In the process of growing up, there are actually many reasons why we grow up gradually and will get it with the growth of age, but there are also many reasons why I feel late when I understand it. I think there are always some things that we don't know until we grow up, so I'll share them with you today. The first thing is that I know that if two people are together, if they are not suitable, they can't be together. It actually started when I was very young. When I was very young, in fact, my parents were quarrelling all the time because of their emotional disharmony. It's really inappropriate for two people, because they can show personality and temper differences, but as a daughter, I really don't want them to be separated. Therefore, I have been putting pressure on my parents not to separate them. It was because of my willfulness that my mother paid a painful price. Mother also suffered from gastric cancer during the quarrel with her father, and she was in a cold war with her father. I didn't get treatment in time and finally left me forever. I've been regretting it. The second thing that I hate is that I didn't communicate with my father in time when I found out that my stepmother had some improper behavior, which indirectly led to family discord. It is precisely because of this that I realize the importance of communication. Communication can solve many things and prevent some bad things from happening in time.

The third thing is that I didn't cherish the time with my family, which should be related to my mother. When my mother died, I really felt the helplessness, the helplessness of having to be separated, and the regret of not cherishing it, which was gradually realized from my father's white hair. I began to realize that I was less and less with them, and they were more and more eager for their company.