In some ways, I am a narrow-minded woman. For example, until now, every time I look at divorced women around me, no matter how luxurious and bright they are on the surface, fashionable in clothes and exquisite in makeup, they have a beauty massage the day before, a fitness swim the next day, a holiday in Japan this month if you are the one, and a jet lag in the United States next season, I always subjectively think that they are all smiling, and narrowly think that behind their seemingly free and easy, they must be deeply lonely. Once or twice, I annoyed my husband Lu Jiu, and Lu Jiu sighed helplessly: "Oh, I really want to give you back to your mother." I asked with a playful smile, "So, don't you think Master Jiu has trained a woman?" Lu Jiuyi said, "No". Women are too much trouble, I don't want them. "I further negotiated:" Then please wait for me first, OK, Master Jiu, and then take me away after I finish training the players. ".I can't lack men! "I once strongly despised a romantic man who was determined to abandon his family and children. I wrote about this man in elopement, beautiful wound. His name is Wei Huaming, and he is a friend I met on a business trip. At that time, I just got married. At that time, I was young, simple and loyal. When I scolded Wei Huaming, the melancholy and sadness in his eyes were as thick as the thick moisture in Hangzhou in winter these days, and as thick as the wet blanket that you just fished out of the water in winter. Finally, he couldn't stand my aggressiveness, so he made a weak excuse: "Mai Ling, no one can guarantee a lifetime. You can't guarantee it. " Ridiculous! I was thinking, stop! From the day I got married, I never thought that I would lose my marriage one day. Unless there is a natural disaster, there is no way for man-made disasters! I went home to Lu Jiu to talk about Wei Huaming, but Lu Jiu said, "There is nothing wrong with Wei Huaming, and no one can guarantee a lifetime. I can't guarantee it. " "ah? ! "It's like I was distracted in class and was awakened by the teacher's discovery of roll call. (fugue is daydreaming. I have been wandering for as long as I can remember. I feel very comfortable and happy when wandering, but I am often awakened by the interference of teachers, colleagues and family members. However, this surprise made me gradually start to look at human nature with rational, peaceful and tolerant eyes. In front of divorced women, I never take the initiative to gossip about the reasons for their divorce, although sometimes my curiosity thief is like the lonely claws of Lin Youcai's bean sprouts and especially wants to find something to scratch. A joke: Why do I think the names of the Lins' owners and dogs are a little distorted? People's names are like dogs' names, but dogs' names are like people's names. No matter how lofty and vulgar the bones are, everyone has a gossip heart. Out of politeness, I never take the initiative to inquire about other people's frustrations, which does not mean that I will cover my ears when others are talking or when the parties take the initiative to talk to me. On the contrary, when I hear gossip, my mind is not distracted at all as when I study politics in a meeting. In my last article about Qier, I mentioned that two post-70s women lost their marriage among the donkey friends traveling in western Sichuan. After reading it, a friend privately induced me to say, why haven't I heard your story? UH huh? Haven't I mentioned them yet? Well, I'll just gossip about what I saw and heard. Wen Na (pseudonym), born in 1979, is a beautiful woman with oval face, big eyes, plump lips and soft chin. Wenna has a flower head, which looks literary and affectionate. On the Panshan Highway, three or four kilometers above sea level in western Sichuan, Wen Na said to his mobile phone in Cantonese and Mandarin: "Dad! He can't do this! He's not answering my cell phone now. I want to talk to him about my daughter, but I can't get in touch with him ... Dad, I'm out with my friends now, and he can't ... Dad! " After the line was closed, Wen Na sobbed. A car full of people are very sensitive. The "father" on the other end of Wen Na's mobile phone must be her ex-father-in-law, and the son of that "father" is undoubtedly Wen Na's ex-husband. Wen Na, one of the "five people and six people" we invited online, is a newly divorced woman. The fate is broken, and the feelings are unfinished. She is unwilling! Wen Na's mobile phone still holds the photos of her ex-husband. According to the donkey friends I have met, Wen Na's ex-husband is a handsome guy. In that "spoon-turning" game, Wen Na dug out his heart and said, "I love those who love me very much and those who don't love me. I don't love people who love me. " "If my ex-husband is willing to turn back in two years, I will not hesitate to ask him to come back. I waited for him for two years. " There are only a handful of old (post-50 s) mountain practitioners, moving! Lian Shan said with red eyes, "If your ex-husband and I work in a city (Guangzhou), I will definitely help you take him down!"! Send it back to you. " Wen Na's female traveling companion (also Wen Na's best friend, another divorced woman) said, "It is impossible to practice mountain climbing. If her ex-husband was so good at winning, she would have won. How many people have worked? No, it's no use. He took a fancy to a richer woman and left with that richer woman. " It was also in that "spoon" game that "if you choose one of the five beautiful women present as your wife, who would you choose?" This tricky question, some handsome guys are not afraid to offend the other four fine girls present, and say very seriously: "I choose Wen Na." Other handsome guys seconded, yes, yes, Wen Na is suitable for being a wife, and other women can be lovers. When Wen Na married her ex-husband, her ex-husband was an active officer. When Wen Na divorced her ex-husband, her ex-husband was already a civil servant transferred from the army to the local government. Wen Na is a businesswoman. Wen Na said with regret that when she heard that her husband (ex-husband) was having an affair, if she hadn't secretly followed her and found out for herself, if she hadn't discovered her husband's tryst with his lover, she would have taken irrational drastic measures on the spot, and maybe things wouldn't have developed to such an irreparable desperate situation. The kind Qier comforted Wen Na and said, "No, no woman can remain rational and calm when this happens. There is nothing wrong with you in this matter, don't blame yourself. " However, Mai Ling said rudely to Wen Na, "If this happens again, you will never be a detective again. As long as your husband doesn't come to you personally to ask for a divorce, just let him go and pretend you don't know anything. If you really can't swallow this tone, then you should develop and replenish players first, and then showdown and divorce! In fact, men are generally too lazy to divorce if they are not forced by women, especially by their wives. The so-called colorful flags fly outside, but the red flag at home does not fall. " PS: Although Wen Na has generously indicated that she can accept my pictures and texts. But I still think it's best not to post a photo of Wen Na here, even if her back is used as a stamp. In this article, I chose to post a landscape film of Yading, which was shot by mail. Ling Mai's West Sichuan Tour Series Link: I came back from the West Sichuan Plateau, and he said that he would take me to Lhasa, Ge Sang Mei Duo (1) on the West Sichuan Plateau, which is far-fetched. It will update a new one, from a happy person, in xinduqiao at dusk, and in Daocheng in the morning, is it me or me,,, twilight.