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If you feel that life is boring, where should you start to change?
Charge your IQ first.

If a person can't lead an interesting life, then your IQ should be different from those who lead an interesting life. Even if there is no difference in IQ, there is a gap in EQ.

People who feel bored alive usually have the following characteristics. Let me give you an example to prove it.

One, no hobbies.

People who have no hobbies will have an empty life after work. They feel that they have nothing to do after work every day. What can they do besides drinking big wine, eating mutton kebabs, ktv and grabbing red envelopes for girls? These people will feel bored, and every once in a while, they will think, alas, the special feeling that time has been wasted, and every idle weekend will have a sense of emptiness and feel that life is really boring.

At this time, you need to have a hobby, playing the piano, making irons, reading, drawing and dancing in the square dance. When people have hobbies, they will study hard for their hobbies, life will become full and interesting, and the social circle will gradually become bigger.

Note that when you are looking for a hobby, you should completely follow your heart and don't be misled by others. People are easily misled by some chicken soup. You should learn some of this and some of that. . . Then you believe, and you go to study. This sudden misleading sexual love is hard to persist, which makes you hate learning and is harmful to you, so you should choose one you really like and then study hard to understand it.

Second, find a natural partner.

You feel that life is boring, which means that no one in your life can adjust your life. Your life needs a little intense color and a little intense emotional stimulation.

For example, if you fall in love with a spoiled lover, you will find that you have no time to think about whether life is interesting or boring. You will be at a loss to catch up with your partner's whimsy. You are all around him/her, happy for him/her, worried about him/her, and have a restless heart. Every night, when you lie in bed half tired, you will think: I am a little tired today, but I am. Love him/her more tomorrow.

Of course, you may be tired, but a coquettish and lovely person usually knows how to play, and there are many kinds of play. If you are lucky, you will have similar hobbies, so a strong love will be stronger from now on.

Maybe you are out of luck. When love is weak, you will find life boring again, so please refer to the first one.

You need to have a goal.

I know it's difficult, because each of us has many goals, but we can achieve very few goals. That's because we always think that the goal is too simple, the space set is too big and too fake, as if it were just to fool God and pretend to be very motivated.

Actually, we might as well make it lower. For example, I want to earn money to buy an expensive skirt, shoes and bags. For example, I want to save money to buy a computer ... and then you can do some part-time jobs to make your life full and interesting. In the process of making money, you will make many new friends, and new friends will bring new happiness and new life experiences.