But if your family situation is average and you live with your in-laws, whether you have children or are going to have children, I suggest you try not to resign immediately. If you are not pregnant, you are going to have a baby soon. If you stay at home and live with your in-laws, your in-laws will dislike your living habits very much.
They will think that you are a freeloader, your son is trying to make money, but you sleep at home every day. She became a housewife before the baby was born. Old people like to find fault with you when they are idle. If you complain to your husband again, he will certainly get tired of you. Your husband must be under a lot of pressure because he is very busy at work and has several families to support. He will think that you are too ignorant to play at home every day and quarrel with the old people.
After many people get married, their husbands may say that you are at home and I support you. We women understand this sentence: I support you. We go shopping every day, go out for a cup of tea, walk with friends and dress ourselves up beautifully. But what men think is, I raised you, and you cleaned the house, washed clothes, cooked meals, mopped the floor, served the elderly and brought children.
If you quit your job, if you don't have private money in your hand. It was a very, very sad day If you have no money, you need to raise your hand to ask for money, while men don't know where you want to spend money at home, and ask for money to buy food and cook every day. After a long time, when you reach out for more time, men begin to ask you where the money is spent. If he knows that you bought a pair of shoes for your mother and a pack of cigarettes for your father, it will be a war.
Many families have this problem. If your husband is always you and you don't make money, don't make conditions there. They always think that we are doing nothing at home. In their view, they are supporting us. In their view, our work is worthless. There will never be someone who fights for money like this one. In many families, whoever makes money is in charge. Those who don't make money are not qualified to negotiate with them.
If it's because of the children, I think you can take two years off and take the children to kindergarten by yourself, but don't forget to study and clean up when you take care of the children. Children can find good jobs in kindergarten and not be eliminated by society. If the other reason is Xiao Ke, Xiao Ke will never listen to men again. I will quit my job and go home to support you.