First: he doesn't like you, so he's too lazy to reply to you.
Psychologically speaking, people are only willing to pay for one thing without reservation, and that is "what they like".
You like playing ball, swimming and playing games. These are your hobbies, and you are more willing to invest time in these hobbies.
The same is true in front of the person you like.
When we like someone, we will pay more attention to this person than others. When we are not working every day, we always try to chat with each other and pay attention to each other's social platforms.
The purpose of doing this is nothing more than hoping that the other party can respond to us.
Love has an answer, love has trust, as simple as that.
However, just because you like each other doesn't mean they like you.
When the other person doesn't like you, someone will definitely reject you and give you no chance.
But most people's choice is to "silence" and not reply, so that you can retreat.
They respect you but don't want to hurt you. They can only make you stop paying in this cold way.
Second: he is not busy, just busy simply facing you.
I didn't reply to your message for the first time, which means that he is busy at work;
The second time he didn't answer the message, it means he didn't look at his mobile phone.
But you sent him more than a dozen messages all day, and they all sank into the sea without any response, just like waiting for Godot.
Don't you understand each other's thoughts?
A person often spends more than a few hours watching his mobile phone every day, and the number of times he opens a chat list every day is not small.
Does he accidentally ignore your news every time?
Don't be so simple. When others don't reply to your message, you should understand their thoughts.
Whether friends or people they like, they don't reply to you, just don't want to have anything to do with you, that's all.
Adults end a relationship in a reserved way, leaving each other with respect.
We don't need to ask: why don't you respond to me?
Children are like this. Adults just need to keep some tacit understanding and disappear into each other's lives.
Third: Avoidant attachment personality.
There are also some people who are a little slow in the face of others' initiative and enthusiasm, and their response is always half a beat slow.
It's not that they deliberately ignore you, nor that they don't like you, but that they don't know how to respond to your "enthusiasm".
There is a kind of person who is like this.
The more you like him, the closer you get to him, the more he wants to shrink back and even find a corner to hide.
In doing so, it's just that he lacks security in his heart and is not sure whether your close feelings with him are pure or not.
Although he likes you, he gave up the initiative and your favor.
There is a thick protective film outside his heart, which closes his heart and feelings and will not be easily given to anyone.
Unless, you can make him feel your sincerity and build enough security for you.