0 1. Love is not vulgar, but a human custom.
Poetry plays up how beautiful love is, but reality tells us that love is the most fragile thing. Faced with this fork in the road, many people would rather choose the worst result than believe in love in order not to hurt themselves. In fact, this is not worth criticizing, because it is human nature and the only way for many people.
As the saying goes, love is just a promise of life and death. Many people make love so beautiful, and many ancient poets and poets also sing praises to prove that love must be true, but she has always been the top of art, mixed with life, but independent of life. Love is never a vulgar thing.
It's just that we find that there seems to be less and less love in life. We are willing to believe it exists but unwilling to believe that love will come to us, because in many cases, it is just tacky. For example, if love is mixed with tacky real life, it will inevitably break up, but we can't change this situation, but we never need to break up for love under such realistic conditions. We just need to have good expectations, look forward to its arrival and manage it well.
02. Good love only needs welcoming and sending.
Good love is destined to come and go. If only one of the couple gives blindly, it will be reflected after a long time. Love is a matter for two people. How can one work hard? Therefore, a good love must be evenly matched. You are willing to pay for me, and I am willing to try my best to understand you, so that we can both feel the existence of love and feel the breath of love.
I'm sure I'm full of expectations when you come, but if one day you tell me you're leaving, there's no need to lose your self-esteem in order to keep each other. Of course, this sentence does not mean to be arrogant in love. After all, in the face of one thing, of course, we must solve it first. When there is nothing to do, even if we give our hearts to each other, the two of us are doomed to have no points in the end.
Take Wang Shi as an example. What does it matter if the other person really loves Wang Shi, even if he is old? True love is definitely not above appearance, but more of a spiritual fit. If that person really loves him, Wang Shi will never feel bad for his own face, so if it is for his own beauty, Wang Shi can make a choice, but if it is just to please the other party, it is unnecessary.
Love yourself first is the beginning of romantic love.
Everyone knows that good love must be mutual love and understanding, but it does not mean that you need to love each other more than yourself. Sometimes many people neglect to love themselves, which is actually the beginning of romance.
Love is magical, you can't explain it, but it is real. Two people live together and get along with each other, which is totally different from one person. You must learn to understand and tolerate each other and learn the ability to love, in order to better control this love.
Imagine that if you can't love yourself, you won't understand what love is. Only by learning to love yourself better, learning what is good for yourself, and then putting yourself in the other's shoes, can we love each other more easily.