The first episode of "Listen to Her", "Magic Mirror", started with the topic of female appearance anxiety. It is played by actors Qi. In the film, the woman played by online celebrity Qi wears heavy makeup and asks the mirror who is the ugliest girl in the world. She asked herself that she had to look in the mirror for two hours and 37 minutes every day. She looks in the mirror not because she thinks she is beautiful, but because she is extremely unsure of herself. She thinks she is ugly and wears heavy makeup. A flat nose, thin lips, big cheeks, wide eye distance and less hair have all become the sources of her confidence. She wraps herself with everything that can make her look beautiful externally, lets herself live in a beauty camera, lives in a circle of friends and enjoys others' praise of her beauty, but she knows that she just lives in an unreal self.
Then make accusations. This is an era of looking at the face, chest, waist, ass, hair, nails and heels. I believe I will sing when I see this accusation! The once popular phrase "face value is justice" has made many good-looking people taste the sweetness, so many people with low face value have suffered. It is often heard that "a good-looking person does have many opportunities", "she is not smart but beautiful" and "a good-looking person does everything right". These words make the good-looking people feel really lucky, while the bad-looking people feel why others are so good-looking and I am so ugly, and then they fall into inferiority. Finally, because of my inferiority to my looks, I also buried my other bright spots.
An online celebrity, a woman in the film, said that she spent three hours dressing herself up for the class reunion. As a result, as she expected, Xiao became the focus of the audience transparently from the beginning. She once laughed at her figure as a "dog stick", and the monitor who had a secret love for three years took the initiative to chat with her. The former class flower praised her for her good skin. All this made her proud and felt that she was the most beautiful person in the audience. But when she got home, she found that her double eyelids were stuck in the corner of her eyes. In an instant, the double eyelid patch pierced her false and beautiful appearance like a fishbone. She immediately began to think about when the double eyelid patch began to fall off and whether it would be seen by people at the scene. She's worried again. Look, this is the psychology of a girl who looks anxious. She is afraid of being found out that she wears delicate makeup to make her ugly face. Beautiful makeup is her umbrella. Once the umbrella was punctured, her fragile heart was mercilessly untied in an instant. It is an unprepared tear and a real helplessness.
She told me that she had gone to plastic surgery. The doctor looked at her face and told her that she was beautiful and didn't need plastic surgery. Let her be confident, because confident girls are the most beautiful. She cried and said, aren't beautiful girls the most confident?
Are beautiful girls the most confident or confident girls the most beautiful? Which is the most normal statement? Personally, because I have confidence in my bones, I also have some confidence in my body, and I also have some confidence in my knowledge, experience, opinions and abilities. Therefore, I think that if a person fundamentally realizes his own advantages and disadvantages, then makes up for them, overcomes them and puts himself in a comfortable state, he will naturally become confident because of his inner strength and certainty. At this time, whether it is the beauty of appearance or the beauty of inner confidence, it will make you love yourself more.
In the film, online celebrities wake up and ask themselves a series of questions. All for the sake of
"Those insincere praise?
For boyfriend's appreciation?
For the eyes of passers-by
Who are you trying to please?
When did you start living such a humble life? "
She said frankly, "She lives in Weibo and her circle of friends, watching the stars in variety shows, wearing the most popular imitation makeup, having the same style on her face, body and feet, chatting in the fleeting hot search, living a short and frivolous life, with unquestionable standards and simple and rash judgment, trying to imitate her and echoing in her ears.
Everything is narrow and cramped.
Does it have to be a slap in the face?
Does it have to be nine bodies?
Does it have to be Greek feet?
Does it have to be chopsticks legs?
Does it have to be high? Do you have to be thin? Does it have to be white?
Do you have to have a chest and a butt or do you have to be thin?
What is beauty and what is ugliness?
What is the standard of beauty?
Who defined this standard?
Who is this standard defined for? "
Why, if it is certain, isn't it more inclusive of broad beauty?
Women living in modern times are surrounded by these "certainties" and deeply immersed in them. For this "certainty", we lose weight, make up, have a facelift, buy in buy buy, and package ourselves from head to toe, thinking that we can always be slim and beautiful, and cry for losing weight every day. All this must be staring at us. But have we really thought about whether this "certainty" is really worth caring about? Is this "must" that important? In fact, I am really annoyed sometimes, complaining about why my legs are so thick. Other people's legs are really beautiful, and I really want to have them! People around me will also say that my legs are thick and want me to lose weight. I'm losing weight, too, but it's really hard to lose weight. I just eat whatever I want, wear whatever I want, and I'm not afraid of getting fat after eating. I look fat in this!
We are too afraid of other people's eyes. If someone says you are so fat, so short, so dark and so on. , will make you fall into infinite inferiority.
We have been trapped in the "certain" for too long, waiting for tolerance to save us! Or maybe it's just that I'm trapped in one, which has nothing to do with all the definitions outside. Only when I really realize my uniqueness and know who I don't live for will this affirmation not affect me.
"I'm not perfect, perfect how pale. I am perfect, perfect to be myself. "
Qi's acting is really good! The whole monologue, emotion, emotion in place, a look and an action can attract your attention and you don't want to leave! )