Harvard university has done research, and finally proved that if you choose the right partner, the chances of being rich in life will greatly increase.
Because love, warmth and intimacy will directly affect a person's "coping mechanism."
Everyone will constantly encounter accidents and setbacks, the difference is the way everyone responds.
And a person who lives in love, in the face of setbacks, may choose to make fun of himself, exercise with friends, sweat and vent, and accept the comfort and encouragement of his family. ...
These "coping styles" can help a person quickly enter a virtuous circle of health and excitement.
Cai is my best friend. At the age of 24, bad luck followed: my father died of lung cancer, and my first boyfriend of eight years broke up with her because of poor work performance and was fired. ...
So much sadness came to her like the flood of 1 year, which made people feel pale and powerless.
During that time, Cai Xiao suffered from mild depression and shut himself in his room all day, unwilling to see anyone. The stunted Lacrimosa lost weight several times in a row.
Fortunately, when she was down and out, a man walked into her life and shook off a little dust left by life.
This person is kind and optimistic. First, he helped Cai Xiao find a job and encouraged her to reintegrate into the collective life of this loving company.
Then take her on a mountaineering trip and get in touch with nature. Laugh and tell jokes to Xiao Cai every day and cook her three meals a day.
Gradually, a long-lost smile appeared on Cai Xiao's face, and she began to pay attention to the external image. She has beautiful long curly hair and wears some fragrant perfume every day when she goes out.
Later, Cai Xiao and his men opened a small restaurant together. Their lives were busy and moist, and they accumulated many loyal diners. Cai Xiao's smiling face has become a living sign of this shop.
It is estimated that no one can imagine that this well-dressed proprietress was still a unhappy flower a year ago.
Now, Cai Xiao's personality has become as optimistic and laughing as men, and she has also become a little expert in adjusting the party atmosphere.
She said that choosing to be with him was the best decision in my life. If it weren't for him, my life might still be as lifeless as a dry well.
Yes, being a partner is right, and life is full of understanding, accommodation, consideration and respect;
By the way, two people together will not only feel tired, but also have more confidence to face the future life.
Warren Buffett once said, "In fact, the most important decision in your life is who to marry. If you are wrong in choosing a partner, you will lose a lot. " Besides, the loss is not just monetary. "
Why does Buffett think that the most important decision in life is to marry someone, not to invest?
Because who you are with will determine how you are affected.
Two people have been together for a long time, and their gestures will be stained with each other's traces.
He loves salt, so she can't help adding a spoonful of salt when cooking; He pays attention to cost performance, and she will unconsciously become cautious; He is a fitness expert, and she will start to pay attention to her body management.
Like a side dish, I met a lover, and since then my life has turned from cloudy to sunny, and it has become open and bright.
On the contrary, it will take at least a few years to choose the wrong person.
Just like my junior high school classmate, her lover is jealous and sexist, and she is forbidden to contact all men. Not long ago, she also cleaned up her circle of friends and blacklisted all male friends.
What's more, they are married and have a boy. Nowadays, women have to make do for their children even if they are unhappy with each other.
Because before marriage, the man insisted on the concept of "the man is the master and the woman is the master" and told her to resign at home.
Therefore, her economic income depends entirely on men, and naturally she has no confidence to ask for a divorce.
Life now is like a stagnant pool, lifeless.