Man is a gregarious animal. When we need to communicate with others, sometimes we can't find the motivation to move forward ourselves, so encouragement from people around us is very important. But when we need encouragement, people around us tell us to give up voluntarily, and we feel very heavy. In fact, we don't have to care about so many other people's comments, and his influence on our lives is limited.

We need to communicate with others in social relations, that is, we need to have language contact. It is good for others to give us encouragement, but it doesn't prove that we are wrong if others object to it. When Ma Yun started his business, almost no one supported him, thinking that what he did was like pyramid selling. But decades have passed, and it turns out that what others are doing is very correct. Sometimes we have to have the ability to stick to our own ideas. If you think it is right, you should stick to it. It doesn't matter what others say, as long as it doesn't violate morality and law.

We put a lot of pressure on ourselves in life, because things are not that complicated, but we think it is, so we find a lot of pain that should not belong to us. This pressure comes from our own ideas, because others may not mean it at all, but they think too much and understand too much. So we communicate with others as much as possible. In the state of mutual influence, unlike when we ask for advice, we should not give advice to others' lives casually, and vice versa. There is no need to care too much about the opinions given by others.

You have to live your own life. What others say is only advice, not decisive influence. If you listen to others, we can't go our own way. Just like a pony crossing a river, the old horse says the river is shallow, but the pony will drown its nose. Without personal experience, you will never know whether it is right or wrong.