Please remember to smile at any time.

What I like best is Hua Chenyu's smile. Eyebrows bent, mouth wide open, white teeth irregular. There is always a frank, warm and pure taste.

Someone once told me that when he smiles, you will feel that the whole sky clears up. I was also told that only a person with a very pure heart can show such a pure smile.

Hua Chenyu's heart is unknown to us, but what I want to say today is his smiling attitude.

What will happen when people point at you, when all kinds of comments with personal attacks are overwhelming, when your past is judged by others, when you face a more acute problem, when what you say is distorted and misinterpreted, when you lose your freedom, lose your right to choose independently, and get farther and farther away from the life you once wanted?

Some people are angry, some people cry, some people curse, some people resist, some people are arrogant, and some people become afraid from now on. However, Hua Chenyu laughed from beginning to end. Smile gently, mercilessly, helplessly and calmly. You don't know the anger in his heart, and you don't know the sadness in his bones, because he has been laughing.

From this point of view, he is more conscious than any other artist. He seldom puts joys and sorrows on his face, which is reflected in his gestures. He always said, I can do anything. He always said, don't worry about me. As an audience, he wants to get joy and comfort from artists, instead of going through hardships for others in his difficult and troubled life. And Hua Chenyu, he let people see his devotion and seriousness on the stage, let people see his carefree off the stage, as an artist, he is good enough. Let us often forget that he is only 23 years old.

What was I doing when I was 23?

Just graduated, young and energetic. Angry at social injustice and dismissive of people you don't like. As a result, I suffered a loss, stumbled, hid from crying, collapsed and didn't know how to go on. He already knows what I have studied for many years.

This road of life is more difficult than we imagined, and it is also easier than we imagined. No matter what kind of failure we encounter, what kind of difficulties we face, please remember to smile, which will not make us look more down and out.

Your grievances need not be known to the whole world.

Have you ever had such a moment? Your words and deeds have been maliciously misinterpreted? Your efforts turned out to be ignored? You pay the same amount, but you don't get fair treatment? No one cares about your Excellence, but one of your mistakes has become an excuse to make you a target.

Yes, you have been wronged. You even think the world is desperate.

Since Hua Chenyu appeared on the stage this summer, the fierceness and sharpness of his words have been surpassed by not fade away.

A classmate broke the news that he was an acting school and a handsome guy in private, but he became a nerd in the program. So his previous video photos flowed out one after another and were compared with gossip.

Some passers-by commented that he was obviously a normal college student, but he pretended to be autistic and crazy. Therefore, it is used by a willing heart to carry out personal attacks.

Some media reported that he was a rich second generation, had a gold mine at home and went out to drive a bumblebee. So there is a default insider and family support.

There are major public opinion platforms that describe him as an unborn genius. So his fans began to be moved by the efforts of others and worried about whether others would stay or not.

The evaluation of the judges from all walks of life, you are not as good as before, and I don't know how long you can go like this. So public opinion began to evaluate him.

Talent dried up, so fans began to fear.

People with ulterior motives incite the impulse of not knowing the truth. Fans make rumors, be arrogant and curse. So, some people say it's because his fans make people hate him more and more.

You see, no matter classmates, passers-by, media or fans, they will all become sharp weapons to hurt him. Is he wronged? I think he is wronged. From the first day he came out, he never said that he was a genius, cute, poor or rich. He was forced to become what they wanted to see, but he was accused of something he didn't do.

In the face of such a messy and smoky world, he said nothing.

He never whitewashes himself or defends himself. However, people who understand will always understand.

All right.

When sleeping, I can't see him reciting lyrics at four in the morning and practicing songs at five in the morning. When you wake up, you only see that he is a genius who stays in bed, so he is a genius.

You can't see him wearing a dress for four years. You can't see him insisting on using his small mobile phone that can only send text messages and make phone calls when others are crazy about changing it. What you see is a young master who doesn't know how to take care of himself and doesn't worry about food and clothing, so he is a young master.

You can't see his loneliness, his autism, his fear of crowds and cameras. What you see is that he is a singer who is calm and calm on the stage and has a strong atmosphere. Then he became a singer and became famous before he took part in the competition.

Is that enough? He is such a talented and rich singer with both hardware and software. He was born for the stage!

His grievances never matter whether you know it or not. Because he knows that no one in this society cares whether he is wronged or not.

Therefore, when we feel hard, when we feel wronged, when we complain, please remember to swallow all the emotions back into our stomachs. Your grievances really don't need to be known to the whole world.

Your self-restraint is your most gorgeous appearance.

I made Hua Chenyu's photo into mobile phone wallpaper. My best friend curled her lips when she saw it. It's not handsome.

To be fair, Hua Chenyu is really not handsome.

There are many more handsome, mature, temperamental and tasteful men in the entertainment circle. I once liked an artist, and I felt that his handsomeness was like coming out of a book. The face is like a jade crown, and Yushu Linfeng is talking about such a person, but now I can't help feeling when I watch his movies. He is really old.

So these things, one day you will lose, will have.

But self-restraint is with you all your life.

From the beginning to now, in every competition, no matter whether the judges' opinions are good or bad, you can see that Hua Chenyu listened carefully to the evaluation and then bowed 90 degrees skillfully.

Facing the reporter's aggressiveness, he just laughed it off. "What does money have to do with me?"

He always speaks softly. Attitude is always humble.

Even in the "who do you think is the weakest" competition system deliberately created by the producers for viewing, he just said softly, "I don't like it."

He respects everything that exists in this world, so he said, "Even if a person is tone deaf, his singing can bring happiness to people.". I think this is an art. "

He packaged everything with goodwill. So he said, "Some people must think it's good, and some people think it's not good, right? Then, so I think it doesn't matter, it's normal, I can't make everyone like me. "

He understood the people around him with a pure heart, so he said, "In fact, he (Washington) loves me very much."

He has a pair of eyes full of kindness, so he can see kindness through everything.

If you have seen Hua Chenyu being interviewed, you will admire this boy's high EQ.

Besides EQ, I also saw his self-restraint.

Just like at a banquet, you see a noble and a poor always behave differently, because some manners, some manners and some temperament are deeply rooted in the bone marrow. It is such a long life. You can't imitate it. Self-restraint is so abstract. It is humor, freedom, courtesy, respect, forgiveness, tolerance or warmth.

All this makes him very attractive.

Yes, I used the word charm. Not handsome, not cute Hua Chenyu is like an endless book, you will always find more shining places in him.

You may not be beautiful, but you have to live beautifully.

Humility and pride are both attitudes, but you have to understand when who is more important.

Since ancient times, we have been taught to be modest at all times. But I don't think so.

Hua Chenyu is proud.

As he said, he came to the competition to win the prize.

When he said this, he seemed a little cautious and timid, and suddenly weakened in front of a group of malicious people. But I think what he said is true. He's here to receive the prize.

Later, he said, champion, I will take it if they give it to me.

What he said is not whether he can get it, but whether they will give it or not.

This is his pride. In his mind, he has an evaluation of himself. He knows whether he is good or not, what he wants to express, what he wants and what he doesn't want.

He stood on the stage and belittled his opponent. No other people's hysteria, no pretending to be cool. But I believe everyone present knows that what he said is true.

This is also his pride. The ability is already there, there is no need to repeat it.

However, such a proud person in his bones is actually very humble. There is no contradiction and conflict between these two qualities in him.

He is proud, but he never thinks he is arrogant. He didn't lose himself because he was crowned "genius" by the world. He will learn other people's music, listen to other people's suggestions, practice singing and playing the piano, and learn the guitar.

He stood in front of the judges, he seriously discussed the songs with the teacher, and he listened carefully to the fitness coach's advice on their future life.

Maybe you think all this makes you feel disdainful

Then you can think about yourself, will you be complacent because of everyone's praise? Will you underestimate the enemy because of your own strength? Do you feel tired of being taught by your elders because you feel grown up?

We all walked slowly from this age. But ask ourselves, at this age, we can't protect our proud hearts with humility like him.

We should learn not to be proud when we are modest and not to be modest when we are proud.

Sometimes praising others will make you better.

Do you praise others?

Maybe you will say, anyone can do this.

You will tell others that you are beautiful, you have a good temperament, you have a good figure, and you are amazing.

No, no one will take these same things seriously.

The truth is, I've never seen a child who praises others better than Hua Chenyu.

Lady Gaga. Some people like it, others admire it. Some people think that she has the courage to go her own way, some people think that she leads the fashion, some people think that she is grandstanding, and some people think that she creates gimmicks. But whether you like it or not, she is a big hit.

Such a man is a free man in Hua Chenyu's eyes.

Freedom. What a sacred word. Not only refers to the freedom of behavior, but also refers to the freedom of mind. She never cares about the enthusiasm or cynicism of others, she only lives for herself. You can despise her for acting strangely and dressing strangely, but soon, she will lead the fashion with strength and tell you that you are a fool abandoned by the times.

When a person has the power to create the world, she can have freedom.

Nana. Anyway, some people around me think that she is funny, some people think that she is stupid, some people think that she is too exaggerated, and some people think that she is a fake S. Of course, this does not prevent me from still thinking that she is funny.

Such people are works of art in Hua Chenyu's eyes.

What is a work of art? It is a kind of aesthetics with a certain cultural background and showing taste; It is a spiritual production with autonomy, individuality, creativity and non-repetition. For those who don't appreciate it, it is worthless, but for those who do, it is priceless.

You see, won't you be moved by such a compliment?

Laure Shang. At first, I thought she was also a controversial topic. Some people are crazy about it, and some people hate it. She was silent for quite a long time, and when she stood in front of people again, she was called the mainland version of Lady gaga. Today, however, in the eyes of most viewers, she has faded away from the coat of the draft, and her music is being talked about. At least someone around me will start saying that her music is good.

Such a person is a dream in Hua Chenyu's eyes.

The word dream is often used to describe the wonderful realm of novels. Laure Shang's experience is quite rich. Children who grow up in the alley can know hip-pop, drum set, French major, German as a second language and journalism as a second major. In French-funded enterprises, white-collar workers joined Super Girl when their future was bright, and then terminated their contract vigorously, once falling to the bottom, but miraculously got up and set up their own studio.

Such people are really dreaming.

The first time I heard such a compliment, my only feeling was that Hua Chenyu was a great man, who could see the world you couldn't.

Therefore, we must learn to praise others and feel others with our own hearts in order to see different beauty.