Remember that when you are young, you are fearless and have no failure.
-"First Love"
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12 years ago, I drank beer for the first time as a freshman, and I was lying on a bench on campus with two friends. My memory has blurred the details, and I don't know why, but I will always remember the picture of those three cans colliding together and the lofty sentiments about love and youth at that time. They are little H and little J.
I didn't have a particularly complete and unforgettable feeling in college. There is a general existence, fearless, selfless and fearless, indifferent to failure, and naturally never vigorous. But little H is different from little J, both wonderful and selfless, and the content of youth is remarkable. When we talk about first love, we will think of their stories.
An hour ago, I should have poured boiling water to tell the story of Xiao H on the other side of the ocean, but I received Xiao J's WeChat. She explained that she got married at the beginning of the year, and my reaction was a little surprised and a little complaining. I thought I was her best friend in college. In the years after graduate school, we met once every six months in a city two hours away. Our communication tools never stopped, but I knew nothing about her. I believe.
? 20 17
1. Little J is white and beautiful, with a good family, no worries and no affectation. She likes photography, and all the male students who often take one or two photos in the circle are watching it. Some praise it, some admire it, and some leave sour messages asking who took it, but I know that the photographer is Xiao J himself and the assistant is a tripod. She insisted on traveling. After work, she travels around in an orderly way once or twice a year, and always writes fascinating travel notes. She likes reading, keeps punching in English every day, reads more than ten books a year, and leads her circle of friends. It is a veritable knowledge and beauty. She is addicted to fitness, and her photos add a kind of sweaty strength beauty to the beautiful flowers.
2.30-year-old Xiao J has various strengths MAX, which exudes positive energy. Her circle of friends basks in eating, drinking and having fun, basking in family members and basking in pets, but what she doesn't bask in is her love life. She doesn't talk about going out to parties. Unlike some older girls who are busy dating, she doesn't feel sorry for herself. She smiled at the person who urged her. She said that at this stage, people will feel good and work hard every day. I haven't been to many places, and I haven't practiced many muscles. How can I have time to feel sorry for myself? I am always ready to wait for love to knock at the door, yes, happy, no, not demanding, not unwilling.
20 13
3. Little J graduated from graduate school this year, and got to know the community activities in Yan Yi with a boyfriend who talked for three years. Xiao is not handsome and fashionable, but he is also sunny and cheerful. Plus, he is the backbone of the club, which can make little J happy. The campus is full of pictures of Xiao riding a bike and Xiao J sitting in the back seat smiling.
The older you get, the more mature you are in love, and the closer you get to talking about marriage. At that time, the success rate of graduate school love was quite high. Many people get married after graduation. One weekend, Xiao J naturally took Xiao A to see her parents. When she came back, she happily told me that her father was very satisfied with Xiao A, and then they were going to graduate and settle in Chengdu. Then they went to Xiao's hometown, a seaside city, and Xiao's parents also liked Xiao J. After graduation defense, they planned a 20-day trip to Southeast Asia. Little J told me that if they came back, they would still be fine. Later, the 20-day brushing of dog food strengthened their love, and everything was like love.
Xiao J told me that she and Xiao A actually broke up by agreement after graduation, because Xiao A interviewed a company in Chengdu and a company in her hometown, and later received two offer, which shook Xiao A's determination to stay. Xiao begged her to go to his hometown with him, and she hoped Xiao would stay for her as always. So they saw it and maintained it, and no one gave in until graduation.
6. No one broke up after graduation, such as talking about a long-distance relationship. When I first entered the workplace, I had a lot of entertainment. When he is drunk, he will call little J, and little J will tell him to take care of himself. When little J doesn't adapt to work, he will complain to little A, and little A will comfort her. In this way, his friends advised little J to give up and end this fruitless love. Little J always smiles bitterly, finally in the second year. After the separation, Xiao J was unusually calm, but it was also the most disgraceful time for her 12 years, which always gave people the feeling of forcing a smile. She later said that at that time she wanted to let nature take its course, but she was actually unwilling. When he decided to leave, the feelings of his three-year business career had been written down. We don't want to face it, we don't want to compromise. We delude ourselves into giving our feelings a probation, and tacitly look forward to the day when the other party leaves everything behind.
20 10 year
7. This year, little J did two earth-shattering things. The first thing is to transfer from a science and engineering college to a normal college to study liberal arts. The second thing is to "kick" her first love boyfriend Xiao T for four years.
8. Little T is little J's most familiar boyfriend. I grew up listening to the story of little T chasing little J (haha, silent). After the farewell dinner at the end of the college entrance examination in 2006, several male students rushed to send Xiao J home, but because Xiao T's home was closer to Xiao J's, Xiao T got the opportunity. When it was delivered to his home, little T confessed his mind to little J through wine and said three things. Second, we are in the same university and can go to Chengdu together; Third, I didn't intend to confess today, but I took the lead by looking at other male students. At that moment, little J thought little T, who was tall, thin and shy in a white shirt, was cute. He thought it would be nice to have such a person around him in the future, so he agreed. Little t happily picked her up and turned and ran away.
9. As soon as I entered the university, the beautiful little J stood next to the little T, which made many boys envious. Later, an ordinary little T didn't deserve little J, but it didn't affect their sweetness. Many plots in idol dramas happen to two people. Nearly 200 people rushed out of the classroom after a big class. When they were almost downstairs, little J's shoelaces were untied. Regardless of so many people, Little T squatted down and tied it to Little J, which became a "story" from then on. Little J also had conflicts with little T. I also accompanied her to shout at the sky on the roof of the teaching building, but every time we quarreled, little T would appear and let little J follow us girls like air until little J forgave him.
? 10. Little J is getting better and better at school, and his popularity is getting higher and higher, but little T has actually become an otaku, and he doesn't go to classes and activities. Only the dormitory and games have legends about him, but they are also very good together. Little J just got up to pick her up after class at noon, and they went to lunch hand in hand. Little J will pick her up after class in the afternoon.
1 1. It's hard to figure out how a beautiful, excellent and positive girl can be with a game freak who has failed countless courses. Little J said that at first she thought little T was very kind to her and enjoyed the princess treatment in her hand. Moreover, the two are fellow villagers, and they know each other well and are very close. She occasionally mentioned breaking up because of Little T's failure, but every time she saw this big boy who was really kind to her, his heart softened because of his red eyes, no dignity and thinking about a happy life. In this way, he always couldn't make up his mind to separate.
? 12. Until the third year of high school, when everyone was rushing for the future, there was one thing that made Xiao J feel very hard. One day, little T excitedly said to little J who was busy preparing for the postgraduate entrance examination and re-examination: "There is no need to prepare. My mother's state-owned enterprise in her hometown can find stable jobs for them, with easy work and considerable income in her hometown. I hope we can go back to get married and live a happy little life. " Little J heard a bang in her head, and she knew she couldn't be with little T after all. Little J said she was wrong about this relationship. She has always enjoyed little T's care for him, but she left by herself. It never occurred to her that when little T didn't get along with her, she didn't stop to take little T with her, so she left and dispersed.
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/kloc-during the twelve years from 0/8 to 30 years old, we came from youth and enjoyed the fearless, unscrupulous love and noisy youth. We may have been princesses or princes, ladies or hooligans, but the process of growing up has made us look brand-new and naturally filtered out the people around us. Instead of desperately grasping the tail of youth, it is better to accept the gift of youth, even if it is a scar, and accept the merits of growth.
(May Little J be truly happy and walk hand in hand with Mr R)