I still remember that night, I was walking in the streets of Shenzhen, and a young girl dressed in fashion came face to face. Her figure is very good, and her snow-white long legs make me move. At that moment, I felt that I would regret it all my life if I missed it, so I got up the courage to strike up a conversation. Facing her big innocent eyes, I was too nervous to know what to say.
Incoherently, I failed to win the girl's favor. On the contrary, she met me in this deserted street. She left me in fear. She kept saying, What are you doing? The moment she spoke, I felt very failed, and I felt that I had fallen to the bottom of my life.
From the moment she turned away, I was deeply aware that I had a serious social phobia. I have to try to change myself and make myself confident and calm when facing strangers. Besides, I have to work hard. Only by making yourself have enough economic strength can you capture the heart of secretly loving girls. No one doesn't like making friends with rich people!
The conversation was a complete failure, which also inspired my fighting spirit. I don't want to do this anymore. I want to be a graceful gentleman who talks with Kan Kan. I can win a woman's favor through short contact and easily capture a woman's heart. The first problem to be solved is to earn money, earn enough money, and have enough money to meet women's material needs, so as to have a chance to meet women's spiritual needs.
The meaning of hard work is actually very simple, that is, to make yourself live a better life, live a carefree life, and have time and money to pursue the woman you like. After my efforts, I looked around and saw all the people and things I liked.
Many times I know that I have to work hard, but how many people can persist and be ruthless. Understanding is just a comfort or chicken soup-like encouragement after being hit. After all, you need to rely on your own efforts.
Baidu Luo Yonghao is worth a lot. As we all know, the hammer mobile phone once became the most sentimental mobile phone, but the sentimental mobile phone still didn't make Lao Luo's entrepreneurial road smooth. Luo Yonghao sent a message in Weibo. Since the business crisis occurred on 20 18, Hammer Technology owes about 600 million yuan to banks, partners and suppliers at most. In order to save the company, a personal unlimited liability guarantee of 1 more than 100 million yuan was signed.
Until April 1, Lao Luo made his debut live for the first time, with a sales volume of1.800 million in three hours and 48.922 million people watching. In any case, this is a bright spot in the depressed retail industry.
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The voice of the media is always turning. From beginning to end, the voice of the outside world is just a gust of wind to those who are truly confident in their hearts. Blowing the floor doesn't warm people's hearts, and it won't freeze if it blows cold.
Each of us has moments of light and moments of darkness. Chicken soup is actually a routine. Compared with all kinds of famous sayings, I think it is human instinct and talent to push people into a corner and fight hard and explosively, instead of using chicken soup to improve them.
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If you have experienced it for a long time, looking back now, you will find that many important choices in life are actually passive, and the opportunity to leave the comfort zone will never be too willing, but next, the most important thing is the mobility after the choice.
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Andy Lau, 57, stood on the stage, burying his face in his hands. After 20 concerts, I sang 14 and suddenly lost my voice. No matter how hard he tries, he can't sing.
49-year-old Sammi Cheng is still sweating so hard in Weibo, still working, still taking photos, still practicing singing and dancing, no less than the idol intern.
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Idol is so desperate, and we, an ordinary person, a middle-aged man with old and young, are experiencing the turmoil of life, and every step of our choice is very difficult.
When parents are 70 years old, they always have to prepare a medical fund and nanny fee to take care of their parents instead of themselves.
The cost of two children from primary school to university, and even studying abroad, the accumulation speed of this money should keep up with the growth speed of the children to ensure their academic Excellence, otherwise there may be an extra one-on-one tuition fee.
Whether the company situation of yourself and your partner is clear, whether you are content with the status quo, waiting for the future or bravely starting a business. Whether the initial start-up funds are in place.
And these expenses do not include monthly mortgage, car loan, twice-yearly travel, and family daily expenses.
All these moments show that you must work hard:
[Rose ]0 1 Learn a skill in your spare time.
No matter how busy you are, you can spend more time to improve your business. It is better to learn more skills than to waste it on TV. 48-year-old Lao Luo may become a generation of internet celebrities, and we may also achieve our second career.
No matter how busy you are, you must keep healthy.
In the following days, it is more practical and useful for the left to be king. Maintaining good physical strength and good mental state is the foundation of our endurance. A sudden epidemic makes us more aware that the body is capital, and health is not only physical health, but also mental health.
Seeing elderly parents and finding money is also a kind of filial piety. We always deceive ourselves, thinking that we won't get sick and get old without seeing our parents. If you want them to live a good life early, you have to try to keep up with their parents' aging.
I was 25 years old in 1995. Compared with my peers, I feel that my pace is really too slow. Many classmates and friends around me have started to own their first car and house. If you want money, you have to look at yourself if you have no money. If you want to work, you will accomplish nothing. If you don't work hard, you may not even have a chance to be friends with them.
Everyone is selfish and wants to work harder and get more, but it is not allowed in real life. We all hope to have an excellent partner to spend the rest of our lives with. But seriously think about it and measure your own conditions. If I were someone else, I wouldn't like myself now. Therefore, only by working hard to keep fit, study, enrich yourself and make yourself excellent can you be qualified to match with excellent people. Otherwise, you will die alone.
Hello, let me simulate a personal experience of my friend for you!
One effort is to live with dignity for yourself!
The woman has just worked hard to get the courier back from outside and hasn't caught her breath yet. Men attack!
M: You only buy in buy buy one day. Don't you know how to save money?
W: I bought everything I needed, and it was very cheap online.
Man: How much do you think it costs to buy so many? Don't you know it's hard for me to make money?
Woman: Look at me, it's such a big pile. In fact, there are only a few things. Don't you spend money going out? Everything I buy is cheaper than outside!
M: Anyway, buy less in the future and don't buy useless things!
W: What works and what doesn't? What I bought is useless. What shall I do with it?
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I want to ask, if women don't need to ask men for money, and make their own money and spend it, is there no such thing? How can they spend their own money as they please?
Second, efforts are to have the ability to protect their loved ones!
My friend's child is ill and needs an operation, but she has no money. In order to treat the child, she borrowed all her relatives and friends, and many people avoided it. Later, she asked strangers for help online. Many strangers helped her, but it was not enough. Later, she borrowed an online loan and finally managed her child successfully! Fortunately, the money gave the child a second life!
At that moment, she knew that she had to work hard. If she had money, she wouldn't have to bother her relatives and friends, or so many strange friends, not to mention borrowing high-interest online loans! Fortunately, everything went well, otherwise it would be really painful to watch the child get seriously ill and have no money for surgery because he has no money!
Work hard, otherwise you will have no dignity, no ability to love yourself, no ability to love others, so living is like an ant, everyone can step on it, but you can't resist!
When the results came out,
Thanks to Wukong for inviting this question and letting me tell what I have hidden for many years. Because I am a resigned nanny, there is no job and no income at home.
It's all like this. That year, my husband and I went shopping together, and we couldn't afford our favorite shoes for more than 600 yuan. We even asked him to give it to me, but he wouldn't give it to me, saying it wasn't nice. To put it bluntly, he just doesn't want to buy it for me. We visited a lot of shoe stores. He said it looked good when it was cheap, but it didn't look good when it was expensive. It's the same with clothes. Wearing cheap clothes means looking good, and wearing expensive clothes means not looking good ... From then on, I understood that if you want to get what you like, you have to pay for it yourself and try to get what you like.
Now, I take care of my children at home during the day and my husband comes home from work at night. I asked him to take care of my children at home. I went out to set up a stall to earn some pocket money. I save money to buy what I want and what I like. Except for living expenses, I generally don't ask him for money, because I can buy what I like, no matter how much money I can earn, but I am happy to spend what I earn.
Resign to take care of the children at home and ask her husband for money to see a doctor. Husband calmly threw 400 yuan on the bed. At that time, he felt helpless and had no dignity, which deeply hurt my heart. Let me instantly understand that my parents are not as good as myself and my husband is separated. I have to go out and work hard to make money, so I can't rely on anyone completely. Since then, I have been working outside, regardless of the salary, no matter how difficult it is.
When I meet something I can't do, or something I'm not good at, and lag behind others, I know I need to work hard. When I do well, I know that I can do better than others as long as I work hard. This is the meaning of hard work.