reading.
6. Always take children to bookstores and children's libraries. A good, quiet and serious reading atmosphere can make children feel that reading is a glorious thing. Reading with other children can inspire each other.
Reading can open the door to life and broaden our horizons. Let children know this colorful world better.
Brief introduction of the author
Yulin Wang
Wang Yuling is an obstetrician and gynecologist, who has been a doctor for 25 years. Specializing in the diagnosis and treatment of female menstrual diseases, infertility and perinatal diseases. A well-known female health science writer, Sina Weibo, today's headline author from the media, columnist of Women's Weekly and Organ Newspaper of the National Health Planning Commission. Author of popular science bestseller "Be a wise expectant mother" and "The Secret of the Uterus".
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Henny's mother's parenting classic headline parenting author 02-28 12:23
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Nowadays, families attach great importance to the development of children's reading habits. Let's talk about how our reading habits are developed.
The books in this picture book shelf are all picture books for children. We started reading when we were over one year old. At that time, we just started reading at the stage of tearing books, and we bought some pirated paperbacks. Every baby has to go through a stage of tearing books. After the book tearing stage, the first set of genuine books we bought was a picture book of Baby Bear or a gift from the child's aunt. At that time, we were interested in picture books. We can read this book many times every day. When shopping platforms buy genuine picture books, they must buy genuine children's picture books. The poor quality of pirated printing ink still has a certain impact on children's health. After all, I have read books for a long time and come into contact with them every day. Later, the child was about two years old and joined the big V store through a mother. The child's picture book has been bought on the platform of the big V store. The quality of books on this platform is guaranteed, and I am fortunate to have learned a lot of parenting knowledge in my mother's class on this platform. A two-year-old child is also a so-called rebellious period. By learning parenting knowledge, we can understand many sensitive periods of children, so it is much easier to deal with children's problems, and children's reading habits are also developed. Every day, as long as you have time, you will ask to read picture books and tell stories.
Even if he is ill, he will keep reading, so picture books are very attractive to children. The development of reading picture books needs the company and persistence of our parents. At first, the child may not be interested, so he can buy the corresponding picture books through his favorite aspects. For example, if a child likes cars, he will buy corresponding car picture books and start from the aspects he is interested in. Of course, picture books don't need to be read according to this brochure, and reading also needs skills. There are some imitated body movements in the tone of reading aloud. Dry reading is not so attractive to children. Once children's reading habits are developed, it goes without saying that children can read books quietly for half a day. It is also important to buy picture books and arrange a reading corner for children.
This is our corner, a bookshelf and a cushion. A simple arrangement can give children a happy reading area. Interested mothers can make the corners more comfortable. We have started to put a second bookshelf for the children, and the previous bookshelf is full. We bought a bookcase with a scholarly box for the anniversary of the Great V Store, and put it at the bedside of the bedroom, which is more convenient for reading and getting books before going to bed every night.
The development of children's reading habits is our persistent companionship, and the importance of reading is also very important for children's future study. I hope more families can cultivate their children's reading habits. I believe every child likes picture books very much. Every time I buy a picture book for my child, I always read it first. Picture books have a magic power, attracting children to read freely in the sea of books, making reading a habit, and letting picture books accompany children to grow up.
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Ma Xiaoyu Mi 'ai 03-29 17:25
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Take the initiative to answer questions. Ji Xianlin said: The best thing in the world is reading. It can be seen how beautiful it is to love reading. When chatting, many parents and friends said that children like playing mobile phones, games and watching TV, but they don't like reading. So as parents, how can we guide our children to fall in love with reading?
First of all, parents should love reading. The reading atmosphere in the family is very important, and the power of the so-called example is infinite. Parents are Kochi's scientist Hawking. It is said that everyone in their family reads books while eating, and no one in the family of four talks. Imagine if parents hold mobile phones all day?
Secondly, reading is cultivated from an early age. Training before the age of three is the best. You can show your child a black and white card in about two months. When the child is about four months old, the mother can read some beautiful poems, cloth books for about six months, and picture books for children for about ten months. From the age of two to six, children's understanding ability has been greatly improved. At this time, children can read some beautiful stories and more picture books.
Third, learn to interact with children in the process of reading. In the first two years, parents have to accompany their children to study. When they are about two years old, when their children have their own expressions, we will let them read or tell us the picture book stories they have read, which has several advantages. On the one hand, it can improve the child's language expression ability and increase his literacy ability; On the other hand, it can also increase children's reading interest.
Feather can read independently at the age of three and a half according to the method provided above. Moreover, she has a cheerful and lively personality, strong expressive ability and rich imagination, which are brought to her by reading.
With the growth of children, children will gradually form their own hobbies, and parents should choose high-quality books for their children according to their hobbies. Making children fall in love with reading has a great influence on their life growth. Let's act!
I'm Xiao Yu's mother Ai, and I want to share my concern and education for young children with you.
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Pelican Psychotherapist of Shanghai Mental Health Center, National Second-level Psychological Counselor 03- 1822:58
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To cultivate children's reading habits, we must first create an environment for children to like reading.
For example, there should be books that children can read at home first, and there should be a variety of books suitable for his age.
Secondly, parents and children should be together, and there should be interaction between buying books and loving them. Parents can often take their children to bookstores and libraries for a walk. Let him not exclude reading and reading, and have a good impression on books. For example, if you live in Shanghai, all the libraries in Shanghai are interconnected now. As long as you have a smart card, all libraries in Shanghai can borrow and return books, and books borrowed in Hall A can also be returned in Hall B, which is very convenient for reading and borrowing. In addition, there are many libraries dedicated to children in Shanghai, all of which are for children. Children of all ages have books. You can take your children to such a library regularly and let them choose their own books to play with, even if they don't borrow books, and feel the reading atmosphere.
Nowadays, many social organizations or some independent bookstores regularly hold some picture book reading or story competitions with children as the theme. Parents can bring their children to participate, which is a kind of parent-child interaction. Children working with their parents will naturally find this thing very interesting. Reading used to be fun. They can communicate with their parents and play with them. Unconsciously, children will have a good impression on reading.
Besides, reading is not only a habit that children should cultivate, but also a good habit that the whole family should cultivate. If parents like the habit of reading, there is no need to deliberately guide them. When parents are around as role models, children will be unconsciously influenced by their parents. Every night, when the day's work is finished, parents can have a bedtime reading time with their children. Younger children can be told stories by their mothers today, and by their fathers tomorrow. They can also read stories to their children together. Older children can be children reading books and parents reading their own books. This is a wonderful companion, which makes children feel that reading is a very happy thing and a matter of course.
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Chinese teacher Jinxiu 0 1-2607:45
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To cultivate children's reading habits, first of all, people at home must like reading, especially parents, and must create a reading atmosphere for their children.
Combine my own children for discussion. Here's what I did:
When the child can't talk, I play children's songs for her. When she can speak, I'll play Tang poetry for him, and then I'll teach him the three-character classic when I have the chance.
When the child speaks fluently, I will begin to teach him simple Tang poetry.
Before he went to primary school, he was even taught to recite two poems in The Book of Songs, such as Jia Jian and Ge Tan.
Read picture books before primary school and before third grade. After that, he asked for books himself, and the school must go to the bookstore to buy books. It is agreed in advance that I will buy this book next time after reading it.
In addition, our family really buys books from bookcases, and other places, such as coffee tables, TV cabinets, bedside and so on, are all books.
What books do children read in primary school? Family instructions from Harvard, letters from Foley, horror science, Harry Potter, diaries of cowardly children and so on.
Of course, the first thing is to watch the Romance of the Three Kingdoms, Journey to the West, Water Margin and so on.
As a result, children always take a book to the bathroom. Of course, sometimes I also bring my mobile phone now!
Adults in our family are like this. When children start doing their homework, they should turn down the volume of TV, or they shouldn't watch TV. Someone must be reading a book.
My child is now in the second day of junior high school, and has never enrolled in a Chinese cram school. Now, he reads O'Henry's short stories and other books after finishing his homework.
So Doha! Every child is a different flower, so we can't generalize! May the babies study hard and make progress every day!
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