First of all, it needs to be clear that the wishes and choices of others should be respected under any circumstances. If a person is unwilling to establish a relationship or communicate with you, you should respect their decision.

If you want to meet mature women aged 35-40, here are some suggestions that may be useful:

1. Expand social circle: participate in social activities, such as parties, parties, interest groups, volunteer organizations, etc. Meet new friends and establish social relationships.

2. Participate in social activities: participate in social activities, such as dance classes, fitness classes, cooking classes, etc. And get to know more women.

3. Establish contact: If people you know online are interested in you, you can establish deeper contact with them, such as chatting or meeting.

4. Respect them: No matter how you know these women, you should respect their wishes and choices. If they don't want to establish a relationship with you and communicate with you, you should respect their decision.

It should be noted that the risk of meeting new people exists and needs to be treated with caution. Before making new friends, please make sure your safety and privacy are protected.