Do the following things well and you will understand.

First, you must first make sure whether she has feelings for you, even if it is only a little, don't miss it.

How to determine,

1。 When she chats with you on Q, she is happy. Most of her messages are more than five words each (except "Oh", "Yes", "Good" and "Good". ), except in special circumstances;

2。 She cares about your affairs, or has casually mentioned or even inquired about them in front of others, such as your illness, skipping classes, or being criticized by your teacher, your emotional experience, life experience and so on.

3。 When you are with her, she dresses up beautifully and talks little. Anyway, peace is always different, but when you are away, she immediately returns to normal, except that she hates you, haha;

4。 If you send her information that has nothing to do with work, she will not reply for the time being and will mention or apologize to you later;

5。 She took the initiative to chat with you or send messages, and even complained. If she does, then her attitude towards you is at least trusting, much better than ordinary friends, and your chances are greater.

6 If you are busy for more than a week and don't contact her, she will take the initiative to contact you, call or send a text message or leave a message on Q asking you what's going on;

7. She often visits your space. You remember to write articles and upload photos often. Don't blame others if you are too lazy to update.

8. Talk to her, and she will talk to you about any topic. She will ask if she doesn't understand, instead of being silent or simply ignoring you. Of course, you should never pick those disgusting topics to test others;

9. When you are in a bad mood and depressed, she will notice you, comfort you, directly or euphemistically;

10, which is also the most direct. If you ask her out to play or exercise, you are accepted more times than rejected.

If one of the above items is met, congratulations. You have hope. Make good use of it. If there are more than three items, find a suitable opportunity to confess to her. If you don't meet or are uncertain for the time being, it means that you will continue to work hard, and it can also be used to test whether she is interested in you in the future.

Second, after finding out the situation, we can take targeted actions.

According to your description, that girl's attitude towards you seems to remain at the level of understanding, and she can only be regarded as an ordinary friend, but don't lose heart. The probability of falling in love at first sight is very low, and most people cultivate their feelings slowly.

So next, you have to take action;

1。 First of all, it is very important to put your image right and dress up, which should form a habit;

2。 She is good at student work, so you should try to create opportunities to get close to her at work, such as what activities to hold together;

3。 Take the initiative to ask her out to climb mountains, play badminton, table tennis and other sports; Fitness and picking up girls are right!

4。 Learn about her hobbies and other information from your best friend, such as what her elective courses are, and then you can sign up to sit next to her (I don't know if your school is ok, my elective courses are not specialized) and ask her when she usually goes to the library and canteen to create opportunities to meet;

5。 Make full use of the holiday time, ask her out to play, have a buffet or something, and try to choose a clean and comfortable restaurant for dinner. Fast food restaurants had better not consider it.

6。 Tell her to find more people to socialize with. This is the most common way to pick up girls in universities, and it is also a more direct way to please girlfriends. If all her girlfriends support you, you are half successful.

7。 Her birthday, Christmas, Valentine's Day and other festivals must not be missed. Gifts are inevitable. Of course, it should be generous and natural, and rhetoric should be appropriate. It's time to test your eloquence and emotional intelligence.

8。 If she is depressed, it will be easy. Don't bore her or be wordy. Comfort and enlighten her appropriately. The most important thing is to learn to listen to her venting and complaining. When she has finished speaking, her mood will naturally get better and her affection for you will soar.

9。 She must have studied hard when the final term came. It is definitely important to go to the library to study, and you should know what to do, haha;

10。 Winter and summer holidays are coming, remember to keep the heat. Text messages should be sent at least often, preferably at night, with unlimited content, but they should not disturb her sleep. Call once or twice a week, not too often, otherwise it will only annoy people;

1 1 。 This is a matter of personal thought. You should be positive and ambitious. If you want to be with her all your life, you still need money, so don't delay your future development. Other humorous, healthy and cheerful things can get extra points. Just pay attention to them yourself.

Well, these methods of picking up girls are all written out, so you can't follow them. You should use them flexibly. According to the actual situation, these are the words anyway. They have a good image, frequent contacts, caring, proactive and self-motivated. Finally, you have to be careful and show your feelings, haha.

The highest state of picking up girls is a heart word, and the legendary lover is like this.

I wish you immediate success and find beauty as soon as possible!