A few days ago, Liu Shishi talked openly about his son for the first time in an interview with the Chinese version of KINFOLK magazine. She said:

"The child is almost one year old and his expression is the same every day. A baby's growth is sometimes like a clock that doesn't show time. It's very fast. I slipped away if I was not careful. "

"I used to like diving. I caught a cold when I took the diving certificate. When I went down to a depth of 5 meters, my ears hurt very much. I had to take off my diving goggles first and then put them on, and continue to go deep. The coaches were shocked ... but after having a baby, I never dived again. "

Which woman became a "coward" after becoming a mother? Since having children, mothers dare not get sick, be old or be poor.

In the previous interview, Liu Shishi once talked about the feeling of being a mother:

"Many people think that women can happily take maternity leave after giving birth, but in fact, every mother is very hard and stressed, but she is still very happy to watch her children."

Every mother in this world should be understood and respected.

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Every mother should be loved, understood and respected.

A few days ago, Gao Yuanyuan's post-natal 1 year candid photos were searched hot.

It was originally a warm and happy photo of a family of three. Unexpectedly, the comments were full of malicious sarcasm:

"Why don't you see Gao Yuanyuan? Why does it feel like a nanny?

Sure enough, women lose their temperament when they have children. At first glance, she smells like a mother. I wonder if she is pregnant with a second child or so fat? "

Many mothers cried after reading the comments.

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A treasure mother left a message saying:

"Since I became a mother, I have always felt inferior. Anyone can blame me, which makes me often doubt myself. "

Anyone who knows what it's like to be a mother will not laugh at her with hurtful words.

Last Mother's Day, the actress Ella Ella wrote about the "urinary incontinence" caused by giving birth to a son. She said frankly:

"My labor is a little difficult, so my uterus and bladder prolapse. I sneeze, jump in place, run and other actions will cause urinary incontinence ... The whole pad is wet, and then my pants are wet ... "

Many treasure moms leave messages thanking Ella, saying that they also have "urinary incontinence" after giving birth to a baby, but they are never embarrassed to mention it to others. ...

Earlier, Choo Ja Hyun, 39, gave birth to a son.

As an elderly woman, Choo Ja Hyun first suffered from postpartum spasm, and then caused aspiration pneumonia. She stayed in the intensive care unit for 65,438+02 days ... and crossed the gate of hell again and again.

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The words "mother and child are safe" are hard to come by.

Singer Peng Jiahui gave birth to twin daughters by caesarean section.

I thought everything was going well, but she couldn't urinate normally after delivery, and her uterus couldn't contract, which led to postpartum hemorrhage and soaring blood pressure ... The situation was very dangerous.

The doctor gave her an emergency blood transfusion of 3000CC, which was almost equivalent to a whole blood change ... and then stayed in the intensive care unit for 3 days and 2 nights before saving her life.

In "I am a singer", Peng Jiahui said frankly:

"I even died once before. When I gave birth to twin daughters, my family was almost desperate ... Fortunately, I survived ... It's good to be alive and sing! "

Every mother and child is a friend of life and death.

Every baby can come into this world because her mother gave her the courage to live.

Before, Zhang Xinyi had a toothache during pregnancy, because she couldn't take medicine or give injections during pregnancy, and she could only carry it hard for her children. ...

Weibo blogger @ Fantasy summed up the pain that women may bring during pregnancy and childbirth:

"Pregnancy-induced hypertension, sciatica and morning sickness lead to digestive tract injury, lumbar muscle strain, tenosynovitis, urticaria during pregnancy, phalangeal separation, insomnia, anemia, pre-eclampsia, amniotic fluid embolism, postpartum urinary incontinence, postpartum depression, mastitis (severe pain) and postpartum alopecia ..."

Every mother who has survived pregnancy and childbirth has endless difficulties in her heart.

As Ella said, the role of a mother:

"From the beginning of pregnancy, you may have vomiting, cramp in the middle of the night in the late pregnancy, and take care of the wound until childbirth, breastfeeding, no milk, and even postpartum depression, and so on.

Not only that, I have to take care of the children in this process, and then I see myself in the mirror no longer as before, with my hair falling off, my stomach flabby, my arms thick and my waist empty ... 30 pounds of fat piled on my body and endless work all my life. "

But mom is not superman, and she will encounter difficulties and depression.

Please have more understanding and respect for your mother and less criticism and ridicule.

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In the video, the husband's seemingly ordinary companionship has made many treasure moms envious:

Some people say that when a woman is pregnant and gives birth to a child, this is what a husband should look like, and this is the proper temperature of a home.

Mr Byrd and lady bird.

Before, a father posted on the Internet for help and asked:

"My wife got up at night to nurse and woke me up several times to accompany me. It is really annoying to disturb my sleep. What is my wife's mentality? "

Netizens are one-sided and distressed by their wives:

"You are her husband, don't call you up, don't call Lao wang next door?

As a husband, as the father of the child, shouldn't you and your wife go through everything to raise the child? Do you want to wake up and find that the child can walk and talk? "

I hope every man can feel sorry for his wife and be considerate of his wife.

Don't let her down, risk your life to have a baby for you.

@ Wang Yangming Yangming

A woman is a wife, a mother, and more importantly, yourself.

Ai Mingya wrote in Hey, Thirty:

"A mother told me that she breastfed for one year and worked full-time for three years. The moment she sent her child to kindergarten, she cried ... She felt that she was finally liberated, so humble and tired. ...

30 pounds of fat is on me, and the child who needs 24-hour care hasn't slept for half a year ... I say to myself every day, that's it, no figure, no career, no pursuit, no ideal, and that's it all my life. "

Every woman cries during lactation:

To the left, a good wife and mother, slovenly, sacrificing dedication, and to the right, is a dream that is eager to move, unwilling to be mediocre, and looking for an export. ...

Have you ever experienced such tearing, confusion and struggle?

@ Irene

When children are too young, we need 100% care.

Children will be weaned when they are over one year old. When they arrive at kindergartens, primary schools and universities, they will "leave" us day by day.

Self-discipline, weight loss, yoga, beauty, study ... We can't be unkempt forever, we can't always feel sorry for ourselves, we can't always be locked in this door, we must go out.

We lose weight and beauty, not to please anyone, but to live with a more confident and healthy attitude; We learn to improve, not to pretend to be elegant, but to set an example for our children and better accompany them to grow up.

Zhihu Dong Yao once said:

Some awards are limited by quota. No matter how many people work hard, only a few people work hard to get rewards, such as going to school and playing games.

But some rewards are unlimited, such as fitness and reading. There are countless healthy and knowledgeable people in this world.

Every drop of sweat we shed will leave a beautiful mark on our bodies. ▼

@ Tamia Liu

Self-discipline is difficult, and being a self-disciplined person is really painful.

We need to fight against nature, desire, laziness and procrastination. ...

The choice that can really make people better is uncomfortable.

We are mothers and wives, but we are ourselves.

Go to the gym. Your body is the only thing in the world that can make your investment return. Every drop of sweat you shed and every minute of exercise will make you have a healthier body.

To study, draw, write ... to grow and become a better self.

Maybe you won't see 1 month or two months, but after 1 year or two years, you will find that self-discipline can bring freedom.

How you live a day is how you live your life. If you don't want to accept yourself now and be mediocre all your life, then please start from self-discipline and change yourself. You deserve a better life.

I hope that in the new year, we can all keep our mouths shut and open our legs, so that we can have a better live high and a better life!

After all, in the new year, we must make some progress to be worthy of yesterday, right?