Letters of introduction and Alyssa Chia and Alyssa Chia, it is really impossible for a person to take care of children and do housework at the same time. When her husband can cook for them after work and play with the children, Alyssa Chia can become a free "little princess" again. What's more, not letting his wife suffer from manufacturing again and taking the initiative to ligate gave her a lot of attention and randomness.
I still remember that when Alyssa Chia divorced her ex-husband Sun Zhihao at the press conference, she had no taste at all. She was completely a psychologically distorted woman devastated by marriage. At the press conference, she burst into tears, just to better ask for the custody of her daughter and children and repair her casual body. You can see her situation in recent years, but you can't see that she is 47 years old and a mother of three children. This is inseparable from the love and care of her husband, Jie Kaixiu.
As the Social Psychology of Marriage said, "A bad marriage turns people into insanity, a good marriage turns people into idiots, and it is best to turn people into children." In this marriage, Jiekaixiu turned Alyssa Chia's pet into a child, and there was no mark of time on her face, which gave her greater freedom and concern.
Jiexiu set up a rumor about Alyssa Chia, but when Jiexiu was invited to participate in the video recording of Joseph Cheng's Unprofessional Kitchen, he actually announced the ridicule: Being a husband is more stressful than being a father. Even if Joseph Cheng tried to help him change the subject, he still couldn't let him discuss his topic again. Since then, the relationship between the letter of introduction's wife and the characters has completely collapsed, but in fact this is the most real marriage situation, and it is the process of continuous progress and growth of adults in the marriage university.
In the variety show, Joseph Cheng and the letter of introduction talked about the topic of drinking. When inadvertently asked, "Is father under too much pressure?" He suddenly came up with a surprising answer: "I think being a husband is more stressful at work." As soon as this was said, Joseph Cheng immediately wanted to change the subject: "On the contrary, I feel that being a father is more stressful." Jiexiu didn't follow Joseph Cheng's logical thinking and shifted the topic discussion to children. He just said that the child is very good and obedient. When Joseph Cheng answered again, he said, "Isn't it ok to say daughter-in-law?"?
Jiexiu immediately showed an intriguing little expression, which made people feel that his marriage with Alyssa Chia seemed to be in trouble. It is worth mentioning that he revealed in the variety show that he often drinks when taking care of his baby. In a variety show, Jie Kaixiu not only completely broke the brand image of a good father, but also teased his wife, making people feel as if he didn't cherish his wife as much as everyone imagined.
But the real marriage is like this, while despising each other, while leaving each other. Not only did Jiexiu make fun of his wife in public, but Alyssa Chia also made fun of her husband on social networking platforms on his birthday last March.
The two people who spit at each other wrote: This man can communicate, even for the sake of face, but also knows how to converge because of love; This boy, not without temper, is also because Sinian educated his children and cooperated with each other during the running-in period. In addition, she also gave all women a warning: there is no ultimate lover, and the other half caused by the best communication and tolerance has no ultimate ingredient, only the most complementary mentor.
Between the lines, the letter of introduction is not as extreme as everyone sees. He still has his own small temper, and he will have his own small temper, but he restrained himself because of love and gave the other party greater tolerance and attention. In fact, it can be seen from the ridicule of two people that two people gradually hide their corners because of love, more because love wants to better cooperate with each other and want to make each other more fit during the running-in period.
Everyone has moments of depression and too much pressure at work. At this moment, it is inevitable to expose hidden thorns and sting the most beloved people. It is not that he doesn't love you. It's just that while he continues to invest, he must also release the pressure of work. This is just a signal that he wants you to care.
Marriage is far more difficult to manage than feelings, and it needs a lot of care and love to resist the heavy tempering brought about by social development. This is the truest marriage situation. Many single men and women will feel that even if they enter marriage, they can still get each other's love and investment, and they can still feel the happiest side of their feelings. Actually, it is not! The most important thing in marriage is the process of mutual investment and continuous growth.
The marriage between Dany and Zhou Yiwei's "lowly sister" Dany and Zhou Yiwei has been neglected, but she still enjoys the present feeling and happily gives birth to her second child. I still remember that when she was on the hot search list because of the "ladder theory", many people looked down on her and felt that she should not lower her posture so much and submit to the other party so humbly in marriage. However, only the outstanding people who have experienced marriage understand that it is not a long-term solution to hold your head high from beginning to end and enjoy the fruits invested by others.
Dany used to be the sister of a TV station. Like Alyssa Chia, she went through an unsuccessful marriage. She is very successful at work, and it is unlikely that she was born emotional. She will have a different understanding of marriage and work. She moderately lowered her posture in marriage and paid a lot after the other party invested, which is undoubtedly the cleverness and layout under the surface. Social behaviorist Johnson said: "Love is a complete process. Everyone continues to achieve harmony, create connections, miss or misread tones, break connections, repair connections, and then develop into deeper connections.
It is a national dance, constantly meeting, constantly separating, and constantly looking for each other, every minute. "In marriage, everyone wants to take the lead, so that they can better show their necessity in this connection, and then they can feel the love from each other. But marriage is not the whole process overnight. On the way forward, there will always be discordant music scores, such as quarrels and cold violence, but this music score is not all bad.
The reason for moderately disconnecting is to better connect deeper connections and make each other an unattainable part of life. Although both the letter of introduction and Alyssa Chia once teased each other in public, they didn't choose to let go because of it, but after discovering the problems between them, they were able to think about the problems better, thus making them feel better.
There are no completely compatible people in the world, and naturally there is no perfect partner. Behind these seemingly loving marriages, there are also many little-known pains and tears. This is the truest marriage.