? The first thing to do is to change your temperament. Temperament emanates from the inside out, and you can't fool people. There are many ways to improve your temperament.
? You can read more books, which can enrich your spiritual world and make your manners exude a different flavor; You can listen to more music. Music can cultivate people's sentiment and help to improve your temperament. You can write more, don't underestimate writing. It is completely different from your understanding of primary school students' writing. Only when your knowledge reaches a certain level, what you write will be recognized, accepted and even loved by readers. There are many similar methods. I won't list them one by one. I hope you can understand what I mean.
Then there is your image. You know, people won't see how many books you have read and how many roads you have traveled at first sight, nor will they care how many articles you have published and how much music you have listened to. They can only see your appearance at first sight, so it is an essential step to change your image if you want to counterattack.
You should learn to care for your skin. You should know how many people can't envy young skin. Don't let those cheap cosmetics corrode your most precious things, buy some good quality skin care products and cosmetics. Don't care too much about money. You know, when you don't care about money, your youth is long gone. And your hairstyle, don't be the same, don't rot in the street, don't be earth-shattering, how about leaving a playful and fresh one? Still sexy and charming? In short, it should give people a refreshing feeling. There are also matching aspects, don't match red and green, don't be black all over, don't pretend to be deep, take them off, and you can also pay attention to some beautiful bloggers online, they will teach you how to wear them.
? Then there are some small habits in life. Small habits may affect your image in others' minds, such as littering, giving up your seat to the old, the weak, the sick, speaking softly and so on. These little habits are really worth developing slowly.
If you do this, then I believe you will be able to counterattack successfully and become a temperament goddess!