I saw someone asking how to marry a boy like Li Jian on the Zhihu the other day. He is brilliant and humorous. How can he not be liked? The answer to the question is: You need to know about tea, coffee, painting and playing the piano, flower photography and cooking, know that lizards are not snakes, become Dr. Tsinghua, be accosted by scouts on the road, and most importantly, meet Li Jian when you are five years old!
And Meng Xiaobei is the best answer to Zhihu!
The love between Li Jian and Meng Xiaobei seems to be the best arrangement and fate in heaven. As Li Jian felt in his heart, many people will eventually become legends in their lives.
Even as a loyal listener of Li Jian, objectively speaking, it is indeed Faye Wong who sings the legend, and the music poet Li Jian is gradually known and liked by people.
The legendary love story between Li Jian and his wife is widely circulated.
In my opinion, they are legends! Their meeting was wonderful, just as the lyrics said: Just because they took one more look at you in the crowd, they would never forget your face.
At the beginning of 1984, Li Jian, who just turned ten, met the lovely "CIS" girl that his father often mentioned. And meet again, is Li Jian at a father's friend's wedding. When Li Jian, a freshman, saw Meng Xiaobei again, the lovely CIS girl had grown into a graceful girl.
The moment their eyes met, it was better, more ingenious, more realistic and more doomed than the arrangement of TV series. Li Jian inadvertently looked from the downstairs, and Meng Xiaobei just looked from the bottom of the building, eyes intertwined, for a lifetime. As Li Jian said in an interview, "Many people will eventually become legends in your life." Their meeting is the beauty of fate. More like Wong Kar-wai said: All encounters in the world are reunions after a long separation.
As we all know, at the height of Shui Mu, Li Jian chose to quit in order to stick to his original intention. I searched Baidu for "When Li Jian quit Shui Mu ..." and there was an automatic search for "What made Li Jian have the courage to leave the Shui Mu era". But I think half of Li Jian's courage to leave Shui Mu should come from his wife, who never gives up and supports him! In those years after his resignation, although everything was quiet, life was tight and his career was not smooth, fortunately, his wife Meng Xiaobei was always with him, suffering and supporting each other. Silence is not only for music precipitation, but also for love accumulation!
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The evaluation of Li Jian's cool appearance, brilliant talent, outstanding temperament and gentle jade. But I don't want his lovely side to be presented only in front of his little shell. "Little Shell" is Li Jian's nickname for Meng Xiaobei. This title just reminds me of that sentence: the best way to love is to spoil you as a child!
In Weibo's words of Meng Xiaobei, there is sweetness hidden between the lines. "Mr. Coffee carefully made a cup of excellent concentration, so I chose a cup of black truffle chocolate balls. He looked at me and said, where did you get so many delicious foods that I have never seen before? It's all hidden, like a little squirrel! " In front of Mr Coffee, Meng Xiaobei is his pet squirrel!
"I always feel itchy when I see the works of skilled craftsmen. I said I wanted to learn pottery; Mr. Tea looked up at me, so don't be naughty ~ "To Meng Xiaobei, Mr. Tea said naughty in a childish spoil tone. After many years, the husband and wife still treat them with childlike spoil, full of love! In their pure and beautiful love, they all maintain each other's purest appearance!
Be gentle with her, it's lovely to be with her!
The gentle childe, who was originally personable, was as naughty as a child in front of his wife, just like Li Jian said Meng Xiaobei was naughty. While recording The Voice of China, Li Jian was eating pizza backstage and suddenly made a face at the distant camera. According to the fans, it was his wife Xiao Bei who was filming him.
Mature love is still like a little boy!
I remember when I participated in The Voice of China, Shen went to visit him and asked him, "Brother Jian, where did you spend your honeymoon?" Li Jian immediately sprinkled a screen of sweet dog food, "I have been on my honeymoon all my life". Really spilled a screen of dog food! After falling in love for many years, they are still as sweet and romantic as their first love. How can such a fairy couple be envied and yearned for?
20 15 At the Beijing Concert, when Li Jian sang "Lovers with Love", his photo with Little Shell was exposed on the big screen. And staged a fancy dog abuse, he said sweetly: "A good marriage makes people even more powerful, just like I am a flying tiger at the moment." The face is full of happiness and satisfaction. A talented person and a beautiful woman, although the group photo is black and white, still can't hide Meng Xiaobei's gentle breath. The photo is full of happiness!
For a long time, Li Jian has been trying to protect this little shell in all directions. She has never been known to the outside world like an invisible person. The outside world also learned from Meng Xiaobei that she is a doctoral student in Tsinghua University and a junior in Li Jian. She is good at photography, playing the piano and painting, gardening, tea, reading and writing. She is a standard and elegant literary figure.
The Bird Sleeping by My Side is a song written by Li Jian specially for small shells.
"The bird sleeps beside me.
Like a fragrant flower.
I hope this tender night
Give it a sweet dream.
Look at its tiny wings.
Protect yourself from the wind and frost
No one can hurt it
I want to protect it from flying. "
A loving and distressed wife suffers when she is in trouble. Now, he should take good care of his wife's life and protect her from outside interference because of herself. Keep her safe and let her fly freely.
However, Meng Xiaobei turned the triviality of life into romantic poetry behind Li Jian, giving him a quiet and stable free space after his tiring work, doing his favorite music with peace of mind, reading his favorite books, making a pot of green tea for him and enjoying a new song!
Accompanying each other is the lasting power of love!