First, the psychological effect related to love 1, dark effect In a dark place, when dating parties can't see each other's expressions clearly, it is easy to reduce their sense of security and create a sense of security. In this case, the possibility of being close to each other is much higher than that in a bright place. 2. Suspension Bridge Effect When a person crosses the suspension bridge in fear, his heart will beat faster involuntarily. If you happen to meet a heterosexual at this time, then he will mistakenly think that the heartbeat caused by this situation is a physiological reaction that the other person makes him feel excited, so it breeds love for the other person. 3. Romeo and Juliet Effect When external forces interfere with the love relationship between two lovers, their feelings will be strengthened and their love relationship will be stronger. 4. The more familiar things you see, the more you like them. 5. Relationships with different social distances have different social distances, which means that social distances can reflect the concentration of our relationship. Then can we push back and use social distance to promote our relationship? It is feasible in a large number of cases. (Emotional counseling can be accompanied by a tutor/letter:) 6. Similarity effect We are more likely to like people in the same field as ourselves. Combined with the psychological effects related to love, we know that if dating can warm up the feelings of both parties, we need to have one or more of these elements. (1) Dark dating site. Two places that can create mood swings. (3) The test and tempering of the two sides is a test place for the two sides to establish stronger cooperative relations. 4 You can see each other more, understand each other's places and promote mutual understanding. ⑤ Make a place with close contact distance. ⑥ Have a lot of elements that both parties may like. Second, what does the other person like? What is the state of your relationship? Lengda has a classic saying: "If she has no experience, take her to see the prosperity of the world. If she has experienced vicissitudes, take her to the Trojan horse ten times." This sentence shows that we should give him something different from his normal life, which is attractive and valuable, and make him feel that being with you can bring different experiences. This is the life he yearns for. Therefore, it is particularly important to analyze whether the date is extroverted or introverted and what kind of dating atmosphere is desirable. At the same time, be clear about what stage your current feelings are in. The development of the relationship needs to be gradual. If it is too big at once, the other party will resent and reject it, which will have the opposite effect. So, choose a dark but suitable communication scene at the beginning of the date; Choose a place with high emotional value and suitable for shortening the distance during the date; Choosing a later date can increase the topics and places of unity and cooperation. Third, the innovative dating location that meets the elements of love warming is 1. The meeting place that meets the first factor is dark: ① an elegant and dimly lit coffee shop; ② Riverside, square, cinema and private cinema have comfortable environment and are suitable for walking at night; ④ Clean bar 2. Meet the second factor of increasing the emotional value of the heartbeat: ① Playground ② Mountain climbing ③ Archery Hall ④ Bowling hall ⑧ Gym ⑧ Go-karting ⑧ Rock climbing ⑨ Badminton and running and other sports ⑨ Music bar ⑩ Indoor skating rink 3. Encounter the third factor * * * Dating place with the exam: ① Escape from the Secret Room ② Real cs ③ Other cooperation and expansion activities ④ Pottery, * * * Handmade 4. Meet the fourth element, and increase the meeting places. 1 photo shoot, 3d art museum, 2 telling the truth adventure, 3 love map, understanding test about each other's questions 5. Meet the fifth factor to bring each other closer: ① disco for two, ② pottery, ③ movies, ④ taverns and specialty snack bars, ④ cooking at home, and 6. Meeting the sixth factor: ① Concert, ② Drama, ④ Art Exhibition, ④ Art Museum, ⑧ Comic-Con Exhibition, ⑧ Wax Museum, ⑨ Visiting IKEA and other home stores, and ⑩ Various competition sites that both parties like. A suitable meeting place can cultivate the intimacy between two people. By absorbing and integrating the above contents, you will know how to make an unconventional fast date and avoid becoming "whatever you want" when you want to date. It's hard to get together. When we are together, we should try different things with * * * and establish deeper ties. The dating location strategy in love makes your feelings warm up quickly. 2. Where to date? 1, the cinema cinema is a relatively closed scene, and the scene is dark, which is more likely to lead to an ambiguous atmosphere. The distance between them is also relatively close. This is a very good dating place, which can warm up in the cinema. A series of complete actions in the movie, from the initial tentative feeding of popcorn to the final kiss, are included. Enter the word "move in" in the official WeChat account, and you can get this super dry goods cheats. 2. Cafe Cafe is a quiet dating place, which is suitable for two people who are just at the stage of understanding to exchange information and get to know each other in such an environment. Girls will feel more secure in the cafe, and your face-to-face communication will more easily release your high value and attract girls. When dating in a coffee shop, you have nothing to show your high value. Just by mouth. At this time, talk to girls about your hobbies and find common points of interest, and then your chat atmosphere will be very pleasant. 3. Bar discos are suitable for bringing some playful and lively girls. They are passionate and like to stimulate their sensory nervous system with music and alcohol. It is very suitable for single dating, and the stall will be extremely high. But bars are not suitable for first meeting. When you are still in the understanding stage, you can go through the understanding stage first. On the next date, invite friends to a bar and make several conversions from static energy field to dynamic energy field. For girls who are a little quieter, it is a good choice to clear the bar, which is not too noisy and atmospheric, and can promote feelings. 4. Where is the snack street date? Snack street is a very good dating place, most girls can't refuse food, and there are many people in the snack street, so you will have many opportunities to take care of her. Hold her hand when the crowd is surging and help him gently protect the people around him from being knocked down. These details can reflect your kindness. Moreover, girls eat all the way, which will make her feel better, and can also see whether girls' consumption concept is correct and suitable for long-term or short-term 5. Amusement Park Amusement Park is a good place for interactive dating. There will be a lot of interaction. The relationship between two single people will warm up quickly because you have a lot of physical contact in the play. However, amusement parks also have many hidden dangers. You should know how to take care of girls and protect their safety, so that girls can feel your sense of security. Second, the dating location selection strategy 1, choose a place you are familiar with. If there is a dating place that you often go to, and the waiters and regulars in it all know you and will say hello to you, then this place will be extra help for you, because it will give you social proof. There is a place where you really want to take her, but you don't know her very well. You can feel the situation by yourself or with your buddies first, know where it is first, don't get lost, then know what is around, and take the girl to the next place again and again. Furthermore, you should know some details of this place, such as where the toilet is, what's on the menu, and whether the waiter serves food slowly or quickly. Let one of the waiters know you and talk briefly, and he may take the initiative to say hello to you next time. 2. Choose a place where you can tell your origin or significance. To put it simply, it doesn't matter where to date, what matters is why to go there. Just like the most newsworthy thing is not what happened, but why it happened. Whoever can dig out the story behind it is a cow. So for a dating place, as long as you can tell her what it is, what it means, or a period of history, any broken place can instantly become a scenic spot or even a holy place in her mind.