Facts in life have proved that people with good interpersonal relationships can do things easily and smoothly. In other words, you should properly use social skills to adjust interpersonal relationships, so as to achieve your desired goals and results.

Under various social conditions, it is the common nature of human beings to pursue harmonious and intimate interpersonal relationships. In developed countries, in addition to self-realization and new needs, a considerable number of people need to socialize. In underdeveloped countries, in addition to physiological and safety needs, social needs also occupy a certain dominant position. It can be seen that people need to communicate regardless of social conditions. Only by establishing harmonious and intimate interpersonal relationships through communication can we get along well with others and cooperate with each other.

2. Good social interaction can form a network.

The regularization of professional mobility and the contract of interpersonal relationship urge people to constantly face unfamiliar communication objects and environments. The rapid development of science and technology and high-tech production will inevitably lead to the regularization of people's professional mobility, which will make everyone's interpersonal relationship constantly break through the stable social network based on region, education and professional background, and be forced to enter a constantly changing state, often starting from scratch and often eager to establish new interpersonal relationships. Strangers, on the one hand, never know each other, on the other hand, hope to know each other as soon as possible.

The process of social communication is the process of mutual understanding, mutual experience and behavioral convergence. Only through communication can we observe, analyze and understand others. Only through social interaction can we understand the needs, motivations, goals, ideals and beliefs of others. Only through communication can he know, understand, experience and grasp himself.

Therefore, it is absolutely necessary for us to establish a relationship "network" through our good social skills, so that the "network" can provide the greatest possibility for our own survival.

3. Good social interaction can collect information.

Socialization is gathering people's wisdom. Learn to socialize, and you can get "the rich information of the other half" from each other through socialization. Its advantage is to provide you with valuable "direct information" in a short, fast and new way. So socializing must be direct communication, because direct communication is full of many unexpected benefits, and the most important thing is to enable you to carry information and think about development.

Information is wealth, and good social skills are the means to collect these wealth. Means serve the purpose. People who don't want to get information are tantamount to driving themselves out of their homes of wealth and heading for the road of "arrogance."

4. Good social interaction can breed emotions.

Socialization is the only way to realize emotional communication. Only by socializing can people sell their feelings and win the love of others. The knowledge of social psychology tells us that people's emotional identity and * * * are the results of mutual communication and mutual infection due to the stimulation of communication situations in the process of communication. If you don't enter the communication process and form a communication situation, people can't understand another person's emotional state, can't properly match their feelings and produce * * * sounds with others, and can't win the love and affection of others. In addition, people can't express their concern, warmth, consideration and friendship for others, so it is impossible to get positive returns and reactions from others. By the same token, people just indulge in the wishful thinking of lovesickness and don't touch the object of communication, so they won't communicate and be infected with others.

5. Good social interaction can eliminate the distance.

In the book Silent Language, Edward Twitchell Hall Jr divides the distance between people in daily life into four categories: new distance, personal distance, social distance and public distance.

① Intimacy distance is 8- 15cm. Intimate distance is limited to people with high emotional connection. For example, between lovers, between couples. If the situation forces people you don't know to get involved in the intimate distance of others, such as on a crowded bus, it will often lead to psychological irritability and disputes.