When chatting with girls, pick up girls experts don't talk nonsense, pretend to comfort girls and pretend to be nice to them.
He knows that chatting with girls is to promote relationships.
He knows that it is the trunk that pulls the relationship in the chat, and all the topics and words are just branches and leaves.
He knows that girls also like men to be "bad" and girls don't like a boring person.
Even if girls sometimes resist, he will still take risks. They are all adventurers in sexual relations. They can accept the lost talent and deserve it, so they will eventually get their beauty back.
And those who dare not take risks, they are always afraid of being rejected, either evaluated as "boring" by girls or reduced to licking dogs.
There are still some people who know that chatting with girls should be promoted, but they just don't know how to promote it, which is mainly reflected in two problems:
1, I don't know when to pull it up?
2, the control is not good?
First, raise the opportunity.
Here are three suggestions:
1, girls pull up when they are in high spirits.
For example, if a girl smiles and says "Ha ha ha ha", you can say "Laugh so happily that everyone around you thinks you are in love." This is a very delicate relationship.
(Networking is not just about saying: I like you, I miss you, I fall in love with you, and there are many art lifts, like the one above)
2, when girls take the initiative to talk about themselves.
Pay attention to the keyword initiative here.
For example, the girl said:
"I went to pay a New Year call today, and grandma's dishes are delicious." Girls take the initiative to tell you about themselves, instead of letting her show that this girl is willing to trust you and even have a good impression on you. At this time, you can say:
"Eat into a little fat man, and I won't be able to hold you then."
3. Pull it up when chatting happily.
Your chat is going well. Be sure to pull it up after the chat.
Maybe when she goes to bed at night, she won't remember what you talked about, but she will remember that you said at the end of the chat, "I forgot the time to chat with you, you grinding little demon!" " "
(This is still a high-end, subtle pull-up relationship)
All the girls are good at cultivating relationships, and they will seize every opportunity to change their relationship with girls from "friend relationship" to "ambiguous relationship".
For example:
1, when the girl says: a little tired.
He will say: lend you a shoulder to lean on.
People who can't get up will say, go to rest.
2. When a girl says: Chinese New Year is so boring. He would say, of course, I'm not even here.
People who don't get promoted will say: you can watch TV dramas.
There are also some people who have a smooth chat with girls, but all they talk about are small topics at home, which will not help you promote your relationship.
Second, the degree of pull-up
Always grasp the degree of not pulling relationships.
For example, he said: pick me up and throw me out (he wants to promote relations) Girl: Why did you throw me out?
He said, I don't feel well about you. Girl: You can't lose that.
What kind of question does this belong to? It is an excessive pull-up relationship. Excessive pull-up relationship will cause negative reactions, making the sister feel:
You are too impatient (impatient men are not attractive)
You have a strong sense of need and purpose.
A dull and boring person always has time to put it away.
You are not challenging.
It's boring to expose your cards so easily.
The relationship between pulling and pulling should be gradual, just like pulling a spring. If you pull too hard, it is easy to break and loosen, and finally the tension can be maximized.
Some brothers may ask, how to respond step by step without overdoing it?
The girl said, "That can't be lost. You can reply: just throw it away and throw it into the kitchen to cook for me. "
In this way, there is an atmosphere of flirting, but it will not be too radical or too fast, which is within the acceptable range of girls, that is, the degree of pulling up the relationship.