Friendship is not a short fireworks, but a sincere picture; Friendship is not a long acquaintance, but a heart-to-heart acquaintance. Friends need to have eight words, that is: trust, understanding, tolerance and tacit understanding! Now I use these eight words to bless our friendship. May we be happy all our lives and forever. Friends don't need to meet, just want to know each other; Needless to say, please understand. Never ask for a spoonful of water, never give a drop of food, only because of the traction of words, the distance between the world has become close at hand, and it can be drunk thousands of miles away, and friendship lasts forever. I hacked a friend. This determination was made for a long time and finally broke out at the end of the night. I don't know how many times this is. I missed one of her calls, so she tried to call again ten times. I missed a WeChat voice and received her shelling message. My friend seems to have tried everything to find me. You must think something terrible happened to her, but when I called, I heard this reply: "Oh, what did you do?" Why didn't you answer the phone? Why are you so busy now? I can't find you to chat with! "She came to chat with me and completely lost the temperature of a conversation. Looking back carefully over the past few years, the positive energy that her role has brought to my life seems to be getting thinner and thinner. No matter what choices I make in life, I can't seem to get her support. When I tried to change to a job with higher salary and higher technical content, she frowned and objected, "What else can you do besides your present job?" "We go to the supermarket to buy things together, and she will say to the bag of discounted fruit I picked up," I never buy fruits with reduced prices, I buy the most expensive ones! " "And when I saved up for a long time to buy a camera, she accused me in turn:" Why did you buy that thing? " You know this is a waste of money! "I used to regard her as a sincere friend and would like to tell her all my joys and sorrows, but when my life really got better bit by bit, she changed her attitude. Over time, I no longer want to share my life with her. Every time I have dinner together, I have to look into those critical eyes and do my homework quickly in my mind, what to say and what not to say. This kind of pressure made me realize a rule gradually. I can only show her the bad side of my life and hide my progress, because I don't know what will touch her sensitive nerves, so that every word of her will hide thorns and pierce my defenseless little prestige. All these finally ended our friendship. I remembered some other friendships-when I applied for a visa to New Zealand a few years ago, I had to pay online by credit card. I am anxious to call my friend in Guiyang, Shenyang. My friend didn't say anything, and it was all done for me in five minutes. When I first started exercising, a friend of mine sent me a lot of common sense about running, and sometimes told me to pay attention to protecting my knees and not to forget to stretch. I remember her saying, "It's really great to see you getting better and better. Hold on! "This kind of friendship is a true friendship. I'm not jealous or sarcastic. I help selflessly when I am in trouble, and I am willing to applaud any little gain in my life. We help each other, cheer each other up and make life happy, full and meaningful together. We are insignificant beings in the world, and it is always useless to compare ourselves. There will always be people in the outside world who are better off than us. As an independent existence, it is impossible for a person to improve himself by suppressing others, but sometimes, strangely, it is because of one's progress that friendship has been greatly tested and many feelings have unfortunately collapsed. Everything I get in my life depends on my hands, without any opportunism. I know I am not smart enough, and I am willing to redouble my efforts in everything. I understand the hardships in everyone's life and respect every friend's choice. No matter what they decide to do, as long as they have enough reasons, I will unconditionally encourage and support them and be willing to help them silently when they encounter difficulties, instead of standing halfway up the mountain laughing at him, stimulating him and kicking him hard. What is a friend, a 2X who is like-minded with you? Did your yelling teammate Dematia rush at the enemy crystal and kill it? Or a good friend who doesn't take classes with you and would rather wait for a beautiful girl in another class? Or do you stay up in the middle of the night and talk about things to implement your so-called future "planner"? Friends are simple people. They can help you or encourage each other to make progress in life and study. If you don't learn your lessons well, in a word, they can leave the game and take you to the library to practice, and then laugh at your carelessness with his high IQ. You are busy with student organization, writing and planning ppt in the middle of the night, and they throw lights on your desk without saying a word, saying, go to bed early. You are lovelorn and confused. They threw a cigarette around you with a bad smile and said, Let's go and drown our sorrows by drinking. Find friends who are good enough, who are strong enough to throw you out of a few blocks. Xiaoli's friend is like this. Every communication with them seems to be a sublimation. I'll reflect on it when I go back. Isn't every child growing up day by day by trying to reach the cake on the cupboard higher than himself? So the little ideal said, friend, please speed up your pace and reach the peak of your life. I will definitely take the lead in applauding, and my progress will not slow down! I hope that one day, we will all help each other and reach the highest level of life, instead of telling young people that eating lettuce and mung beans can prevent cancer when they are old. A true friend should be generous enough to accept that he can go further, fly higher and live happier than you.