Many couples don't communicate with each other on other issues in life. They can discuss how to buy a house, how to decorate it and how to educate their children. However, they follow the principle of "silence is better than sound" in their sexual life. In most families, the man doesn't care much about the woman's feelings. The man takes the initiative and the woman passively bears it. Through the instrument, there is not a word, but a woman's heart is full of pain. They often feel that they are being used and that they have become a tool for their husbands to vent their desires, because their husbands have not considered her feelings or whether they need sex. Some men's sexual ability is not strong, and they always feel that they can't do it in sexual life, so they often use work, study and physical discomfort as an excuse to avoid sexual life and separate from their wives. In fact, many times, what women need is caress, not necessarily sexual intercourse. Therefore, they take it for granted that sleeping together requires sexual intercourse, which makes the relationship between husband and wife worse and even causes sexual dysfunction because they are afraid of sexual intercourse and escape.
It is a common phenomenon that both husband and wife are healthy and have normal sexual function, but their sexual life is not perfect. According to statistics, a truly harmonious sexual life is often 3-5 years after marriage. It is precisely because the two sides gradually become familiar with each other's needs and feelings through communication and cooperate with each other that a harmonious sexual life is realized.
Some people like to describe women as mountains full of treasures, and people need to constantly develop and explore, while some men often lack the determination and courage to develop and explore, or lack the skills to explore. This skill is communication. Only those who master this skill can get real inexhaustible love from women, and at the same time, it is also a kind of dedication of love.