She really loves him. I am willing to starve myself from1100 kg to 90 kg for his sentence "I like girls under100 kg"; I hope that the weekly date can surprise him and save money, and then increase the frequency of buying clothes from once a month to once a week; When dating, take the initiative to drive to the boy's door and wait, then drive the boy around all the places to play, and then send the boy home happily. You know, their homes are 20 kilometers apart, so in the second year after learning to drive, oranges stumbled for forty or fifty kilometers at a time, just to give her a chance to meet him. She did a lot of active things. She did all the things that should have been taken by boys to be flower girl. People like me who never know how to take the initiative in love and marriage naturally don't understand. For example, she even told me "because I like it".
Boys know how to control girls' psychology. He never sends messages to Miss Orange, but once she has news, he will reply immediately. He rarely asks where to eat, but he will accompany her as soon as she wants to go; He never gave her any gifts, but she accepted them all.
Boys also like her. At least people admitted that she was a "girlfriend", but I thought about it later. No man with an empty window will refuse such a woman who is not ugly and has a particularly attentive attitude.
It seems to be an epiphany for Miss Orange to give up this relationship. In other words, when the initial love was dull, she gradually found that if the whole life was summed up as a surging emotion, only his own efforts were left, he could always stay out of it and enjoy it. Miss orange broke up. That night, she turned off her mobile phone and bought a train ticket to a distant place to relax.
That boy called me and asked me: He doesn't know where he is wrong?
I said: think carefully about how much you have done for her and how much she has done for you. Forget it, to put it simply, gifts and bills, but they may all be worthless and insignificant. But every time you give, it's actually your heart, but big or small, at least it shows that you are willing, and you want to be with her and continue to work hard.
The boy hung up the phone, and since then, I have never contacted him, Miss Orange and him.
I have always felt that any relationship deserves to be treated well from the beginning. This does not mean that you deliberately please and please in different ways for a certain goal. Accustomed to roses and goblets can have its romance and feelings, and like every table of scrambled eggs with tomatoes can also have its simplicity and warmth. But in this way, you can at least feel that at a certain moment, everyone is willing to pay for each other and respond wholeheartedly to each other's love. This time, you can go back and forth as you want, and you can continue one after another.
My grandparents have been married for 64 years. My grandfather is a man with a bad temper. When I was a little dissatisfied, I started to break the bowl. When he grew up, he became much gentler. Maybe he realized it himself. My grandmother is a typical rural woman. She has become humble and submissive under the packaging of "son preference" since childhood. She has her beauty, but her eyes are always drooping, and she is always a little nervous for fear of going against others' wishes.
In fact, when I was young, including a few years ago, I couldn't understand why my grandmother could stand my grandfather's bad temper and used to pour him tea and water willingly. Until later, my father told me one thing: my grandmother was paralyzed in bed after giving birth to her father because of her weak body. My father was still young at that time, and my grandfather temporarily entrusted his father to his neighbor without saying anything. Then, at five o'clock every morning, he gets up and cooks medicine for grandma. After feeding the medicine, he went to work, came back to feed his grandmother at noon, and took care of the children, looked at folk remedies and washed clothes when he got home at night. Later, I asked my grandfather about it, and he was very shy, and then he deliberately concealed one thing: she is my wife, and I always have to find a way. Every weekend, grandpa has to carry his grandmother to a Chinese medicine clinic more than ten kilometers away. My grandmother is very tall, 165cm, and naturally her weight is not much lighter. My grandfather leaned on his leg and carried it step by step. In order to save money to treat grandma, my grandfather went barefoot, because I was afraid that I would have to buy a pair of shoes in Shuang Yi. During that time, my grandmother almost looked at the people who accompanied her to see a doctor and passed away one after another. Fortunately, after a year and a half of grandpa's constant visits to Chinese medicine, buying folk remedies and doing * * *, my grandmother miraculously recovered, and later she had two daughters, which are my two aunts now.
A year and a half of nursing, working day and night, and taking care of patients seem incredible now, but I survived after all. Grandpa has a big temper and a little idea that men are superior to women. This hasn't changed since grandma recovered, including until now, every morning grandma cooks noodles for him, then brings them to him, puts chopsticks away for him, watches him eat, then cleans the dishes and cooks porridge for himself. However, on second thought, grandpa is also a sentient beings and righteous person. Grandma is ill, so he must cook medicine for her himself. A person will sit quietly in front of the medicine jar for two hours and stare unblinkingly. Even if my parents want to do it for him, he will never want to. He said, "You guys, I don't believe what you do. After frying the medicine, he was very satisfied when he watched his grandmother take it.
I believe in a kind of balance, called the balance of love. In any balanced relationship, two people who are opposite to each other are always adding their own chips for a long time, so that they are at the same level in appreciation. Once someone gives up, this balance disappears, in other words, the days are getting longer and longer, and I can't live any longer.
Many people are puzzled that I am with Mr. Chen, because at first, my interests with Mr. Chen are so different. He likes games, and I like fitness. Write some words. Secondly, he is really not romantic enough. I have been adding new clothes to him, but he seldom thinks of doing anything for me. Moreover, he really cares little about the sense of responsibility for his family because he is in a different place. But teacher Chen's kindness is true after all. I went to Shanghai alone when I was still in love. He was worried that I was a stranger. He came to see me in Shanghai after work. He lives in the room next to mine, shaking the key at my door and saying, I'm sure I can hear anything dangerous. When we got married, Mr. Chen was basically doing candy-loving work alone, sitting in the living room for a whole 10 hour. When he finished, I saw his hands shaking all the time. After I gave birth to a child in the hospital for a while, I was basically unable to go to the fields because it was a caesarean section. He and my mother-in-law wiped my body and fed me, carried me to the toilet and accompanied me to do rehabilitation training. They never said a word of complaint. Now that I think about it, I can tolerate his unprincipled mistakes and shortcomings every time, which is enough.
In fact, feelings are the most complicated and simple things in the world. Because you never know where it will go, but you also know that if you give and respond, that is the most willing thing in life. We don't have to have the vigorous, life-and-death love between San Mao and Jose. Our simple life, simple love and face-to-face response to each other's small and beautiful efforts in life are enough. I want to say: the so-called long-term flow of water means that you have given the most romantic thing, and I have responded to you with the longest love. We don't need to push, and we can't be lazy. After all, in our lifetime, a long time is the best ending of our ideal relationship. Do you like this article? Share this article with more people ~
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