What kind of girl is Junko? Twenty years after Junko committed suicide, we were able to see an extraordinary Junko image by interviewing five people who were closely related to Junko Tanaka.
When I was a child, the cowardice of my strict parents created the cunning and rebellious character of a gentleman. Also pushed Junko into the arms of her sister Zilan. Only when the two sisters snuggle up and sleep together can Junko get a moment of security and warmth. This behavior continued until her sister left home for Tokyo. At that time, Junko should be 18 years old, which is the age when she died. This kind of behavior, with a lifetime, makes people have to suspect that Junko is gay.
/kloc-When he was 0/4 years old, Junko fell in love with his physics teacher, but his first love for generate was not rewarded. Junko committed suicide for the first time: drinking silver. Junko's behavior did not save her first love, so Junko began to wander among all kinds of men with a game mentality, using men to achieve their goals, and then mercilessly abandoned them.
Every time he chooses a man, Junko has his own purpose.
Urabe turned Junko into a talented girl, Muraki was the boyfriend who prevented her sister from realizing her ideal, Chiba was the doctor who saved Junko and saw Junko's body, Diancun was Junko's psychological sustenance when she encountered bottlenecks in painting, and Tamura was Junko's only boyfriend of the same age.
The 18-year-old talented painter has attracted worldwide attention, and the high expectations from the outside world are doomed to make the gentleman unable to live a normal life. Success not only makes the gentleman happy and satisfied, but also pushes her to the abyss of death step by step.
A Chun's sensitive nature, coupled with his achievements beyond his age, has been threatened by loneliness and helplessness in his short life, and finally he threw himself into the lake and became a bright red in the snow before he was freed.
As for Junko, who does she love most? I don't think Junko loves anyone. Junko doesn't like any man, she doesn't love herself, and she won't stop her sister's love and future. JunkoS loves art the most, but she finally dedicated herself to art and kept herself at the peak of her creation forever.
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There is no doubt that Junko is a serious adolescent with depression.
This reminds Joe of "Little Joy". Although Ruth is a scholar with excellent academic performance, she is not happy.
Eiko's depression stems from her mother's strength and her overloaded love.
Every communication between Eiko and her mother ends with her mother's sentence "I am doing you good" and "I only have a daughter like you".
Eiko was wrapped by her mother, almost out of breath. Eiko likes astronomy and yearns for the freedom brought to her by the world.
Eiko has a dream, but she is not the same as her mother's expectation and faces giving up.
After Ding jumped off the building, Eiko finally fell into panic, anxiety and insomnia, ran away from home and went to Shenzhen, almost jumping into the sea …
Baidu just a search, there will be many cases of young people committing suicide:
20 19 On July 26th, a 22-year-old female college student committed suicide.
20 19 12.30, a 27-year-old beauty singer committed suicide due to depression;
On October 9th, 2020/KLOC-0, a girl aged 17 in Fujian committed suicide.
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Paying attention to the mental health of teenagers has become a top priority for society.
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There is a strange phenomenon: when we are unwell, we go to the hospital aboveboard, but when we are anxious and depressed, we are often ashamed to talk about it.
It's just that I don't pay attention to the discharge of small depression, small irritability, small sadness and small pain, and I always choose to bear it. When negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent and I can't adjust them, they will develop into depression.
Just like a spring is pressed to the extreme, the process of waiting for recovery will naturally get longer and longer.
Many patients with depression are the best in life, the darling of God and the envy of all.
Until one day, they developed symptoms and even committed suicide. People around you are still full of incomprehension, and even think they are too melodramatic and fragile.
In fact, if we don't pay attention to resolving negative emotions, any little thing in life may become the last straw to crush the camel and will be the fuse of depression.
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In the first few years of work, I was extremely unhappy, dissatisfied with my work unit and complicated personnel relations, which made me physically and mentally exhausted.
During that time, my life seemed out of place, and I often couldn't get out of the endless cycle of "life cheated me and I was abandoned by life".
Desperate inside, looking for solutions again and again. But it pains me to think that I can live like this all my life.
I used to be afraid of dawn and waking up. I felt dizzy when I trudged into the office.
I'm glad I have a good mother. When my mother sees that I am unhappy, she will take me shopping and eat delicious food to release my unhappiness.
My mother also gave me a fitness card. When I exercise, I feel the pain, injury, pressure, pain and grievance accumulated in my body, all of which slide down from my body with sweat and are thrown out along my hair tips.
Gradually, I began to open my heart to my mother. After listening to my tearful complaints, my mother said softly, "Don't do it if you are unhappy."
My mother gave me a new life with a simple sentence. I know I have to change. From that day on, I seemed to meet an unknown self. I didn't resign, and my performance in the unit is getting better and better, until today.
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If I have a choice, I think talking is the best way to prevent depression.
However, not everyone can sue, and even those who can, they often don't understand.
The most terrible thing is that if you tell the secret to the wind, the whole forest will know.
So everything depends on yourself.
When I am in a bad mood, I will choose to exercise.
Exercise can distract attention and forget troubles; You can challenge yourself and keep growing.
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Everyone suffering from depression has a lonely soul.
The joys and sorrows in life seem to have nothing to do with them. There is only one color in their world: black!
Their hearts are a wilderness, with no blooming flowers and no cool breeze.
People with depression don't need pity, but care, help and understanding.