On the wedding day: The man called a few talkative men and a little girl (Jiao Jiao Gu Sunan is called by various names in Guannan, generally called the maid of honor. The number of people who pick up the bride, including drivers, bridesmaids, bridesmaids, photographers, etc. Generally, it is odd, seven or nine. When they return after receiving the bride, the numbers are even, which means happiness and pairing. ) Take the wedding car to the woman's home or residence, and go to the woman's home before lunch. All newcomers must have lunch at the woman's house.
After the man's shuttle bus arrives at the woman, the woman first sets off firecrackers, asks for instructions to welcome all the men's shuttlers and informs the neighbors that the men's shuttlers have arrived. The woman will arrange for all relatives to drink milk tea (local cream, biscuits, small fruits, boiled water, etc. ) Prepare lunch after drinking milk tea.
At lunch, all bridesmaids sit at the same table, and the woman will send one or three people of some status (family elders or family cadres) to sit at the same table with the bridesmaids, and the number should be even.
After lunch, the man can pick up the bride from the woman's boudoir. Before entering the boudoir, the bride's good friends and relatives and friends will erect a wall or two in front of the boudoir to congratulate her, and the man is not allowed to pick up the bride in the boudoir. This is called local door blocking. The doorman will make many demands on the bride, such as giving cigarettes and candy. The doorman meets the requirements before allowing the bride to enter to pick up the bride.
After arriving in the boudoir, the man's maid of honor opened the red umbrella already prepared and helped the bride out of the boudoir to get on the wedding car. Before getting on the bus, the bridesmaid should put two big creams on the ground in front of the car door, and the bride's feet should step on the big creams before getting on the bus. After the bride gets on the bus, the bridesmaid puts away her red umbrella and sits in the front row (co-pilot) of the wedding car, and the bride sits in a row.
After the bride gets on the bus, the man's entourage will help the bride carry the bride's dowry from the bride's boudoir to the trunk of the wedding car. At this time, it is necessary to give the bride some money (how much to give, usually until the relatives of the woman agree), which is called moving boxes in local finance.
After the dowry is put on the wedding car, the bride's motorcade can return to the man. When preparing to leave the woman, the woman will set off firecrackers to ask for farewell, and arrange for the bride's brother or brother to ride a bike or motorcycle or drive in front of the bride's motorcade to lead the car off. It's called a local farewell party. Generally, people who bid farewell will drive very slowly, indicating that they are reluctant to part. Generally, they are sent to the village head or stopped for four or five miles to say goodbye to their relatives one by one.
This is probably the custom of getting married in guannan county. I hope I can help you. I am from Xin 'an Town, guannan county, and I have been married for ten years. I haven't been divorced or married twice or three times, so I have no experience. The above is just my understanding of local marriage customs. Please forgive my mistake. In the future, I will have the opportunity to get married twice, three times, four times and five times. I will leave you some more detailed local wedding customs.