I remember discussing this question with several sisters a long time ago, that is, should women save money after marriage?

Some people think it shouldn't, because after marriage, husband and wife are one, and they should be United and trust each other. Saving private money is betraying our husband, which will hurt the feelings of husband and wife. Both sides should be transparent in their expenses!

Many people think that they should save private money. Women have some money in their hands, at least they won't have too many worries. For me, I also agree that women can save a little, which has nothing to do with trust or distrust. Women are very insecure animals. With a little money in hand, it is more convenient to do things and more confident in my heart.

Just like after quarreling with my husband a few days ago, I left home for several days with my two children, and I needed money everywhere to eat, drink, live and travel. If I have no spare money, I really don't even have the courage to go out. It is precisely because the little money I secretly saved before gave me great support, so that I can vent happily after the quarrel. Private money contributes a lot!

So women can save some private money, but it also depends on the purpose of saving money. Women have a desire to buy things, but sometimes they buy too much and are afraid of complaints, so they secretly buy them back and tell him that they bought them a long time ago and can't find them. Ha ha! Moreover, private money can also come in handy when a husband or friend returns to her mother's house on her birthday.

I have a friend with a good family condition. Her husband gives her a lot of living expenses every month, and she saves some. Then she wants it next month, and she can save tens of thousands a year. We all call her a rich woman, and we don't understand why she is not short of money. A friend once said: My husband spends money like water. I really don't know what will happen one day. I may save some money, which will be useful in the future. I didn't expect this to be a surprise. Later, her husband committed a crime, and hundreds of thousands of private money from friends really helped a lot.

I don't have much private money saved, just a little. Because he is at home full-time and his husband supports his family alone, he is also under great pressure. And I have all the money in the family. He never asked me what to buy, but my husband asked me for money, so he gave me a chance to save money. However, I didn't save much money, because my husband earned it hard, and I only saved a small part. Most of it is my own part-time income, which is several thousand yuan a year. My husband knows but doesn't know much, and doesn't ask me what to do. This is trust!

Therefore, if you can, it is understandable to save some women's money. Of course, you need to know how much you have saved. If you save more, you need to save less. But we must grasp a principle, that is, we must not affect the normal life of our family and the feelings of husband and wife because of saving money. If it affects life and feelings, it is better not to use private money!

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