The hardest thing in life is not hard work.
Time is a good medicine. If you master it, it is the antidote. If you waste it, it is poison.
Life is not simple, try to be simple. When you can forget your past, cherish your present and be optimistic about your future, you will be at the top of your life.
Empty the burden of the soul and make life easier. Every day, where thinking passes, it is inevitable that some unhappiness will be absorbed into a corner of the soul. Maybe it's just a moment, maybe it's stubborn and eternal, like a dark cloud in a clear sky, disturbing the order of life.
If the corners of your mouth are upturned, tears will not fall. When depressed, let your heart soak in a relaxed atmosphere, and the dirt will slip away dully. Give your mind a bath every day, and life will be refreshing.
Time refuses to turn back, because hope is always ahead. Time is divided into three parts, one is the past yesterday, the other is the urgent present and the other is the mysterious future. Yesterday brought us today, and today leads us to tomorrow.
You can follow yesterday's path, but you will never step on yesterday's footprints. Let go of yesterday, cherish today and focus on the future. Since time will not go back, life should have no regrets. Living in the present is the best choice in life.
The biggest regret in life is the wrong persistence and easy giving up. Sometimes you feel tired because you think too much. You never know, you don't have to be too persistent when things happen, and no one can take anything away. Why bother with a moment or something?
Only by being open-minded and understanding, can we follow the fate, be happy, be free, not anxious, not sad, not troubled, be silent and indifferent, and be happy.
Life, like tea, is a struggle. Sweet is hidden in bitterness, and sweet is brewed in bitterness, so is life. Whether it is bitter or sweet, you know that it is only a temporary feeling, but you may not be able to see the changes in the next moment.
Life is like tea, life is like water, water can make tea change from bitter to sweet, and the tempering of life can make people transcend suffering and taste the sweetness of happiness. Without pain, there is no sweetness. One thought of bitterness, one thought of sweetness, and one thought of turning is hope.
Life is not simple, try to be simple. Time is a good medicine. If you master it, it is the antidote. If you waste it, it is poison. Don't make noise, quietly guard the years; Don't complain, don't regret, despise yourself.
Relax. Take a deep breath. Hold on. Take it. The hardest thing in life is not to work hard or struggle, but to make the right choice. Don't give up, go on step by step and don't let the opportunity slip away.
When you can forget your past, cherish your present and be optimistic about your future, you will stand at the peak of your life.
When you understand that success will not shine on you, failure will not crush you, and dullness will not drown you, you will stand at the peak of your life.
When you cultivate enough to tolerate all the disappointments in life and focus on your own responsibilities rather than interests, you stand at the highest level of spirit.
How can we get closer to the sky without looking up?
Author: Pai Daxin
In my opinion, people spend most of their lives laughing at others and themselves. If secretly laughing at others in private can bring you a little false satisfaction, then I think it is selfish. But after all, I still can't understand, what is the ridicule of myself?
I have such a friend. A long time ago, we were still at school. He always thinks he is great. There are many girls around him all day. Naturally, we have endless breakfasts and drinks every day. Until one day, a fairy-like girl appeared in the next class, and then he changed. He no longer enjoys those steaming love breakfasts, and no one can see him coming back from the stadium, sweating "free" drinks and standing at the door of the classroom. He is no longer the unruly and unrestrained man, but everything remains the same except the girl next door.
The calendar turned page after page for no reason. Finally, one day, he got drunk in our usual bar. Then he mumbled everything. I didn't interrupt him because of that girl, and of course I couldn't get in a word. What I thought I couldn't say with his character floated weakly to my ear. He degraded himself to nothing, and he couldn't see his former self-confidence, the proud teenager. He always regrets how perfect and useless that girl is. Compared with her, she is not inferior at all.
In this way, I don't know how many pale days and nights have passed, and I have started my own life. Finally, one day, encouraged by alcohol paralysis and nicotine, he told her the truth that had been hidden in her heart for many years and was about to be erased by time. I heard that the girl cried that night, but on QQ, I simply replied a few words: "You didn't look up, so I didn't see my admiring eyes." But that time, I never went back.
If you feel humble and feel like a loser, then you have completely lost to life. Maybe God opens a window and expects you to look up at that dreamy cloud that others can't have. It happened that I never thought that what you saw was the weeds just blooming under that window.
Only by looking up can we look into the distance and see the brilliant light; You will see a beautiful distance. Is that majesty that flowers and plants can replace? Perhaps only those who have felt it will think about something we can't understand and expect, just like us ordinary people. Having said that, if one day you really feel the same way, I won't believe that you are still so mediocre, so cynical and proud to sigh that things backfire.
Gu Yan, "No one is perfect without gold". When you look down and feel that you don't have a pair of beautiful shoes, you will never find a child with empty trouser legs in the distance, but his laughter is as sweet as nature.
Perhaps only by looking up slightly will you find that the world is not so helpless, and there is a dazzling light not far ahead.
In ancient times, Li Bai braved the wind and waves, and sometimes and set my cloudy sail straight and bridge the deep, deep sea, the ambition of the deep sea, and the husband's ambition was to go to the sky without the Buddha. I also long for one day, standing on the top of the mountain, the greatness of climbing to the top of the mountain and being insignificant in the world; Looking forward to that day, that kind of towering stands on the waves, and all the flows belong to the sea.
Darkness belongs to darkness, and ash follows ash. Look up, how can you be afraid of sentimentality?
After all, one day, under the erosion of this cruel society, you will stand up straight and raise your head fearlessly, and you will find that the unattainable sky is above.
Don't keep yourself in the "comfort zone"!
Author: Don't make so much noise, I'm bored to death.
The water purifier shop opened at home has always wanted to recruit a female salesman. This job is very simple. I spend most of my time in the store doing back office work and entertaining customers. Only when the store goes out to do large-scale activities, I need help occasionally. The basic salary we offer is not low, plus the lowest business commission, which is higher than the local average. We work eight hours a day, and the time is flexible and relatively free. But it's been almost a year, and no one has been recruited. A few girls came to try it for a day or two, and soon said they couldn't.
A friend who is in charge of recruitment in a local food company told me that the workshop workers in their company work long hours, with three shifts every day and often have to work at night. The salary is also the local average, but the girls who come to apply are overwhelmed. I am puzzled.
The friend smiled: to do your job, you need to learn some professional theoretical knowledge and keep learning, and you have the lowest sales task every month. At present, some people would rather choose a low-paid mechanical job than a job that requires a lot of brain power and continuous learning ability.
Which job pays less and is closer to home? Almost any job that wants to achieve something needs some effort.
You said that teachers are at leisure, but you didn't see their hard work of reading early and studying at night; You said the bosses were all Gao Fushuai, but you didn't see the pressure when they started their own businesses. You said that many sales industries have high salaries, but you didn't see all the hardships they had to go back and forth.
Girls who can only answer the phone at the front desk of the company can only get the corresponding salary. If she wants to break through, she must break the "comfort zone" you set, find the goal, embarrass herself, make herself less comfortable, and keep herself going.
Classmates l and m were both fat when they were studying. They are about 1.8 meters tall and weigh about 200 kilograms. They are called the "left and right protectors" in the class. When I was about to graduate, I saw L's new QQ signature: "Break the comfortable state, be thin or die." Everyone also booed for this, betting that he would become a "deserter" on the road to losing weight like countless times before.
In the third year of graduation, some of our classmates who stayed in this province had a small party. I arrived at the meeting a little late because of the traffic jam that day. As soon as I pushed the door in, my friend's lattice pushed a tall, thin and handsome guy in front of me. I watched it carefully. Wow, it's left guard L. Visually, he is about 140 kg at most. His chubby face became clear and chiseled.
On that day, L brought his own aura and seemed to be the core figure of the party. After three rounds of drinking, he expressed the motivation of fitness.
It's hard to break comfort. When l was worried that he would give up halfway, he directly applied for a job in the gym and became an annual card salesman. He practiced with those fitness coaches every day, refused countless food temptations, shed countless sweat, and finally ushered in his perfect counterattack two years later.
But that's the comfort zone. I used to think that I would die without those dazzling foods, but I ended up living in good health. I used to believe that I could sit and never stand, and I could lie and never sit. As a result, I still had a good time. The adaptability of the body is much stronger than you think.
I have a deep understanding of what I said that day Fitness is an uncomfortable road. It is much easier to stay at home and eat and drink at will than to report to the gym rain or shine. But when comfort becomes a habit, it will be more difficult to break the habit and start over. It is best to try to keep your body in a "comfortable" state. Maybe you will find that leaving the comfort zone is not as difficult as you think.
Human beings are creatures who seek advantages and avoid disadvantages. We often hear the terms "late lazy cancer" and "procrastination". To put it bluntly, laziness and procrastination can make us happy physically and mentally, and we don't want to break the status quo for the time being. It's like a rich girl who has no worries about food and clothing is suddenly asked to go to work-study program on weekends, like an otaku who plays games in the dormitory every day is asked to study day and night to prepare for the exam, and like a person who has to go to work on time every day is asked to work overtime for many days.
One of my friend A's favorite things in recent years is sleeping at home and chasing dramas on weekends, and the heavenly king Lao Tzu also told her not to go out. However, when she changed her favorite job-reporter, she was either on the way to interview or writing articles day and night on weekends. Every time she saw her, she always looked like a chicken blood. I asked her why, and she said it was really wonderful to get out of the fixed mode and beat yourself. She found that she didn't seem as weak as she thought, and her ability was so much worse. The long and comfortable life made her lose herself in the way of "boiling frogs in warm water".
So, are you still going to stay in your "comfort zone"? Maybe when you make up your mind to go out of your comfort zone and do something you have long wanted to do but haven't done yet, you will thank yourself later.