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Little-known things about having children
? Why is it that my baby is more than 2 months old, so cute and angel, and I still have the courage to write a memoir? Because the process from pregnancy to confinement is really painful for me-so painful that I dare not have a second child, so painful that I dare not go to the hospital, so painful that I will tremble as long as I hear the doctor say, "Sit on it, take off one trouser leg and separate my legs."

1, morning sickness

I can't believe I'm the legendary person who vomited to death. From pre-pregnancy to pregnancy preparation, I feel that I am in good health. I have a regular physical examination every year. I usually love sports, like playing badminton, and occasionally go to the gym. However, from the eighth week of pregnancy, I began to vomit up to seven times a day. I will vomit when I am tired, and I will vomit when I eat something. I often eat together as a family. After eating for three minutes, you have to rush to the toilet to throw up. One day, I vomited and died in the emergency department, and my urine ketone test was++++. I still remember clearly that the doctor said that if the urine ketone did not drop after intravenous drip, I would be admitted directly to the hospital. I was scared to death when I heard this. Fortunately, Duff is lucky. After hanging in the hospital for one night, the urine ketone test of vitamin B and vitamin C dropped again, and the doctor told me to go home.

Because I vomited badly, my mother arranged May Day for a week and took care of me for three months. Every weekend I go to class, my mother helps me with my computer and schoolbag (add up to 10 kg), and accompany me out. Brother Chang picks me up at night. At that time, I really realized that my hands were tied and the garbage bags could not be separated. I often look pale all day, so I lost 7 pounds in the third month. This is called hyperemesis gravidarum. Fortunately, the baby is awesome. Although I rushed from Ganoderma lucidum to two campuses in Baoan on weekends, I attended classes for ten hours on Saturdays, went out at seven in the morning and got home at ten in the evening, and had to deal with nearly 150 students a day, but my baby was basically quiet in class. I always rush to the bathroom to vomit at the first time between classes. If I eat cherry, it will be red, if I eat cucumber, it will be blue, if I eat blueberry, it will be purple. In the fifth month, my children passed the senior high school entrance examination successfully, and I also dropped out of many classes, and the morning sickness improved a lot (probably once a day or occasionally all day). It was also luck that I took the Certa exam in my spare time for more than a month. It happened that my baby gave me strength during my study for more than a month, and let me study at 9: 00 every morning until evening 1 1, but it didn't last long. As soon as the class was over, morning sickness returned. I only had three classes in the summer vacation, and I vomited once when I went out. Most of them are heated by the weather in Shenzhen from noon to afternoon. At that time, my nephew was my personal teaching assistant every day, helping me with books and computers and taking care of me on the way. My mother cooked me a good dish at home, but my appetite was really bad. Just two bites of rice, 1 fish, 1 dish. During this period, my nutrition depended almost entirely on gold, multivitamins and calcium tablets. I tried all kinds of antiemetic artifacts shared by others, such as combing cookies and lemonade.

The worst thing is that I took a bath after dinner on the day I was born 19, and went to the hospital at 2 1. I waited until 22:00 in the waiting area to make up some milk and banana bread (I shouldn't eat one hour before the pain). As a result, I turned my fingers back and forth, and I spit out all the seaweed porridge for dinner first, and then after three hours, I spit out all the bread I ate.

Because of morning sickness, there was no hypertension and hyperglycemia during the whole pregnancy, and the weight increased by 12 kg. After giving birth, I returned to my original appearance, so I am very grateful that my children have made me lose weight. What I have worked hard for many years has come true.

2.ABO hemolysis and GBS positive.

During pregnancy, I always listen to the doctor's advice carefully and do prenatal examination on time. Prenatal examination is also a green light all the way (except for fetal monitoring, sometimes children don't take the initiative to give me a headache). Everyone told me that the baby's fetal position was positive, the fetal size and hip width were good, so I was in a good state of mind, thinking about morning sickness, and I was happy when I was born. When I was a midwife, the doctor said to be very careful. First, the mother is type O blood, and the father is not type O blood. This child is prone to ABO hemolysis. Be careful about this, and pay special attention to the jaundice after the child is born. This is why I am more worried about my child's jaundice than ordinary parents. The baby has been jaundice for two months. The second point is that GBS is positive. This is because the mother has no influence and abnormality. If the baby is born naturally, she will be worried about the risk of virus infection, so the baby should be given antibiotics before birth, which is why I have to go to the hospital earlier than the average parturient, because effective antibiotics need to be input 4-5 hours earlier.

3, indwelling needle

? Because there are many anti-inflammatory needles to be given after giving birth to a child, the hospital usually buries an indwelling needle on the side of the wrist for the parturient, which saves the pain of needling every time. However, as a hillbilly, I have never seen the world, and I feel that there is a very big needle in my blood vessel. It was there when I gave birth. Buried in my hand, I felt pain for almost a day and a night, and then asked the doctor to pull out the indwelling needle. After pulling it out, my arm really hurts. It hurts when I touch it. Later, I learned from Zhihu that the indwelling needle is actually soft and won't cause so much damage. Most of them are scared because they have never seen the world, but it is true that it hurts 1-3 days.

4, painless

It is said that painless is the light of human beings, and I agree with it, but we should also look at it objectively. Generally, there are only 1-2 anesthesiologists in a hospital, so you can do it without pain. You must wait in line. If you are lucky, you can get it before you are born. If you are unlucky, you can't get it. I am very lucky. The pain stopped when I opened my finger, so I was very comfortable for a few hours. What you need to know about painless is that it is best to play during labor, which will not affect the speed of labor, so it is generally better to play with 3-4 fingers. If you play too early, it may affect the progress of labor and prolong the labor process. Painless is anesthesia. Put a needle on the back spine, and then automatically inject anesthetic every once in a while. Don't shake your back when playing this. I'm kind Dr. Wu. Hold it for me and let the anesthesiologist play. My painlessness failed when I opened my eight fingers, and it began to hurt like hell at that time.

5, muscle weakness

I was supposed to give birth in the delivery room at the eight fingers, but I was unlucky that morning. First of all, there is no bed. Second, there was a maternal bleeding in the first half hour, and several doctors went to rescue her, so the demand was even more tense. So, I can only cry in the bed in the hall for nearly an hour. A man with nothing in his stomach has only the strength to cry. I have to remind myself not to cry or howl. To give the child abdominal breathing, tears are disappointing. It really hurts to open my fingers, especially for people like me who can't stand physical pain, which leads to a lot of gas in my stomach when I was born. It was almost dawn behind, and I got in touch with my close friend painfully. She asked the little nurse to give me painless reinforcement. I don't know if painless can strengthen. Call me earlier, and I won't be in pain for an hour. "Misfortune depends on happiness and happiness depends on misfortune." Less than 5 minutes after painless strengthening, the hospital had a hospital bed, and then I entered the delivery room, which was also a very fatal thing, because my waist was anesthetized just after anesthesia, that is, I couldn't stand straight and felt contractions, so all kinds of body position changes did not require any strength. My fingers are completely open, but I was born for 4 hours. Tired and hungry, I asked the doctor if I could sleep in this hospital bed first, because I didn't eat or sleep all night, and now I am very tired. I slept for half an hour to regain my strength. The doctor said, "Your fingers are open. What are you sleeping for?" But if you really have no strength, alas, you can't be born.

6, natural delivery, caesarean section or forceps department

There is another one who needs to see the cervix when giving birth, and the previous prenatal examination is not available. When I was in the internal examination, the doctor shook his head and said that my cervix was down, that is, the exit was narrow, so it would be more difficult for the child to come out, which made my green light prenatal examination worthless in an instant, and the last pass was lost here. There is not enough labor, and the baby can't be born. It is estimated that I haven't moved in the delivery room for 4 hours, and the doctors in the back hospital have come to help. It is estimated that 4-5 doctors were watching the baby. Thanks to a super doctor, who is very strong and will hold my hand and tell me, "Don't be afraid to work together." Finally, I listened to her instructions and held my breath. She pressed my stomach hard and passed. I worked with her three times in this process. The first two times didn't go well. In fact, the last time I was ready to give up caesarean section, other doctors gave up. Only experienced doctors told me that we would try again for the last time. If it still doesn't work, we will consider other plans. Thank God we squeezed the baby out through her hand for the last time, although it caused me chest pain after giving birth. But when you feel the child lying on you, all the hard work is worth it. Later, when my close friend came to see me, he told me that giving birth was not just a natural delivery and caesarean section. Another possibility at that time was to use tweezers, that is, to clip the child out. Only in this way, the child's head will be damaged to a certain extent and will be flat. Second, the mother's lower body will be stabbed to pieces. Fortunately, I haven't experienced this. Thank god.

7. Hemorrhoids caused by giving birth to children

Because the child was squeezed out by the doctor's arm and the internal pressure near the anus was also very high, four hemorrhoids were born with the child. I'm too scared to go to the toilet around my anus, mainly because it hurts and I can't sit down while lying down. I remember that during the four days in the hospital, I was basically fed, and I was in a daze at night and couldn't sleep. So I shared my experience of seeing postpartum hemorrhoids with Zhihu and Xiaohongshu. At that time, I realized that so many people had postpartum hemorrhoids, but mine was more serious because of the long labor process. There is a family, and I have four. They look like a beautiful chrysanthemum. My sister couldn't even give me medicine when she saw my ass shaking. She said that she looked scared, or that Sister Xiao Fang and my mother-in-law were brave enough to give me medicine every day. But to tell the truth, the Ma Yinglong opened by the hospital had no influence on me at all, and there was no change after two weeks, so I thought of my friend who gave birth to hemorrhoids and searched many articles to see how to treat postpartum hemorrhoids. I couldn't leave home for the next month, so I had to collect reliable and safe solutions by myself, so I bought security Tylenol and potassium permanganate through Ali Pharmacy later. After two weeks' treatment with these two drugs, the effect is very remarkable. After half a month's consolidation, hemorrhoids finally got better. Regarding the treatment of hemorrhoids, we should also pay attention to preventing constipation in our diet. Once constipation occurs, everything will fall short. I have enough heart to treat hemorrhoids. The feeling is that as long as our knowledge is wide enough, our experience is reliable and rich, and our consultation is professional enough, we can overcome it ourselves. Recipes and specific medication steps can be found in the "anti-hemorrhoid tour" that I have time to update in the future.

8, urinary retention

Because of anesthesia and hemorrhoids, I dare not go to the toilet and dare not use force. In addition, I used to have a large kidney reserve (the kind that I couldn't go to the toilet for a day), and the doctor didn't tell me the importance of postpartum urination. Careless urination leads to urinary retention for 24 hours after delivery. Once urinary retention occurs, the perineum, which has already been stitched, has blossomed in the anus, which is even worse. I need a catheter in my lower body. This time, I was really scared and didn't dare to move. I have fallen into triple pain, because I am afraid that there are other things that my life can't bear. At that time, I felt that I was disabled in the third degree. On the third day, after pulling out the catheter, I felt alive, and then dragged my heavy body home to repair my four sons with hemorrhoids.

? The problems encountered in giving birth have instantly increased my knowledge. I hope that mothers who want to be pregnant and have children will know more in advance and know fairly well. Don't be as ignorant and afraid as I was when I gave birth to a child, and take fewer detours. I also hope that you'd better not encounter my problems and have a baby safely and smoothly.