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Envy the life of a good friend, how to adjust?
? Calm down, everyone is a different individual, there is nothing to compare. While you are jealous of her, maybe she is also envious of your life! Besides, it's your best friend. You should be happy for her to see that she is doing well. It's normal to have this kind of psychology. After all, we are not saints. You don't have to pay attention to it deliberately, so the result may be counterproductive. Usually, we should pay attention to adjusting our mentality, and don't let ourselves fall into this strange circle of jealousy and envy, which will not only affect ourselves, but also endanger friendship. ?

? Actually, I do sometimes. My best friend's study looks and family conditions are better than mine. Many times, I envy her. I think she doesn't have to worry about anything at school and spends a lot of money. Many boys chased her and said it was true that they didn't envy her. In particular, I think she doesn't work as hard as me, but she lives more easily than me, and then I will be jealous of her. But one thing changed my mind. Her home is local, but it basically doesn't take a semester. Every week, she has an appointment. I thought she liked playing. Then I heard her on the phone, and she cried. It's just the two of us in the dormitory. She said she would have a sister. Congratulations, I haven't come yet. She also said that she was a half-brother. It turned out that her parents divorced and she had two more sisters within a year. Who can stand it? She said that she envied my family. I am an only child. My parents spoil me and don't go home with my parents every week. She said that she didn't make an accurate decision whether to live with her father or mother, that is, this home and that home. She feels uncomfortable and looks like an outsider everywhere. She said several times that she was envious of my happy family. So I suddenly realized that I wasn't the only one who envied her. Everyone has his own strengths. Seeing that others are better than you, you can envy but don't be jealous. It is most important to live a good life. What you see may only be the surface of them. In the future, you should try to overcome this mentality and truly feel that your best friend is doing well and you are happy for her.

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