2, to deal with the quarrel, when my husband said something to add fuel to my heart, I forced myself to calm down first, don't worry about getting angry, and think about whether I really did something wrong. Women are more emotional and easy to amplify some emotions and feelings. If he is not satisfied with what I have done, I will make you speechless with satisfaction. A year has passed, and now I feel as if my husband hasn't said anything that makes me angry for a long time. I try my best to handle every housework. Although I don't have time on weekdays, I also began to sleep late as little as possible on weekends and study cooking seriously. Cooking is really interesting. Wash dishes, wash clothes, iron clothes, fold clothes, sweep the floor, mop the floor, clean the table and tidy up the bookcase and wardrobe. If you take everything apart, list the frequency and tables like a student on duty. When you cross out what you have done every day, you will feel quite fulfilled, and you can also ask your husband for credit! You see, I have worked so hard and made so many contributions. I want something in return! 4, intimacy, the world can no longer stop human beings from selling cute! I reread Gu Long's novels. Gu Long has taught many women how to be human, and I have always admired him. For example, "men like prostitutes like good women, and good women like prostitutes; What is more terrible than meeting a bitch is meeting two bitches; There are many kinds of men in the world, but there are only two ways to get rid of them. Finding the simplest, most effective and most promising way to communicate with her husband, selling Meng ~ Although selling Meng with an aunt's face is a bit disgusting, whatever, he can use it. 5, maintenance, usually always plain, but I also have to maintain my skin, hey, I only have the advantage of long white, so I have to take good care of it. Don't pay attention to your appearance just because you are married, but also keep in shape and try not to go out of shape. Oh, when a woman is old, she should also grasp the tail of youth. I often ask my mother for some methods of TCM health preservation, and I can also do massage with my husband on weekdays to enhance my feelings. Every day when I come home from work, I will say, honey, I'm home, and then I'll give a big hug. The ways to maintain a love relationship are: 1, * * Daily chores include many things, such as doing housework and dealing with some affairs at home. Happy couples can share daily chores. Daily chores themselves can't bring happiness, but they bring self-confidence to spouses and enhance mutual trust. 2. It is a belief not to accept each other unconditionally anywhere. A healthy marriage requires the consent of both parties to have an argument with each other. For example, I will allow my little woman to do something she is happy with. These positions may lower each other's status and cause harm. If your partner wears a bathrobe and watches TV lazily every day, and you don't say a word or ask a question, then you haven't invested your money in your partner's happiness. Maybe he is in a bad mood, maybe he is ill, maybe he is just lazy. Anyway, your silence makes him think you don't care. You not only have the right to ask others, but also have the obligation to meet their demands. 3. Willing to spend time with two people How much time you are willing to spend on one thing is one of the criteria to measure the importance you attach to it. If you refuse to be with your partner, the distance between you will get farther and farther; Being in love with your partner often will definitely sacrifice your time to do other activities. But for a person who pursues a happy life, this investment is really nothing. 4. Don't ask if you love many women. After marriage, you will feel that men don't love themselves as much as before, and that men have lost confidence in themselves. And I think men are perfunctory when they say they love themselves. But a man who loves you will never say "I love you". He will turn love into action and create a better life for women. So don't ask men if they love you too much. Hard work is the best proof that a man loves you. 5. Appreciating the other wife's worship of her husband is easy for her husband to experience a sense of value and be accepted. For men, this is the best catalyst to enhance self-esteem. Every man needs this thing. The husband's affirmation and appreciation of his wife will also make her work harder in the direction she likes. The so-called "women are pleasing to themselves" also applies to men. How to maintain a long-term love first: How many couples fall in love at first sight or love at first sight? After all, one of the two sides is relatively dominant. One of the lovers must not be unconditionally obedient, that is to say, the psychological status gap between the two sides should not be too big. One is a god and the other is a servant who obeys in all aspects. Although in the relationship between lovers, perhaps one of them has unspeakable shortcomings or funny qualities, which will be appreciated or ignored by the other half. This is shown on TV, but it is really a normal performance in reality. The bad thing is that you are too dependent on each other and think that each other is perfect, almost the god in your heart. However, when the relationship matures, when you are about to get married or just get married, you will find that the other person is not as perfect as you think, even if you put yourself in the other person's shoes and know that couples should adapt to each other. But the truth that ideal is higher than reality still deeply affects feelings. How to deal with it? We must learn to enrich ourselves before we are qualified to accept the love of others. This is a synchronous process. On the one hand, we keep learning and growing, on the other hand, we help each other grow in love. Instead of blindly worshipping and following each other, it is better to describe it this way: lovers should not be teaching, but students, respecting each other and learning from each other. Second, the pace of love should be slow, not eager for quick success. Readers who like watching TV dramas about urban love or youth idols should be familiar with it. When one of the spouses puts forward the idea of "getting married", the other spouse may say, "Don't you think it's too early?" They are usually more emotional female characters. In emotional communication, don't express your feelings too quickly, and pour out all your experiences on one date. This will leave you speechless, unattractive and fresh, with only a handsome or beautiful body bag. If you have just fallen in love and want to finish everything you want to do in your life in one day, then you will only think about how to please each other every day in your life and get back the freshness that may disappear for a long time. Third: Love should be motivated. No matter what you do, there will be concrete or abstract motivation support, and love is no exception. Although "affection" and love seem to be human nature, they are both skills that will be automatically stimulated at a specific age. But God gave you the ability to learn to love, but he didn't let you learn how to keep it. Love needs some motivation if it wants to stick to the end. The motivation here is not material, spiritual desire or commitment. But to be confident, first of all, you should like yourself, constantly learn and enrich yourself, and let the other party get a steady stream of freshness. Moreover, it is irrational to learn to leave room for each other and force them to meet their own expectations or requirements, and they will not run counter to it for over-conquest or security. Fourth: mutual respect and love. Many men will be gentle and talkative in appearance, but after a long time of communication, they will be rude and rude. You know, neither side of a relationship is an object, and it's not meant to be possessed or thrown away casually. Both sides should respect each other, depend on each other, find life in love, and learn to keep love in life. Fifth. Don't just care about how the other person treats himself. Some women often say, "He just needs to be nice to me". Actually, this is not quite correct. Whether a person has a normal and healthy interpersonal relationship is closely related to his future life and happiness. Sixth. As a new social disease in the current society, anxiety before marriage will affect your feelings even if you are happy and have perfect feelings before marriage. Show in advance and treat it psychologically. Bian Xiao concluded: The above points are not necessarily the key points or the best. As long as you work hard, plan ahead for your feelings and ensure the quality of love as much as possible.