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Why do you have to understand it this way?

In fact, don't be too influenced by TV movies.

If we can walk together in real life, it must be true love.

Why misinterpret this feeling and deny each other's efforts?

And I have always believed that it is difficult for people who love each other to be together, and their thoughts should never change and grow at the same time.

At first, you will fall in love with the synchronized party, and then one party can't keep up with the other party or everyone's thinking direction is different, which will cause problems.

Anyway, here is the report. Although many things are not humanized to outsiders and we can never really understand them, some of the views in them are still very positive and desirable.

Just look at it when it changes

[News -09-28] "Stage and Screen" Jessica Hester Hsuan made Dicky Cheung feel excited.

Jessica Hester Hsuan's relationship has been unstable since she broke up with her boyfriend Chen Jianwei three years ago. It was not until recently that she was reported to have an affair with the late Hong Kong philanthropist Liang? ? Later generations, more is secretly moved into the mid-levels of each other's worth. However, Jessica Hester Hsuan firmly denied this, as if to protect this new relationship. Looking back on several relationships in Jessica Hester Hsuan, 15 years ago, the relationship with Dicky Cheung was the most vigorous. At that time, Jessica Hester Hsuan didn't mind being Dicky Cheung's Chekhov driver and driving her boyfriend to and from work every day. Dicky Cheung also publicly declared that Jessica Hester Hsuan was his favorite woman, and even claimed that Jessica Hester Hsuan made him feel like vomiting blood.

Admit that you often go to Zhangjia in the evening.

Jessica Hester Hsuan has a pair of very slender eyes. It turns out that the first time we saw her on TV, it started with her legs. In 2008, Jessica Hester Hsuan returned to Hong Kong after graduating from a British university (majoring in materials engineering). One day, after watching a play with her friends at the Academy for Performing Arts, she went to a nearby stall to eat stinky tofu. In the meantime, a strange woman came over and asked Xuanxuan if she was interested in making coffee. Out of curiosity, Jessica Hester Hsuan nodded his head. Jessica Hester Hsuan thought it would be the heroine, but only after the broadcast did she find that all she saw in the original picture was her legs. Then, Jessica Hester Hsuan took another photo of "Chocolate wants to be fresh", which was taken wirelessly and was invited to be the host of "K". Later, Stephen Chow also asked her to play a small and insignificant role-Xia Xiang in "Smelly Alley in Tang Bohu". However, most of the audience got to know Jessica Hester Hsuan on June 65438+ 10, 2008, when she was a "Tchaikovsky driver" in Dicky Cheung.

At that time, Jessica Hester Hsuan collaborated with Dicky Cheung and Wan Ziliang to film Brothers of the Dragon and Mouse. Jessica Hester Hsuan is Wan Ziliang's girlfriend in the play, but she gets along well with Dicky Cheung's lover outside the play. At that time, some people saw them go to the movies together, and others said that they witnessed Jessica Hester Hsuan going in and out of Dicky Cheung's home at night. To this, Jessica Hester Hsuan replied frankly: "I did go to his house at night. We live very close. He didn't drive most of the time when he started working. I just put him down and he will invite me to his house to chat. " Jessica Hester Hsuan added: "Dicky Cheung lives with his family, and he and I are not alone in the same room." Ask her what's her impression of Dicky Cheung? Jessica Hester Hsuan said without reservation: "He works hard and is definitely a good man."

But when the reporter threw the same question at Dicky Cheung, he hesitated: "I get along well with her and have a good impression on her. She is very cultured, but we are not in love. I have no girlfriend now. " But when asked if there is a possibility of developing with Jessica Hester Hsuan, Dicky Cheung added: "I will not deny this possibility." Dicky Cheung said that before, she was only an actress, so she could fall in love openly. But when she became a star, if she was associated with a girl's name, she was worried that it would affect her career.

Regard Jessica Hester Hsuan as the object of marriage;

165438+1In late October, Dicky Cheung Mini Concert invited Jessica Hester Hsuan as a special guest. For the first time, she won the strong support of Dicky Cheung fans, and the audience kept calling her name. It seems that she loves me and dogs and is influenced by her. Jessica Hester Hsuan said, "His fans have always been very friendly to me. Emotional problems, let nature take its course. "

In the past, Jessica Hester Hsuan always looked at her boyfriend first, but gradually she began to think that appearance was not important. She didn't mind her boyfriend's height. "I admire a man who is enterprising, but he doesn't have to be rich, but he shouldn't rely on his wife; Be single-minded, care about people around you, and like dogs. " Jessica Hester Hsuan's mate selection conditions, Dicky Cheung fully meet. Dicky Cheung is 1 .7m tall, shorter than Jessica Hester Hsuan1cm, but she is enterprising and caring. At that time, Jessica Hester Hsuan's dog was ill and she wanted to start working, so Dicky Cheung was the driver to take the dog to the vet.

When dating Jessica Hester Hsuan, Dicky Cheung always regarded her as the object of marriage. It is understood that Dicky Cheung's father is a captain with a bad temper and often beats his son. 15 years old In Dicky Cheung, my father fell in love with another woman, left with a suitcase and abandoned his wife and children. It is because of this childhood shadow that Dicky Cheung feels that he can't be as responsible for his children and his wife as his father. However, at that time, Dicky Cheung was at the bottom of his acting career, and his record performance was poor. Warner records will not renew his contract, so it is difficult to make a good TV series. "Looking at Jessica Hester Hsuan getting redder every day, she earns more money than me. Don't say what outsiders think. Even I told myself in my heart that she is absolutely qualified to find someone better than me. " Dicky Cheung recalled. Dicky Cheung has been saying to Jessica Hester Hsuan, "Give me another year" and want to wait until my career is successful before marrying a beautiful woman. Unfortunately, after all these years, Jessica Hester Hsuan still failed to become Zhang Tai. In 2008, this relationship finally came to an end.

Play "inspection" after breaking up.

After breaking up with Jessica Hester Hsuan, Dicky Cheung couldn't let her go. It is said that in those days, Dicky Cheung often beat Jessica Hester Hsuan in the middle of the night, just to listen to her voice and confirm whether there were other men next to Jessica Hester Hsuan, and then hung up without saying a word. Many years later, when Dicky Cheung went to the variety show "Three Warm Stars", he personally admitted that it really happened! She also said that after she broke up with Jessica Hester Hsuan for a long time, she would hide and cry alone.

It has been four years since Jessica Hester Hsuan and Dicky Cheung met again. On the same day, they went to Radio Television Hong Kong to promote the TV series Deception and Deception and Young Hero Fang Shiyu. Jessica Hester Hsuan arrived first, followed by Dicky Cheung. The reporter asked Jessica Hester Hsuan to wait a moment, and then they took a rare photo together. After a long separation, the two just shook hands gently. The reporter urged them to hug, but they refused at the same time.

Afterwards, the reporter asked Dicky Cheung how he felt when he saw Jessica Hester Hsuan again. He said: "I have mixed feelings, my heart is unmoved, and I still have the feeling of spraying blood." But there is absolutely nothing wrong with this feeling, just mood swings. I remember putting my hand on her shoulder before, and I would be very nervous and feel very hard; But this time I put her on my shoulder and felt very relaxed. I don't know why, but I know this time is different. " Dicky Cheung also said that Jessica Hester Hsuan was once his favorite woman; But at this time, she had her boyfriend Rong, and he also had it.

Regarding Dicky Cheung's words, Jessica Hester Hsuan said, "He is always joking. How do I feel that he is so humorous? " ? When we were together before, he didn't spray blood on my face, let alone today after many years of breaking up? He is developing in full swing now, and I am happy for him. As for his saying that he didn't want to wronged me when he was young, his words were very touching, but I really didn't feel anything. The days I spent with him coincided with the low tide of his career, when his mood often fell to a low point. In my eyes, I feel that I really don't know this person. I think there are always ups and downs in my career, and it's not worth forgetting to eat and sleep! This contradiction has really affected our feelings, but now I finally understand that men and women have different views on their careers. I feel very happy to meet this time, but I feel different about him. "

Described by Dicky Cheung as a favorite in the past, Jessica Hester Hsuan reciprocated. "I think he is a good boyfriend and a very safe man. As for me and him, I can only say that there is no separation between us. "

Jessica Hester Hsuan's first love

Although he loves Dicky Cheung deeply, he is not Jessica Hester Hsuan's first boyfriend. Jessica Hester Hsuan's first love happened at the age of 18. The man is1.78m tall, from China and grew up in England. They clapped their hands for two years, always single-minded, and Jessica Hester Hsuan, who thought her boyfriend was equal to her marriage partner, was finally heartbroken. "His ex-girlfriend threw herself into his arms again, and I couldn't bear to part with it and proposed to break up. I was in pain at that time. I cried all day and didn't even go to class. I sit at home all day and feel abandoned. I am the worst woman in the world, even worse than the hungry people in Ethiopia. Even if my friends come to pick me up during the day, I can't stop crying when they leave. " Finally, two months of darkness finally passed. "James J.S.Wong has a saying:' Men are born playboys, but they are soft-hearted; Women are naturally single-minded, but very determined. "It's really right. In fact, it is no big deal to be lovelorn. "

After returning to Hongkong, Jessica Hester Hsuan met a man younger than her, with a height of1.83m.. But after a summer vacation, the other party wants to go back to the United States to study. Jessica Hester Hsuan decided to end it. "I don't mind that he is younger than me, and the age difference is only a few months, but how can he meet every two or three months?" I have no reason to wait for him for two or three years. Long pain is better than short pain, so we broke up! "From these two brief feelings, we can see that Jessica Hester Hsuan is a very demanding and pure person. She won't wronged herself for love, and she's not good at waiting, which doomed her and Dicky Cheung to part ways eventually.

/Some people say that it is heartbreaking to be wrong with a person; It is a pity to meet the right person at the wrong time; Meeting the wrong person at the right time is a kind of helplessness; Meeting the right person at the right time is a kind of happiness. Jessica Hester Hsuan and Dicky Cheung are each other's "right people", but their love happened at the wrong time.

At that time, Dicky Cheung and Jessica Hester Hsuan were a pair of golden couple. At that time, the entertainment circle was far from being open now, and the fans were far from being so rational now. So stars never dare to love each other openly. Being the "invisible girlfriend" of Jackie Chan and Andy Lau for decades like Feng-Chiao Lin and Zhu Liqian was a deformed product at that time. However, in such a big environment, it is very rare for Dicky Cheung fans to recognize or even like Jessica Hester Hsuan, which just shows that the outside world thinks that they are a match made in heaven.

They not only match each other in appearance, but also complement each other in personality. On the surface, Dicky Cheung is a sunny boy, but in fact, he is a heartbreaker. He needs a girl who grew up in a happy family and has a cheerful personality to warm him up. Jessica Hester Hsuan is persistent and honest about his feelings, and has been looking for a good man with a sense of responsibility like Dicky Cheung. But they fell in love at the wrong time. Dicky Cheung's career as a star has not yet begun, and Jessica Hester Hsuan has taken the lead. The career gap with his girlfriend makes Dicky Cheung anxious. He was afraid that Jessica Hester Hsuan would look down on him and others would laugh at him. Dicky Cheung is so in love that even putting his hand on his girlfriend's shoulder will make him feel nervous and uncomfortable.

In fact, in retrospect, the gap between them was not big at that time, but self-esteem and inferiority made Dicky Cheung enlarge the gap. However, Jessica Hester Hsuan never took this gap to heart, and she didn't even understand why Dicky Cheung cared so much. I believe Jessica Hester Hsuan feels aggrieved. She always thought that Dicky Cheung was "unwilling to wronged her when she was young", which was just a touching excuse. If we meet again in a few years, when Dicky Cheung becomes famous, their mentality will be straightened out; Jessica Hester Hsuan will be more mature and understand that a man's career is his dignity. In that case, the story may have another ending.