According to the situation you described, it should be narrow-minded. Make three suggestions:
First, a high-profile warm reminder. Explain the real situation at that time, let her understand and enhance mutual trust through communication.
The second is to properly respond and safeguard rights and interests. Respect the elders, and the elders should also respect the younger generation. Respect is mutual.
Third, the most prominent manifestation of narrow-mindedness is that the ancients said that narrow-mindedness has no place for small things and lacks tolerance and tolerance. Sometimes something happens, and your voice is strange. This kind of psychology is not conducive to unity and friendship. Therefore, if you really meet such a person, you'd better stay away.
Hello, I'm glad to answer your question. I am Geng Yuanxi, a digital personality analyst.
People who like to hurt others with words are actually people with inner inferiority. Because he is not confident in himself, he can only improve his confidence by hurting others! Prove that you are good enough by suppressing others, prove your unique thinking with sharp words, and prove your avant-garde thinking with sharp words. Therefore, the person who hurts others is actually a person with inner inferiority. He hopes that in this way, others will respect him and think that he is excellent. Of course, this way is not a good way!
People who say hurtful things will have more negative energy in their hearts, because their hearts may be full of hatred and dissatisfaction, and they refuse to accept their fate. They are pretentious. When he sees anything, he only thinks of the bad side, not the good side, so he only sees the dark side, and everything he says is negative and negative. You invited him to travel, and he thought you were blind. When you invite him to dinner, what does he think your purpose is? In short, he will always misunderstand your kindness.
A person who hurts others with words is actually insecure in his heart, because he doesn't believe in being loved, sincerity and kindness of others, and he doesn't want to accept kindness of others. For example, he wants to share his successful methods with him, but his first reaction is to show off in an ostentatious manner in front of me again, then he will have self-defense and attack psychology, and finally hurt others and protect himself with hurtful words!
The above is a psychological analysis of people whose words hurt others. In fact, they are very fragile and not easy. I hope I can help you!
Sometimes it's personality, even casual. That's easy to say. Mainly depends on what occasion the hurtful person said, what tone and so on.
But when you say this, you bear a grudge. In fact, the workplace is really like a battlefield. Don't trust anyone easily. What you don't know is what they will say about you in their eyes, because that's what I did. It's actually the best way to go back. People who give face don't want face, just don't give it. Just work hard and cheer for yourself. As for colleagues, just colleagues.
People I know sometimes talk about and laugh at you. What do you mean? I really don't understand.
No one will help you when you are in trouble. No one will pay attention to you when you are in trouble. People with more hearts can't make friends. People who play tricks will definitely not be in line with their hearts. Praise, praise.
People who like to hurt others are narrow-minded and have few friends. I don't like this kind of person, and I automatically stay away. But this kind of person is also a kind of social person, so you should know how to get along. This kind of person just keeps a little distance. You should go back once or twice occasionally to let her know that you are not very casual.
There are two kinds of psychology: like talking and hurting people.
The first is to improve yourself and prove yourself stronger.
The second is to attack others and gain a sense of superiority by proving that others are weaker than themselves. In fact, jealousy leads to the suppression of others. The essence of jealousy is actually inferiority and self-protection.
I think people who like to talk and hurt people have several mentalities. One kind of people hurt others in order to show their superiority and feel superior in some way, so they have no scruples and even talk nonsense. Such people don't care about other people's feelings. When facing people he doesn't like, he will do his best to be sarcastic and vent his inner dissatisfaction with others. People with low emotional intelligence don't realize that their words have caused the other person's disgust when they speak. Maybe they thought they were joking and didn't know that others had been dissatisfied.
Some people are like this. No, I met a rural woman yesterday. I bought eggs to exercise. She said I like eggs too much. I tell you, if I couldn't be myself at present and the situation was unfavorable, I would have taught that village woman to be a man!