The benefits of cultivating hobbies, the benefits of cultivating hobbies, and the development of children are all concerned by relatives. Growth is a sweet and difficult process. The happiest thing for children is to get their parents' approval. In fact, children just want their parents to accompany them. Let's share with you the benefits of cultivating hobbies. The benefits of cultivating hobbies 1 "There must be a job in one's life that doesn't make a living!" My first impression when I saw this sentence was that I didn't understand it. I watched it three times. It seems simple, but it is rich in profound philosophy. Many people in our life are very busy, busy and busy. In order to survive and meet the needs of workplace life, nine to six; In order to win the favor of tour guides and classmates, we spent a lot of time on campus, dragging our tired bodies to sleep "contentedly" in the middle of the night, but do you sometimes ask yourself, what have I got from being so busy? "We live in prosperity and adversity", whether from the perspective of survival or from the perspective of winning a good interpersonal atmosphere, is ultimately for ourselves, but don't let us be lost in poetry and distance by various lives. Why not give ourselves a buffer time to enrich our spiritual world? It's better to cultivate different hobbies like me! ! ! I used to be the "pupil" who liked to help others. Of course, I don't cater to others in order to win their likes. Embarrassed, I can't bear to refuse others, which is very impressive. 20 16 throughout the school year, I devoted one of my most precious college days to others, attending classes, eating, reading, clubs and so on. In college, no one is curious and wants everything. Help the teacher print, write a copy, help her check the dormitory, help the director manage the computer room, maintain the computer and lay the network cable. Busy, although I didn't delay the study of the course, I also met many people, but it seems that something is calling me from the bottom of my heart. In this way, you are not happy but anxious and empty. Gradually, I tried to refuse other people's demands. Of course, I didn't refuse everything. I just chose a reasonable request to help others. I began to sit slowly in the library and open a book casually. That kind of feeling is really unparalleled quiet, warm and comfortable, with a sense of happiness and gain. Occasionally, I go to travel, exercise and watch movies with my partners. I was really inspired during that time. It's still fresh in my memory, warm and beautiful. So what's the revelation? First, hobbies can make us love life more and cherish time. Let's be more active and full of hope and positive energy for life. With hobbies, you will find that time suddenly becomes extremely precious. You are no longer bored, have no time to think, and will not wander around the street alone. You have become a busy and full person. It drives us to find friends, become friends, support each other, learn from each other, help each other and purify our living environment and spiritual world. Second, hobbies can constantly bring us happiness and happiness. When we grow up, we experience more and more things, and nothing around us can bring us freshness and happiness. We are numb. At this time, we will continue to explore, we can explore in the sea of books, we can explore on the road, because what we are looking for is what we need-happiness! Take tourism as an example. This is a process of continuous exploration. You never know what you will meet. Whether it is surprise or fear, it will eventually turn into happiness. Third, hobbies can help us overcome all kinds of difficulties and cultivate lasting endurance and perseverance. When your motivation is interest, its power is far greater than your other factors. Under its impetus, you will constantly overcome the difficulties you encounter, find solutions to the problems step by step, and inspire you to move forward. Maybe these will give you some inspiration, maybe you will pass by, but you should deeply understand that it is really meaningful and cultivate your hobbies. The benefits of cultivating hobbies 2 people must have a job that doesn't make a living in their lives! "I happened to see this sentence in a woodworking forum four years ago. I was moved by it at that time, and immediately decided on the future direction-cultivating personal hobbies and making life more or less meaningful. In the summer of 20 12, I reached the lowest point of my personal spiritual world, which was the famous "Rhapsody Syndrome in July", also known as "Middle-aged Crisis". After my daughter was admitted to the university, the family became much deserted, and I always felt that something was missing. The original tense state suddenly disappeared, like a sudden brake. I have formed the habit of giving, the object suddenly disappeared, and I lost my legs, balance and support. The working environment is also changing. It turns out that the investment of coming early and leaving late has proved to be so ridiculous and naive again and again. No matter how hard you work, it doesn't matter how much you have achieved. Your heart is slowly dying, but you can't predict the future decline, and you can't do it. I can only watch this place, which has spent half my life and is full of feelings, slowly weaken. I am very confused, I don't know what to do, and I am lost in thinking all day. I find thinking the most painful. I will struggle. I will have to face the questions I have repeatedly avoided, and I will force myself to make a decision. I began to envy those people who only eat, sleep and think nothing. Why do you think so much? Take it one day at a time and be happy! Just thinking, mixing, mixing, thinking, half a year has passed. In the online communication with my daughter, I was encouraged by her and suggested that I try to express, express and release my heart with words. For this reason, I also specially consulted a friend who has been a text editor around me. My friend told me that writing, first of all, is for myself, a process of rearranging, and a process of purifying the messy mind. Therefore, you don't have to care about the quality of your writing. As long as you keep writing, you will always get something. Another colleague in the unit also gave me great encouragement at that time. In order to encourage children to study, she set an example for them. In her forties, she insisted on going to graduate school, which was "meaningless" to her. After repeated consideration, I decided a new goal, that is, to start writing, starting from everything around me, and choose to learn wood carving as another hobby. This combination of motion and static requires me to sit down and write. If you can't write, just concentrate on playing with wood. In order to write and make good works, I picked up my brush again and began to learn photography, although I never wanted to be a writer and sculptor. But my heart is more and more firm, and I have rediscovered my happiness and my value, even if it is only to set an example for my daughter-Dad can insist on doing one thing well, as long as we want to do it, as long as we insist, we will certainly do it well! At that time, at the end of February, 20 12, I saw a sentence from the temple owner Lao Li on the woodworking forum: "A person must have a job that does not make a living in his life! "If I had only a little knowledge of this passage at that time, then through these four years, I became more and more grateful to see Lao Li's philosophical words at that time. Today, I would also like to share this passage with more friends, especially young friends. What kind of things are necessary in our life, even if there is only one thing, and it is not for fame and fortune, we should persist in doing it like work? Why is this? Why do we do it if we don't want to make a living-how important it is to cultivate hobbies. Cultivating healthy hobbies will have important influence and significance for us, especially for the healthy growth of teenagers and even for life. Interest means that we are subjectively willing to take the initiative to discover, understand and master something, and strive to participate in it. For example, some people like art since childhood. They will be interested in things related to art, like to explore and try the skills and origins of various painting methods, and find out the different effects of various pigments and brushes on different papers. Hobbies, on the other hand, mean that under the guidance of interests, we often participate in an activity or a thing and are very active. For example, if we like painting, we will take the initiative to buy related books and albums, or study online and communicate with people with the same hobbies, and strive to create our own satisfactory works. Of course, those bad hobbies and habits are not included here. Don't tell me that you like drinking, sleeping, gambling, smoking or watching H movies. What's the point? 1. Healthy hobbies can make us love life more and cherish time. Let our life be positive and full of positive energy, which can make us feel the fullness of life and the beauty of the world. There are already many relatives and friends around. After retirement, I was at a loss and fell into so-called senile depression. In fact, I was suddenly idle, I didn't know what I should do, I couldn't find my way, and I lost myself. With hobbies, you will find that time suddenly becomes extremely precious. You are no longer bored, have no time to think, have no time to attend those boring parties, wander the streets alone, and pass the time with alcohol and cards all day. You have become a busy and full person. Through healthy hobbies, we are driven to find friends, become friends, support each other, learn from each other and help each other to purify our living environment and spiritual world. We will disdain to participate in those ridiculous workplace competitions, and we are even more unwilling to participate or even too lazy to understand those meaningless infighting. We have higher conditions for making friends and know what it means to be near Zhu Zhechi. Away from right and wrong, we will be more and more broad-minded, telling ourselves that only by doing ourselves well can we not care too much about others, which is the real growth. Second, healthy hobbies can make us willing to overcome all kinds of difficulties, cultivate our tenacious perseverance, and enable us to go on strongly along our own goals. Because we are interested in it, it is easier for us to stick to it, and it will also make us more active in finding solutions to problems. In this way, step by step, one small success after another brings us strength and inspires us to continue to go step by step. Third, healthy interests and hobbies stimulate our intelligence. When encountering difficulties, we will seriously explore, delve into and find answers until the problem is solved. This process unconsciously cultivates our keen observation, meticulous thinking ability, rich imagination, high attention and willpower, which will be unconsciously reflected in your daily life and work, bringing you unlimited benefits. Imagine, with these abilities, what kind of work are you not qualified for? Fourth, hobbies can develop into our career. I once wrote that most of us hope, or our ideal professional state is to do what we like. Many people think this is extravagant hope, but there are too many examples to tell us that many successful people are not engaged in their current careers, but have developed from likes and hobbies to enthusiasm and obsession. When we do something to the extreme, it is impossible for you to think that it has nothing to do with this field. Some people may ask, didn't you say that hobbies don't make a living? How can it become a job? Will you feel bored and lose interest after becoming a job? In fact, this is not contradictory. As mentioned above, the ideal state of people is the combination of hobbies and work, but not everyone is so lucky. Most people are doing jobs that have nothing to do with their interests, which are boring, but they have to work hard for them. In that case, why don't we take our hobbies to the extreme under the permitted conditions? We don't have any unrealistic fantasies, as long as we do what we like seriously and persistently. When we do these things to a certain extent, unexpected gains will always bring us surprises and happiness. Fifth, hobbies can constantly bring us happiness and happiness. Why do we keep traveling? Because this is a process of exploration. We don't know what we will see ahead and what we will meet in a corner. Whatever it is, it's a surprise and an accident. Is what we lacked in our original life. Even fear and pain will unconsciously turn into happiness. This is the basic feature of human nature. A simple grimace or toy can make us laugh when we are still in infancy. When we grow up, we know more and more things, and nothing around us can bring us freshness and happiness. We are numb. At this time, we will continue to explore, we can explore in the sea of books, we can explore on the road, we can also explore in one thing, because what we are looking for is what we need-happiness! This is the most id purpose of cultivating personal interests and hobbies, and it is also the cheapest way to get happiness! Finally, I would like to remind you that when we cultivate hobbies, we should pay attention to the following two points: First, we must choose a major as our hobby according to our actual conditions and abilities, cultivate it slowly and pursue it persistently, and eventually we will gain something. The process is long or short, but we must stick to the principle of liking and not force it, otherwise it will be counterproductive. This is why we were tired of learning when we were young. I have also made some attempts to influence others in my small circle of friends. Watching them after work and housework every day, hoping to get comfort at friends' gatherings. I am distressed and worried about their future. Of course, these are just my personal feelings. I try to guide them to read together and then discuss their feelings. I travel with them to discover beauty; I am tutoring them to carve knives and cut paper; They are also forced to hand in an article on any topic every week. However, I failed. After a long time, everyone gave up. I think I tried my best, but these are not their interests, so we should cultivate hobbies, like them and not be influenced by outsiders. Second, when we don't have any professional knowledge and don't know what to take as our hobbies, we can look around and see what others are doing, whether those can arouse your interest, and whether the people we know have made achievements in a certain field. We can use such resources to quickly understand more aspects of things and evaluate whether we are suitable for this aspect. You can also discover and explore your interests through various training courses, which requires a process. Once you find your interest, the rest is to learn this knowledge systematically, learn by doing and pursue it persistently. As long as you persist, one day you will find that your choice is correct. It will bring you happiness, happiness, success and a sense of accomplishment, and make you re-examine and know yourself. You can make yourself different, bring happiness to your family and make them proud of you. All this comes from your persistence! Benefits of developing hobbies 3 1. Make real friends. At the end of the Ming Dynasty, Zhang Dai had two famous words: "Making friends is addictive, so I don't like it;" There is no communication between people without shortcomings, so there is no true qi. " It is said that people who have hobbies can show deep affection and true temperament, and such people are more worthy of making friends. * * * Like-minded people don't get together for the benefit, so friendship is more pure. 2. Interest allows you to enjoy solitude. Interest allows you to completely relax yourself and immerse yourself in things. In this kind of devotion and enjoyment, you feel happy and calm, and use this happiness to resist the mediocrity of ordinary life. Only people who have hobbies can enjoy solitude, even if one doesn't feel lonely. 3. People who have hobbies are more attractive. People often say that serious people are the most attractive. People with hobbies, when you immerse yourself in your hobbies, when you devote yourself wholeheartedly to relaxing and happy things, you create a world that radiates light and infects people around you. 4. People with hobbies are more creative. When a person has a hobby in literature and art, it is conducive to improving his aesthetics. Aesthetic power is a person's core competitiveness, which can affect a person's life, be more creative and live a life he likes. Jiang Xun, an aesthetician, said: A person's aesthetic level determines his competitive level. Because aesthetics not only represents the overall thinking, but also represents the detailed thinking. The best gift for a child is to cultivate his aesthetic ability.