1. If you live not to please your parents, but mainly to develop yourself and enjoy life, then go your own way firmly and let others talk! Many great men, at all times and at all times, regardless of their parents' opposition, embarked on their own brilliant life path. In addition, with the rapid development of the times, many parents, especially those in rural areas, simply don't need many classes and can't keep up with the pace of the times to understand the present era. So they have no say in their children's career planning and development.
Take me for example, not to mention that my parents who have stayed in the countryside all their lives, even their elders and relatives, find it difficult to understand the work I have done. All they say is, get a real job. No matter how much, I have a steady income every month and will not ask my parents for money. I think this is a little better than many people now.
2. Parents don't understand and oppose our profession. We can try to explain it first. If the explanation is invalid, we can choose to ignore it. In today's society, what is even more frightening is that it is unacceptable to force children to inherit their own will and do the work they want them to do.
In my opinion, if you want to stick to a job, you must first bring yourself enough salary, at least ensure that you can "live", and then see if you really like this job and are willing to continue doing it for 20 years or even a lifetime. If your work meets these two conditions, you can stick to it. Also, the changes are very rapid now, and the elderly will soon be abandoned by the times, and there will definitely be a gap between parents and children. Therefore, parents' suggestions on children's social experience may not be of great reference value. Society is changing and people are changing. If parents are not people who keep pace with the times, then their suggestions can be kept. For example, the game industry, which parents called unprofessional twenty years ago, has become a cool profession in the eyes of today's young people.