Coup 1, make yourself a "predestined friend"
Whether active or passive, making yourself look like an approachable and willing person is the first key to success. Social psychology research has found that those who are smiling, willing to make eye contact and integrate their body language into the surrounding environment exude the invincible charm of "people who are destined". In other words, you usually have eye contact, so you should take the initiative to make eye contact with others and nod your head gently when your eyes meet to convey respect and friendship. If everyone drinks a glass of wine at the party, you must not go home empty-handed. If there is music, your body should dance to it. In this way, people who are interested in you and those who belong to you will be attracted to you and will be happy to be close to you.
Coup 2. Look for clues from the environment and speak elegantly.
If you go straight up, just say, "I like you very much. May I know you? " If you are lucky, you will win the lottery, but more often you will be scared and bored. A person is swaying in the wind, and there is only an embarrassing range around. Other girls are even more discouraged. The wisest thing to do is to look for clues from the environment, do what you like, and make your speech generous and not abrupt. For example, in a supermarket, you can ask, "Do you know the products of this brand?" In the library, he said, "I like the book you borrowed, too." In the cafe, say hello like this: "It's my first time here, and so are you?" If you can politely add "I'm sorry to bother you, please …" before you speak, girls' affection for you is also rising.
I made some summary about hitting on strangers of the opposite sex. The following are the situations, methods and ideas of hitting on strangers:
In fact, when it comes to this, you will find that chatting up is not simply asking for a phone call in the past, but laying a good impression from the stage of asking for a phone call and paving the way for the later stage. Therefore, knowing the opposite sex must be clever and natural, so that you can leave an excellent impression on the other party at the beginning of chatting up, and then you can have a lasting relationship. You don't have to worry too much about this writing. Everything will develop naturally and unobtrusively.
This has a lot to do with how you know each other, so what I want to tell you is to strike up a conversation and meet a strange opposite sex. The purpose of cognition must be clear and the way of cognition should be as natural as possible. First of all, I will talk about several situations (not all) that I often encounter when I meet a strange opposite sex.
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