Then let's start with the most intuitive "looking at the face".

In all kinds of circles, the best woman is definitely not the most handsome.

The sense of superiority will make men involuntarily "arrogant", showing a sense of indifference and distance.

Obama knows this very well, so one year, some of his photos were selected as the world's annual photos. These photos are not how he reviewed the army or made a speech in public. One of them shows Obama in the White House office, letting his daughters ride horses and crawling around on their knees on the carpet. There's another one. Before a speech, in the corridor, his men stepped on the weighing scale and weighed themselves. He secretly put out a foot behind him and stepped on the scale, laughing badly.

Because he knows very well that he needs to convey to the people that I am not above others, and that I and everyone are like the people around me, and he needs to eliminate this sense of distance.

The principle is simple: people like people who are close and have no sense of distance.

People's emotions, personality and even affinity can be expressed through their faces. Popular looks are not necessarily handsome, but they must have a steady and warm expression, giving people a cordial and warm feeling. Affinity, grounding, such people, only women.

With a handsome and cold man like a marble sculpture, let alone a woman, even men feel tired and will avoid it.

Idol is a burden. Many fans say that carrying this baggage is very tiring, but how can it be so easy to unload it?

There is a boy whose hair is naturally curly and his face is covered with moles and pockmarks. He plays around and enjoys himself, much like the Beijing hooligan in Wang Shuo's novels. I meet all kinds of girls every day, and many girls bury him: "Look, you are a pockmarked girl." He doesn't care. Instead, he joked, "My face is in harmony with the stars in the sky. You can find all kinds of constellations on my face. Girl, what sign are you in? Leo? Leo is here, give me your hand and I will give you some advice. "

Many masters are not high above the male gods, nor are they in suits and ties. They are upright, 360 degrees without dead ends. On the contrary, at first glance, they are full of shortcomings and laziness, and some even look like waste wood. However, there are always many girls who are willing to get along with them.

Because the girls know that this is only the appearance, not the appearance of the soul. It just means being close to reality and relaxing. With such a man, there is no need to be tight and perfect. There is no pressure on how to lose moral integrity and tarnish the image. It's okay to buckle your nose, burp and fart, because nothing can compare with him.

Also, many men are always too polite and elegant. These are all virtues. But girls will think: if we just met, you will make me feel very gentleman.

But we have been dating so many times, and you are still like this, which only shows that we are not close. You seem to hide too much, cold and unreal.

In fact, many times, if you are very good friends, you won't care too much about these.

In contrast, there is a situation where you dress very formally, your hair is shiny and shiny, and your shoes are shiny, and you invite a girl to eat mutton kebabs: "Are you tired today? Do you want to eat together? If you like, let's eat mutton skewers together. "

In another case, you snapped your slippers and told the girl, "Don't talk nonsense, hurry up, old place. I baked your favorite kidney. Hurry up, it's your treat if you're late! "

Which of these two relationships do you think is more intimate?

Too perfect is not an ideal state when people get along with each other. On the contrary, when you show your true side, you will suddenly become closer to others.

I have a friend who is a company executive. Usually there are five people and six people, but there are only two left in private. He has a wonderful thing. He wore a full set of Armani outside, but his underwear was crayon Shinchan and Altman. Once, he took a woman to get a room, and she couldn't bear it. When he took off his pants that day, he wore an exaggerated pair of chrysanthemum underwear. There is a real chrysanthemum pattern in the chrysanthemum, which makes the woman fall off the bed with laughter, and then she is helpless. ...

If it was still cold and no one could let go, women might be deadlocked and unable to open the situation.

2. Warm man

A man with a woman's affinity generally conforms to the popular "warm man and gentle wind".

Sharp-eyed, careful and tolerant, these are the essential characteristics of PUA I mentioned.

The best way to show it is to look casual. In fact, he knows how to take care of people. He silently remembers other people's habits and weaknesses.

There is a Mr. L, who is a very meticulous person. People who have heard of him should be deeply impressed by his care. He will remember the birthdays of every lady in his circle and send a short message. For the woman he is close to, he will send a bunch of women's favorite flowers, which are red roses, blue enchantress or perfume lilies. He can remember colors and varieties very clearly.

Once, a girl drank too much and threw up all over him. He is not angry at all, and he doesn't seem to mind at all. He said, "How many times have I told you not to eat hot pot if you have a bad stomach? Look at the meat you spit. "

When I go out for a walk with girls, I always bring a bottle of water or a drink that girls like to drink. When I catch up with girls' holidays, I will carefully find a hot kettle.

Popular, not only for women, but also for the same sex. Such people are very tolerant. There are all kinds of strange people around you, and all kinds of people don't care. Such a person knows the shortcomings of others and the advantages of others, and will not refuse others because of their shortcomings unless there is a moral problem.

No matter enemies, friends or messy people, when someone does something that doesn't conform to my aesthetics, I will patiently understand and understand the situation and story behind it, instead of swearing "how could you do this" like many people. I said nothing, silently stood behind this person to support or touch this woman's head with a smile, and sincerely respected each other. Because I understand that what happened to him is not without reason, and everyone has difficulties. This is the greatest understanding of people. This is enough for the other party to see through everything and understand that everyone in the world is suffering. This is how popularity is generated.

3. Interesting

Interesting, not vulgar. Interesting is an open-minded, true, intelligent, imaginative and creative person with a unique style. Most people are like replicas carved in a mold, suppressed by life and without interest. There are very few people who are really interesting and worth collecting. So I like to collect such people. Interesting people attract women like magnets, and such people are not bad for women.

So, some of these interesting people I know are dating enthusiasts. They are not young people without stories. They have golden words and jade words. They never make a draft of their stories, and I was shocked by their eloquence, not to mention the girls with vulgar jokes.

He is good at flirting with his sister. Once, a girl wore a dress with a low chest and bursting breasts, but the girl's chest was not big and she squeezed desperately. He said viciously, "You don't have a car, why do you want a parking lot?"

Later, he laughed at the girl, and at first he said a classic sentence: "There are three things in the world that can't be hidden-cough, poverty and love. The more you try to hide it, the more you look like a piece of glass. According to this standard, I saw the third and fourth things in you. "

Sister asked, "What is the fourth sample?"

He said, "The fourth thing is that you don't have a car, but you bought a parking lot."

He went to visit his sister's house, and her sister said, sorry, it's a bit messy.

He said: To tell you the truth, the subway is cleaner than your sofa.

He was even more vicious when he suppressed his sister. He often uses this sentence: "Don't treat her as a joke, she should be ill."

Even our buddies will say something very interesting. For example, when drinking, he said to me, "If a person lives according to his own heart, he will either become a madman or a legend."

Tears welled up in my eyes: Dude, you know me.

Who knows that he didn't wait for me to say it, so he went on to say, "I like you crazy."

"Well, I love your legend, too."

4. Sense of responsibility and loyalty

We always say: strong, giving people a great sense of security;

But in fact, light is powerful and useless. The key is to be reliable.

There are many people who show off their wealth, but those who show off their wealth are actually not very popular with women, and there are bad reviews everywhere because they are not reliable. Why? Many men show off how rich they are for a long time, and say "let's AA" when paying the bill.

It sounds ridiculous, but in fact, many people do it. This is just a microcosm.

On the contrary, I have many such friends. Although they behave like unreliable uncles all day, they are always trustworthy at critical moments. Usually it's unreliable, not bragging. Every time it's time for him to show off at the critical moment of the event, it's definitely the first reliable in the universe!

Picking up girls, the lowest player, buys and sells with one hammer, can cheat one to earn one, and can cheat two to earn a pair. The pattern can only be so small. In fact, the rich are very different. Some people always promise girls this and that, but they never pay anything. His pattern is one pit at a time. And some people, as long as they promise, will certainly do it. The evaluation of these two types of people in the women's circle is very different. As a result, it seems that the first group got a good return at a small cost, but in fact, the latter group who had a really good relationship with women got a much higher return than the former group because the model was very different.

We will find that when people really need help, those who have been by your side and feel loyal have left. One thing a woman cares about is that when she needs help, especially when she really needs money, she immediately defines the classification of friends, and she is crucified.

Therefore, a friend in need is a friend indeed.

For me, I usually don't promise anything easily, but once I promise, no matter how difficult it is, I will do it perfectly. This is my principle and my way of life. It has become my label over time, so my popularity has always been good.

This principle, coupled with smooth handling, makes people from the government to the underworld have trustworthy friends, and such people can never get along well in reality.