But I know that I can talk to so many people because she has a lot to say, so even for different people, she can always get the likes of others immediately.
Take running for example. Sasha jogs 1 hour almost every night, so she just has endless topics with some managers who love sports.
There was once a partner whose mother was in another place, and her daughter happened to take part in a dance competition and needed the help of relatives and friends, but no one around that partner could tango. Reasoning When she was at a loss, Sasha rushed to the front at once. Thanks to her effective help, her partner's daughter won the second prize in the competition that day.
At the beginning of this year, the new boss of the company wanted to set up a reading club so that everyone could enjoy an interesting book every week. However, too few people participated in this idea, because we don't read much in our spare time, only Sasha has extensive knowledge, and she is always familiar with books, both at home and abroad. Besides natural homework, she got more opportunities to communicate with her boss.
Sasha is praised by leaders not only for her excellent professional level in the workplace, but also for her all-round knowledge and numerous hobbies in private.
I have to say that in the workplace, having a hobby not only adds personal charm, but also opens many interpersonal walls at critical moments, which is more conducive to communication with people.
Most of the homework is boring and disgusting in form, so the workplace is generally depressed and serious. In addition, many people always like to gossip about others during homework. Because they have no other interesting topics to talk about, this not only makes the relationship between partners serious, but also is not conducive to their growth in the workplace.
People with hobbies are not only more active in their homework, but also tell funny people and things from their mouths when they are with their partners. This will not only add positive energy to the day, but also make the relationship between partners easier to reconcile.
On May 1 this year, I saw Uncle Wang carrying his luggage to travel alone in the community, while his wife Zhou Jie stayed at home and watched TV every time.
People who don't know think he is bad to his wife, but the reality is that Zhou Jie doesn't like sightseeing. When they met, they thought they were both older and got married in a hurry. I thought that the days after marriage could last for a long time, and the longer the better. I didn't expect that two people usually don't play together or talk together.
Uncle Wang is usually a person with a wide range of hobbies. Every morning, he will go to the community fitness equipment to exercise. After work, he will also play badminton and football with a group of brothers. On weekends, he prefers cycling and running.
In uncle Wang's days, everything he did was fresh and interesting. He likes to try new things and enjoy new scenery. For him, every day is full of interest.
Sister Zhou is a real housewife. Her life is based on her son, husband, vegetable market and mahjong room. Nothing can please her.
Sister Zhou thinks that married people should stop fooling around. It's good to watch soap operas and chew melon seeds at home, but Uncle Wang prefers to be close to nature and breathe the fresh air of the outside world.
When I first got married, I was tolerant of each other, but because I like this thing, I really can't tolerate it. Later, they did what they liked in their spare time. Gradually, the two people became speechless, the communication time together was almost zero, and the pride of nature gradually faded.
It was important for two people to have the same interests. In addition to normal homework and days, everyone will only do what they like at the rated time, whether you like reading, writing, running or even just eating.
In lofty sentiments, the main thing is not what kind of preferences you have, but whether the person you love has the same preferences as you. And the same doesn't mean everything, but at least one focus and topic should be together.
Imagine that between husband and wife, she is not interested in what you love, and you are bored when she loves you. If you play with each other and talk with each other, what else can you use to protect your pride?
Sister Liu is 36 years old this year. Recently, it was rumored that she was going to get married, but she was not too excited and happy, not because she was dissatisfied with the marriage, but because getting married was just a matter of adding wings to the tiger for her. Because even if a person lives, she can turn life into a poem, a distance.
Sister Liu usually has a lot of pressure in her homework. Generally, outside her homework, she especially likes baking, tea art, and maybe she can make some small crafts. It is these little hobbies that prop up her usual boring days.
When Liu Jie was single, every night after work, she would sign up for a flower training class, and then practice herself in colorful flowers to find the bright side of life.
On weekends, she will invite a group of brothers to make cranberries, thumb cakes, popcorn and other snacks for them in the oven at home, and even make birthday cakes for each brother's birthday, which not only makes the girls feel very valued.
Therefore, relying on these hobbies, Sister Liu not only lived her life completely, but also strengthened many brothers, so that her usual life was no longer monotonous and vulgar.
And I fell in love with my current husband because of these hobbies. I remember when they were dating, her husband was not very satisfied with her image at first sight, but when he learned that she had so many hobbies in her spare time, they completely opened their mouths.
He said that after kissing so many times, this girl is the only one who doesn't have to do anything but homework, has something she likes to do and has very independent energy. So the two became more and more congenial.
I still remember Xu once said: "Acting, so far, no matter what time, you always have to do two hours of crafts before going to bed. Slowly found that doing crafts turned out to be the best rest. I devoted myself to it and forgot everything. My mind was full of beautiful fabrics and beads, which was especially beautiful. "
Everyone should have their own preferences in order to resist chicken feathers in ordinary trivial days. You can also be with people near the magnetic field because you like it. There is a saying in the ancients that people should not make friends with them without becoming addicted. When a person has a preference, his talent is very good, and he has a positive and philosophical attitude.
Everyone should have one or two hobbies. In the infighting workplace, in the complicated lofty sentiments, in the days of daily necessities, we can all greet every tomorrow with a very good outlook on energy and attitude towards life.
I remember an excerpt from Liang Qichao's letter to his daughter before he died:
"I have a lot of knowledge to ask many people, and the reason why I can't master it. However, my days are extremely rich, and I can always persevere in my energy and never stop.
Every few hours, I like to turn to a new direction and feel like a new student, such as ascending to heaven and hibiscus emerging from water. I realize that this kind of day is extremely lovely and precious. Although I don't want you to learn from my many shortcomings, at least I hope you can participate in my gorgeous and prosperous interests. "
Perhaps everyone's homework is heavy and boring, everyone's lofty sentiments are always opposed, and life is monotonous and boring.
But if a person has his own preferences, he can withstand the storms of some real days, because preferences will always nourish people's hearts and moisten the soul. People will feel happy and relaxed when they devote their energy and time to the people and things they like.
May each of us find our own hobbies, such as watching flowers in spring, sweeping leaves in autumn, raising birds in summer and burning firewood in winter. Read some idle books and taste some tea, so that every day is full of sunshine, joy and love.
How's this?